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Defenition of marriage suggests sex before marriage permitted?!

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    siki
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    Peace

    I've just realised something...

    425 If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess And Allah hath full knowledge about your faith.

    So if you don't have the means to marry a free believing woman, then marry the one who you have already signed an oath with?
    Why would the man want to marry a woman if he already has an oath with another woman?

    Now I am backed to confused ???

    God bless

    precisely,

    If you had a right hand possession , that meant that you were rich and well placed , so to start with you should not have had a problem in getting a Mohsinna for marriage.

    If you had a right hand possession, you had an out let, so the second part of aya , which says , if you fear falling in sin, only then you should marry a MMA, but if you could abstain that was better" does not full fill the criteria.

    You are not marrying , your right hand possession, You are marrying some one's right hand possession, with his permission.

    And he (ahel) is being instructed in 24-33 to free her, if she asks a deed in this regard.

    siki

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      Salaam
      To own some human being is equivalent to making him/her slave. All human beings are equal. No one can own anyone.If it occurs it is unislamic. Husband and wife they sign a contract on equal basis. No one owns anyone.Wife is not a "commodity " which you own.
      Regards

      Ma Malakat emnakum are history, exactly like the way we don"t find slaves anymore, but back then, they existed, so why are you surprised? Who are these black people in America ? they were all slaves a century back, Mankind has come a long way brother.

      I think I would have been more surprised if the book did not contain any instruction regarding them.

      siki

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        OK, this is getting weird. Now God is addressing the rejectors. No sane believer will push his girls into prostitution. It is understandable that he will forgive the girls being pushed, but He didn't get mad on the pushers.

        Which world are you living?
        During course of your life , you will get to know many who do that. As for getting mad at pushers, He did forbade them. And when he clearly forbids something, and we do not take heed, better be ready for great repercussions.

        siki

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          Ma Malakat emnakum are history, exactly like the way we don"t find slaves anymore, but back then, they existed, so why are you surprised? Who are these black people in America ? they were all slaves a century back, Mankind has come a long way brother.

          I think I would have been more surprised if the book did not contain any instruction regarding them.

          siki

          Salaam Brother
          Can you produce Quranic evidence for their existence ?
          Regards

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            Salaam Brother
            Can you produce Quranic evidence for their existence ?
            Regards

            about whom?

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              about whom?

              Salaam

              but back then, they existed, so why are you surprised

              Quranic proof for their existence when Quran was revealed.
              Regards

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                Salaam
                To own some human being is equivalent to making him/her slave. All human beings are equal. No one can own anyone.If it occurs it is unislamic. Husband and wife they sign a contract on equal basis. No one owns anyone.Wife is not a "commodity " which you own.
                Regards

                Peace

                I wasn't implying that a man can own a woman. The man was just saying that some people call it a 'possession' when they sign the contract, which he said is wrong, and defintely unislamic! Like I said, I can't remember how he linked it to mma but it was something to do with the signing stage of marriage and that it had nothing to do with 'possessing' the woman.

                precisely,

                If you had a right hand possession , that meant that you were rich and well placed , so to start with you should not have had a problem in getting a Mohsinna for marriage.

                If you had a right hand possession, you had an out let, so the second part of aya , which says , if you fear falling in sin, only then you should marry a MMA, but if you could abstain that was better" does not full fill the criteria.

                You are not marrying , your right hand possession, You are marrying some one's right hand possession, with his permission.

                And he (ahel) is being instructed in 24-33 to free her, if she asks a deed in this regard.

                siki

                Hmmm. Makes sense. I'll think about that.
                Can you give me the verse numbers please so I can check it in Arabic.

                God bless

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                  Salaam
                  Quranic proof for their existence when Quran was revealed.
                  Regards

                  So , I think I have been talking Greek since last few days.

                  Have I even once referred to any Hadith or man made history book? Brother! what I have been talking is Quran , pure Quran, nothing but Quran.

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                    So , I think I have been talking Greek since last few days.

                    Have I even once referred to any Hadith or man made history book? Brother! what I have been talking is Quran , pure Quran, nothing but Quran.

                    Salaam
                    Brother provide the proof then and also how do these MMA exist now.
                    Unless you decide their nature ,you cannot locate them in todays society.
                    Regards

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                      Peace

                      Hmmm. Makes sense. I'll think about that.
                      Can you give me the verse numbers please so I can check it in Arabic.

