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    Meteora
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    But the point of the verse is to leave it the women to determine what it is they think they should cover. It should NEVER be left for the man to interpret it, period. That causes women wearing Burkhas in Afghanistan.

    Afghan man "Oh! The hands! I see her hands! Man gets an erection Cover her hand! Cut off her hand!", etc.

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      I think the "zeena" of women is what's specific to them breasts and bums, and what makes them pretty/attractive.

      I think it refers to everything and rather than to actual things to the function they are given Show, show off. I think that that the aya deals en great measure with vanity, and sexual trappings, when there is vanity, are a great part of it, and usually go hand in hand with other highlighters like apparel and jewellery and make up and surgery...

      Salaam

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        I think it refers to everything and rather than to actual things to the function they are given Show, show off. I think that that the aya deals en great measure with vanity, and sexual trappings, when there is vanity, are a great part of it, and usually go hand in hand with other highlighters like apparel and jewellery and make up and surgery...

        Salaam

        I partially agree with you, but when it comes to "apparel and jewellery and make up and surgery", women are not alone in that. Why aren't men commanded not to show them off? Or you think women do not have similar desires?

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          Peace Sister

          "Zeena" in the qur'aan can be a natural part of what is mentioned. It can also be a huge wealth, not earrings or bracelets. It may also be specific to what it relates to

          376

          Surely We have adorned the nearest heaven with an adornment, the stars,

          187

          Surely We have made whatever is on the earth an embellishment for it, so that We may try them (as to) which of them is best in works.

          3328

          If you desire this world's life and its adornment

          2860

          only a provision of this world's life and its adornment

          1115

          Whoever desires this world's life and its finery

          1846

          Wealth and children are an adornment of the life of this world;

          168

          And (He made) horses and mules and asses that you might ride upon them and as an ornament

          732

          Say Who has prohibited the embellishment of Allah which He has brought forth for His servants and the good provisions?

          1828

          Know that this world's life is only sport and play and gaiety and boasting among yourselves, and a vying in the multiplication of wealth and children,

          2879

          So he went forth to his people in his finery. Those who desire this world's life said O would that we had the like of what Qaroun is given; most surely he is possessed of mighty good fortune.

          1088

          And Musa said Our Lord! surely Thou hast given to Firon and his chiefs finery and riches in this world's life,

          1024

          until when the earth puts on its golden raiment and it becomes garnished

          But when clothes are mentioned, it becomes something else reesh

          726

          O children of Adam! We have indeed sent down to you clothing to cover your shame, and (clothing) for beauty and clothing that guards (against evil), that is the best. This is of the communications of Allah that they may be mindful.

          I think the "zeena" of women is what's specific to them breasts and bums, and what makes them pretty/attractive.

          Definitely "Zeena" refers specifically to women's curve of the bums , the breasts ( no cleavage ) showing and nothing to do with jewellery or any other adornments , for 732 rules that out .

          Peace

          almarh0m

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            Peace Wakas,

            Thank you for your detailed answer. It not only helped me improve my understanding of 2431, but it also reminded me to be careful when trying to understand the quran.

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              Peace

              For "Hijab to be Mandatory" there has to be words of 'head' and 'hair' in 2431 , can you see these 2 words in 2431 ?

              " Wa Qul Lilmu'uminti Yaghuna Min 'Abrihinna Wa Yafa?na Furjahunna Wa L Yubdna Znatahunna 'Ill M ?ahara Minh Wa Laribna Bikhumurihinna Al? Juybihinna Wa L Yubdna Znatahunna 'Ill Libulatihinna 'Aw 'b'ihinna 'Aw 'b'i Bulatihinna 'Aw 'Abn'ihinna 'Aw 'Abn'i Bulatihinna 'Aw 'Ikhwnihinna 'Aw Ban 'Ikhwnihinna 'Aw Ban 'Akhawtihinna 'Aw Nis'ihinna 'Aw M Malakat 'Aymnuhunna 'Awi At-Tbina Ghayri 'l Al-'Irbati Mina Ar-Rijli 'Awi A-ifli Al-Ladhna Lam Ya?har Al? Awrti An-Nis' Wa L Yaribna Bi'arjulihinna Liyulama M Yukhfna Min Znatihinna Wa Tb 'Il? Allhi Jaman 'Ayyuh Al-Mu'uminna Laallakum Tuflin " .