                      God bless

                      4-25, ---- and marry them with the permission of "Ahlehunna"
                      24-33 --- mimma Ma Malakat emnakum fa katiboohum----
                      References are already there in the post , i think you dont bother to read .

                      siki

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                        Salaam
                        Brother provide the proof then and also how do these MMA exist now.
                        Unless you decide their nature ,you cannot locate them in todays society.
                        Regards

                        I have not come across any MMA or a slave. It is long gone. Future, I dont know, they might be back, Man kind is very cruel by nature. Just wait for the WW-3. ;D

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                          4-25, ---- and marry them with the permission of "Ahlehunna"
                          24-33 --- mimma Ma Malakat emnakum fa katiboohum----

                          References are already their in the post , i think you dont bother to read .

                          siki

                          Well you thought wrong.
                          If I didn't bother to read then I would'nt have bothered to reply.
                          I actually thought that you only gave the verse number for...

                          And he (ahel) is being instructed in 24-33 to free her, if she asks a deed in this regard.

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                            I have not come across any MMA or a slave. It is long gone. Future, I dont know, they might be back, Man kind is very cruel by nature. Just wait for the WW-3. ;D

                            salaam
                            Why do you call them "slaves" ? Why are all of you applying them today when they do not exist .
                            MMA = what is their nature and status according to quran ?
                            Regards

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                              Nisa 23-24-25
                              Prohibited to you (for marriage) are
                              ? your mothers,
                              ? daughters,
                              ? sisters;
                              ? father's sisters,
                              ? mother's sisters;
                              ? brother's daughters,
                              ? sister's daughters;
                              ? foster mothers (who gave you suck),
                              ? foster sisters;
                              ? your wives' mothers;
                              ? your step-daughters residing in your homes from your wives which you have already consummated the marriage with; if you have not consummated the marriage then there is no sin upon you
                              ? the wives of your sons that are from your seed;
                              ? that you join between two sisters except what has already been done
                              for Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful;

                              and permitted for you is what is beyond this, if you are seeking
                              ? with your money
                              ? if you are immune (muhsan)
                              ? not for illicit sex.
                              As for those whom you have already had joy with them, then you shall give them their wage as an obligation. There is no sin upon you for what you agree to after the obligation. God is Knowledgeable, Wise.

                              Also women who are immune (muhsanat) are prohibited for you, except those whom your oaths possess (except those who agree voluntarily) if Allah has written on you so.
                              If any of you have not the physical ability to marry immune women, they may marry believing girls from among those whom your oaths possess(among from those who agree voluntarily) and Allah has full knowledge about your Faith. You are one from another You shall marry them with the permission of their parents and give them their wage in kindness; They shall be
                              ? immune (able to have sex),
                              ? not wanting illicit sex
                              ? not taking lovers.
                              If they become immune (wanting to have sex), then any of them who comes with lewdness shall have half the punishment of what is for the (normal) immune women of the retribution. This is for those who fear hardship from among you. But if you are patient it is better for you, and God is Forgiver, Merciful.

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                                salaam
                                Why do you call them "slaves" ? Why are all of you applying them today when they do not exist .
                                MMA = what is their nature and status according to quran ?
                                Regards

                                We are not applying , we are all quran students like you, we are only studying Quran. Do you want us to abrogate all verses containing MMA?

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                                  Peace Samia,
                                  Please correct any mistakes you may find in my post above Thanks in advance.

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                                    We are not applying , we are all quran students like you, we are only studying Quran. Do you want us to abrogate all verses containing MMA?

                                    Please first answer my question.
                                    What is the exact nature of MMA according to Quran? Unless their nature is established ,how we can now that is applicable today or not ?
                                    Regards

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                                      siki
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                                      Thelps

                                      By the way , you are missing one , in 4-22. wives of your fathers.

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                                        Please first answer my question.
                                        What is the exact nature of MMA according to Quran? Unless their nature is established ,how we can now that is applicable today or not ?
                                        Regards

                                        How about you doing some work , and aprising us all ?

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                                          Please first answer my question.
                                          What is the exact nature of MMA according to Quran? Unless their nature is established ,how we can now that is applicable today or not ?
                                          Regards

                                          Tell me something , Do you salat?

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