              " And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks and guard their private parts and do not display their ornaments except what appears thereof, and let them wear their coverings over their bosoms, and not display their ornaments except to their husbands or their fathers, or the fathers of their husbands, or their sons, or the sons of their husbands, or their brothers, or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or those whom their right hands possess, or the male servants not having need (of women), or the children who have not attained knowledge of what is hidden of women; and let them not strike their feet so that what they hide of their ornaments may be known; and turn to Allah all of you, O believers! so that you may be successful " (2431 ) .

              It is not the best translation there is but as we can see in the Arabic text there is no word 'head' or 'hair' in the verse , unless some expert in Arabic can show us their presence in it .

              Peace

              almarh0m

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                Supernaut what do you mean by feet wide apart what verse are you talking about?

                I think the traditional hijab does have reflection of culture, I don?t think it goes against islam. I think it?s a personal choice as the Quran doesn?t command women to cover their hair.

                Look at muslims around the word, they all have different hijab styles, I think it?s a reflection of culture.

                I wore hijab because I thought of it as an Islamic obligation a part of submitting to the duty of God, but I was younger than I didn?t know much.. I still don?t think it?s bad. IF I think about taking it off now other than feeling totally uncomfortable I think I would fear my own actions in ways.

                Wearing the hijab is a symbolic identity, so as I wear it I reflect on my actions it keeps me cautious/wary of them. Also I grew up in a sunni household so my perceptions maybe are more stricter. So in ways I think I bet I could attract more people without hijab but that?s not necessarily a good thing, so it?s probably better I wore hijab. I don?t regret wearing it.

                I don?t get why people make a big fuss about it. I mean it?s either you want to wear it or you don?t.

                Peace Sarah, I like your outlook on hijab.
                The problem I have is most Sunni/Shia Muslims will view a non-hijabi as "non-religious" or categorize them as being less pious and less of a "good Muslim" compared to a hijabi. They're judging based on appearance only. And then when one gives the argument about the Qur'an not specifying hair they accuse you of not obeying Allah. So as you said, it's a personal choice - but most Muslims say you chose to obey Allah, or you chose to disobey Allah. Hope that makes sense. P

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                  I partially agree with you, but when it comes to "apparel and jewellery and make up and surgery", women are not alone in that. Why aren't men commanded not to show them off? Or you think women do not have similar desires?

                  What desires you mean? I wasn't talking about any desires. I was talking that women are characteristically far more trapped in vanity, that kind of vanity, than men. In fact women are so much trapped and society is so agreable that women be trapped that for many people in fact that is a proof of feminity. And the fact that women are not alone in surgery and the other things, does not mean that they make up the bulk, and that fashion industry and cosmetics are in a great proportion discharched on women and averybody seem to see that as natural and promotable and tends to expect if o a woman. And many women fall for it. So Qur'an hels them not to become a prey of that.

                  Salaam

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                    Aynur

                    Thanks ) everyone is entitled to go in the direction they choose to go and yes what you said makes sense.

                    I know that most sunni/shia muslims will view non-hijabs as not religious because of the connotations associated with a girl wearing the hijab. It?s like a formed stereotype..

                    If you look at the muslim world for example in particular Australia (I can relate to that not sure about other places) around 10 years ago, the concept of hijab wasn?t as heavy as it is now. Before it would be normal to see older women not wearing hijab and if a younger girl did wear it, it would be like ?oh so cute?.

                    Now a days if people don?t wear it they consider it like disrespect of the self or as arabs say ?3aab? like rude? it?s like she has no humility. It?s turned into a social concept more than a religious duty of what is right and wrong for a particular age. It?s similar in western /non muslim societies in which they comment on a older lady dressed like a ?teenager?.

                    Unfortunately people do tend to judge on appearance but that doesn?t start or end on muslims. Basically you can?t change that but you can change people?s views of you through your deeds, your actions. I have a sister who doesn?t wear the traditional hijab and people say ?oh shes so nice and kind hearted and good and this and that, but she doesn?t wear hijab?. They throw it in as a comment as if she is neglecting something but they recognise her good attributes. So be it, if you try to please everyone you?ll die a failure and miserable.

                    Maybe you can say yes I don?t wear the traditional hijab but I do my best in following the command of God by wearing longer garments.. for example. Maybe suggest it?s not about choosing to disobey Allah because I am obeying his command (refer back to the particular verse) and besides none of us a free from sin. Challenge them to prove you?re disobeying? Maybe?

                    Why I believe hijab isn?t such a bad thing is well it does reflect an identity that I am a muslim, and it reflects my culture. I do not believe Quran is against culture but is against enforcing culture as a religious obligation or that placing it above your duty..

                    Take this verse for example
                    4913 (Asad) O men! Behold, We have created you all out of a male and a female, and have made you into nations and tribes, so that you might come to know one another. Verily, the noblest of you in the sight of God is the one who is most deeply conscious of Him. Behold, God is all-knowing, all-aware.

                    I?m no expert at tafsir but to me it?s like our cultures are part of our identity, you can take and leave what you don?t like but it doesn?t mean you need to expel it out of your life, inevitably you will have influences.

                    Muslims around the world reflect hijab differently, take for example people from Pakistani, India, Bangladesh, their sari?s don?t exactly cover their hair (completely) but they wear it, they reflect their identity and I guess to them that is respecting their identity.

                    In Iran and Emirates women show the tops of their hair (not all). like in emirates women would wear long abaya?s long loose dresses generally all black and then have a scarf styled with half their hair styled and like 10kgs of makeup haha off course not all people do it like that though it?s a common practice.

                    In Saudi Arabia I got told by a brother who used to live there that there are areas in which women do not cover their faces, and that the face covering is very cultural based, and that if a women decided not to walk out covered they?d find it offensive. I know Saudi likes to spin off a religious association to it, but it reflects culture.

                    Again not all people choose to follow this cause of identity. Also something to keep in mind culture changes through generations.
                    As I said before I wore hijab because I thought it was a religious obligation. This is what I was taught, that muslim women wear the scarf. So I thought I must do this. I wore it before my mother wore it, I didn?t question the need to research that this is a religious obligation, I trusted my teachers, I was still a kid so I accepted her word and decided to wear it. Funnily my parents were against me wearing it which made me want to wear it even more. Then they decided if I wanted to wear it, it was my choice. So I wore it.

                    So the way I wear hijab covers the necessary besides that I gain respect in my community. To me it?s like a reminder, I have an identity automatically associated upon me, my actions are important so I am more conscious of them. because I wouldn?t want to represent myself in a bad light to give other muslims a bad rep. So it keeps me focused. I?ve been wearing it for almost 14 yrs? to just take it off wouldn?t be comforting also I have other external influences which would compel me to keep wearing it.

                    ok that's abit long i'll leave it there

                    Salam )

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                      Aynur

                      Thanks ) everyone is entitled to go in the direction they choose to go and yes what you said makes sense.

                      I know that most sunni/shia muslims will view non-hijabs as not religious because of the connotations associated with a girl wearing the hijab. It?s like a formed stereotype..

                      If you look at the muslim world for example in particular Australia (I can relate to that not sure about other places) around 10 years ago, the concept of hijab wasn?t as heavy as it is now. Before it would be normal to see older women not wearing hijab and if a younger girl did wear it, it would be like ?oh so cute?.

                      Now a days if people don?t wear it they consider it like disrespect of the self or as arabs say ?3aab? like rude? it?s like she has no humility. It?s turned into a social concept more than a religious duty of what is right and wrong for a particular age. It?s similar in western /non muslim societies in which they comment on a older lady dressed like a ?teenager?.

                      Unfortunately people do tend to judge on appearance but that doesn?t start or end on muslims. Basically you can?t change that but you can change people?s views of you through your deeds, your actions. I have a sister who doesn?t wear the traditional hijab and people say ?oh shes so nice and kind hearted and good and this and that, but she doesn?t wear hijab?. They throw it in as a comment as if she is neglecting something but they recognise her good attributes. So be it, if you try to please everyone you?ll die a failure and miserable.

                      Maybe you can say yes I don?t wear the traditional hijab but I do my best in following the command of God by wearing longer garments.. for example. Maybe suggest it?s not about choosing to disobey Allah because I am obeying his command (refer back to the particular verse) and besides none of us a free from sin. Challenge them to prove you?re disobeying? Maybe?

                      Why I believe hijab isn?t such a bad thing is well it does reflect an identity that I am a muslim, and it reflects my culture. I do not believe Quran is against culture but is against enforcing culture as a religious obligation or that placing it above your duty..

                      Take this verse for example
                      4913 (Asad) O men! Behold, We have created you all out of a male and a female, and have made you into nations and tribes, so that you might come to know one another. Verily, the noblest of you in the sight of God is the one who is most deeply conscious of Him. Behold, God is all-knowing, all-aware.

                      I?m no expert at tafsir but to me it?s like our cultures are part of our identity, you can take and leave what you don?t like but it doesn?t mean you need to expel it out of your life, inevitably you will have influences.

                      Muslims around the world reflect hijab differently, take for example people from Pakistani, India, Bangladesh, their sari?s don?t exactly cover their hair (completely) but they wear it, they reflect their identity and I guess to them that is respecting their identity.

                      In Iran and Emirates women show the tops of their hair (not all). like in emirates women would wear long abaya?s long loose dresses generally all black and then have a scarf styled with half their hair styled and like 10kgs of makeup haha off course not all people do it like that though it?s a common practice.

                      In Saudi Arabia I got told by a brother who used to live there that there are areas in which women do not cover their faces, and that the face covering is very cultural based, and that if a women decided not to walk out covered they?d find it offensive. I know Saudi likes to spin off a religious association to it, but it reflects culture.

                      Again not all people choose to follow this cause of identity. Also something to keep in mind culture changes through generations.
                      As I said before I wore hijab because I thought it was a religious obligation. This is what I was taught, that muslim women wear the scarf. So I thought I must do this. I wore it before my mother wore it, I didn?t question the need to research that this is a religious obligation, I trusted my teachers, I was still a kid so I accepted her word and decided to wear it. Funnily my parents were against me wearing it which made me want to wear it even more. Then they decided if I wanted to wear it, it was my choice. So I wore it.

                      So the way I wear hijab covers the necessary besides that I gain respect in my community. To me it?s like a reminder, I have an identity automatically associated upon me, my actions are important so I am more conscious of them. because I wouldn?t want to represent myself in a bad light to give other muslims a bad rep. So it keeps me focused. I?ve been wearing it for almost 14 yrs? to just take it off wouldn?t be comforting also I have other external influences which would compel me to keep wearing it.

                      ok that's abit long i'll leave it there

                      Salam )

                      Salaam sister
                      I agree there is no harm in using head cover "Khimaar"
                      Regards

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                        Salam brother,

                        cool, I know lots of people are totally against it. what do you think of people who wear it and take it off?

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                          Salam brother,

                          cool, I know lots of people are totally against it. what do you think of people who wear it and take it off?

                          Salaam sister
                          I am not a "muftee" or "scholar" to give some opinion.But as you pointed out it is considered to be very nice and respectable in certain societies.
                          One should not criticize either way.
                          Regards

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                            peace,

                            Salaam sister
                            I agree there is no harm in using head cover "Khimaar"
                            Regards

                            head cover is only one possible meaning of "khimaar", and when the evidence is weighed, the lesser likely meaning. The more likely meaning is simply any "cover". See
                            http//misconceptions-about-islam.com/dress-code-women-veil.htm
                            http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=8900.msg196721#msg196721

                            All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                              almarh0m
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                              Salam

                              Was there a mention of "head" or "hair" in 2431 and for it to be covered or did I miss something here ?

                              almarh0m

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                                peace,

                                head cover is only one possible meaning of "khimaar", and when the evidence is weighed, the lesser likely meaning. The more likely meaning is simply any "cover". See
                                http//misconceptions-about-islam.com/dress-code-women-veil.htm
                                http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=8900.msg196721#msg196721

                                Dear Brother
                                These websites have no authority.Please consult lane's lexicon page 809 and see which is the primary meaning of "khimaar".
                                Regards

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                                  What desires you mean? I wasn't talking about any desires. I was talking that women are characteristically far more trapped in vanity, that kind of vanity, than men. In fact women are so much trapped and society is so agreable that women be trapped that for many people in fact that is a proof of feminity. And the fact that women are not alone in surgery and the other things, does not mean that they make up the bulk, and that fashion industry and cosmetics are in a great proportion discharched on women and averybody seem to see that as natural and promotable and tends to expect if o a woman. And many women fall for it. So Qur'an hels them not to become a prey of that.

                                  Salaam

                                  When I responded to your post, I had this verse in my mind

                                  3359

                                  O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the women of the believers, that they should cast their outer garments over their persons which is more convenient that they should be known and not harmed. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

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                                    peace,

                                    Dear Brother
                                    These websites have no authority.Please consult lane's lexicon page 809 and see which is the primary meaning of "khimaar".
                                    Regards

                                    So Lane's Lexicon has more authority than another source? Is that what it says in your Quran? My authority is Al Quran and what God has given me to understand it.

                                    But thanks for indirectly admitting "khimaar" not only means "headcover" by your telling use of "primary meaning".

                                    All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                      peace,

                                      So Lane's Lexicon has more authority than another source? Is that what it says in your Quran? My authority is Al Quran and what God has given me to understand it.

                                      But thanks for indirectly admitting "khimaar" not only means "headcover" by your telling use of "primary meaning".

                                      Dear Brother
                                      How does Quran come in ?
                                      You quoted some websites which from my point of view are unreliable.
                                      This is question of liguistic meanings.Quran is in Arabic language so that we can understand..So you have to know the Arabic language to establish its meanings. The Primary meaning of "Khimaar" is "head cover".
                                      Provide some reliable linguistic evidence. Most welcome but not "www.bla bla bla.com.
                                      Regards

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                                        Almarh0m
                                        It doesn?t say head or hair unless you believe ? ? refers to hair/head.

                                        Q_student
                                        I don?t think he was stating whether it has authority or not he was just showing that khimar has other meanings than head cover.
                                        Also what gives lexicon the authority?

                                        Huruf what verse were you talking about?

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                                          peace,

                                          Dear Brother
                                          How does Quran come in ?
                                          You quoted some websites which from my point of view are unreliable.
                                          This is question of liguistic meanings.Quran is in Arabic language so that we can understand..So you have to know the Arabic language to establish its meanings. The Primary meaning of "Khimaar" is "head cover".
                                          Provide some reliable linguistic evidence. Most welcome but not "www.bla bla bla.com.
                                          Regards

                                          I will tell you how The Quran comes into it. Assuming that both you and I try to follow The Quran, when you said source XYZ has no authority and referred me to Lane, I asked is that what it says in your Quran? i.e. does it tell you how to distinguish how one source has more authority than another and thus reject one over the other? If you cannot answer this question with reference to The Quran, then we can only assume your rejection of one source over another has no Quranic basis, that was my point.

                                          Perhaps if you had bothered to read the link, you would have seen it provides verses from The Quran and linguistic evidence. Does your Quran teach you to reject without reading/consideration? If so, please tell us where, so we can distinguish who is a follower of The Quran and who is not.

                                          Linguistic meaning is only one part. If it was only a matter of linguistics as you seemingly allege, then why does The Quran ask us to utilse other avenues of knowledge/experience/information/etc See this link for the relevant verses from The Quran.
                                          Thus, knowing Arabic is only one part. This is an undisputable Quranic FACT.

                                          But do not worry, we all have our chains to break, including me. As Voltaire says "it is difficult to free fools from the chains they revere".

                                          All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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