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Do you believe hijab is mandatory?

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    Wakas
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    peace,

    Salaam sister
    I agree there is no harm in using head cover "Khimaar"
    Regards

    head cover is only one possible meaning of "khimaar", and when the evidence is weighed, the lesser likely meaning. The more likely meaning is simply any "cover". See
    http//misconceptions-about-islam.com/dress-code-women-veil.htm
    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=8900.msg196721#msg196721

    All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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      almarh0m
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      Salam

      Was there a mention of "head" or "hair" in 2431 and for it to be covered or did I miss something here ?

      almarh0m

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        peace,

        head cover is only one possible meaning of "khimaar", and when the evidence is weighed, the lesser likely meaning. The more likely meaning is simply any "cover". See
        http//misconceptions-about-islam.com/dress-code-women-veil.htm
        http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=8900.msg196721#msg196721

        Dear Brother
        These websites have no authority.Please consult lane's lexicon page 809 and see which is the primary meaning of "khimaar".
        Regards

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          Samia
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          What desires you mean? I wasn't talking about any desires. I was talking that women are characteristically far more trapped in vanity, that kind of vanity, than men. In fact women are so much trapped and society is so agreable that women be trapped that for many people in fact that is a proof of feminity. And the fact that women are not alone in surgery and the other things, does not mean that they make up the bulk, and that fashion industry and cosmetics are in a great proportion discharched on women and averybody seem to see that as natural and promotable and tends to expect if o a woman. And many women fall for it. So Qur'an hels them not to become a prey of that.

          Salaam

          When I responded to your post, I had this verse in my mind

          3359

          O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the women of the believers, that they should cast their outer garments over their persons which is more convenient that they should be known and not harmed. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

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            Wakas
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            peace,

            Dear Brother
            These websites have no authority.Please consult lane's lexicon page 809 and see which is the primary meaning of "khimaar".
            Regards

            So Lane's Lexicon has more authority than another source? Is that what it says in your Quran? My authority is Al Quran and what God has given me to understand it.

            But thanks for indirectly admitting "khimaar" not only means "headcover" by your telling use of "primary meaning".

            All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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              peace,

              So Lane's Lexicon has more authority than another source? Is that what it says in your Quran? My authority is Al Quran and what God has given me to understand it.

              But thanks for indirectly admitting "khimaar" not only means "headcover" by your telling use of "primary meaning".

              Dear Brother
              How does Quran come in ?
              You quoted some websites which from my point of view are unreliable.
              This is question of liguistic meanings.Quran is in Arabic language so that we can understand..So you have to know the Arabic language to establish its meanings. The Primary meaning of "Khimaar" is "head cover".
              Provide some reliable linguistic evidence. Most welcome but not "www.bla bla bla.com.
              Regards

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                SarahY
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                Almarh0m
                It doesn?t say head or hair unless you believe ? ? refers to hair/head.

                Q_student
                I don?t think he was stating whether it has authority or not he was just showing that khimar has other meanings than head cover.
                Also what gives lexicon the authority?

                Huruf what verse were you talking about?

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                  Wakas
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                  peace,

                  Dear Brother
                  How does Quran come in ?
                  You quoted some websites which from my point of view are unreliable.
                  This is question of liguistic meanings.Quran is in Arabic language so that we can understand..So you have to know the Arabic language to establish its meanings. The Primary meaning of "Khimaar" is "head cover".
                  Provide some reliable linguistic evidence. Most welcome but not "www.bla bla bla.com.
                  Regards

                  I will tell you how The Quran comes into it. Assuming that both you and I try to follow The Quran, when you said source XYZ has no authority and referred me to Lane, I asked is that what it says in your Quran? i.e. does it tell you how to distinguish how one source has more authority than another and thus reject one over the other? If you cannot answer this question with reference to The Quran, then we can only assume your rejection of one source over another has no Quranic basis, that was my point.

                  Perhaps if you had bothered to read the link, you would have seen it provides verses from The Quran and linguistic evidence. Does your Quran teach you to reject without reading/consideration? If so, please tell us where, so we can distinguish who is a follower of The Quran and who is not.

                  Linguistic meaning is only one part. If it was only a matter of linguistics as you seemingly allege, then why does The Quran ask us to utilse other avenues of knowledge/experience/information/etc See this link for the relevant verses from The Quran.
                  Thus, knowing Arabic is only one part. This is an undisputable Quranic FACT.

                  But do not worry, we all have our chains to break, including me. As Voltaire says "it is difficult to free fools from the chains they revere".

                  All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                    Almarh0m
                    It doesn?t say head or hair unless you believe ? ? refers to hair/head.

                    Q_student
                    I don?t think he was stating whether it has authority or not he was just showing that khimar has other meanings than head cover.
                    Also what gives lexicon the authority?

                    Huruf what verse were you talking about?

                    Respected sister.
                    This is not the question.
                    Arabic is very vast language.For "cover" there are more "Fifty words".For Reference please see "Thesaursu of Arabic" by Dr Hanna Ghalib.Al-Quran used particularly this word avoiding words which only mean "cover"."Khimaar" and "Naseef" are particularly used for "head cover".
                    The Dictionaries of Classical arabic are unanimous in its meaning of "Head Cover"

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                    As far as websites are concerned ,you can find every sort of website even those which are against Quran and God.

                    Regards

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                      peace,

                      I will tell you how The Quran comes into it. Assuming that both you and I try to follow The Quran, when you said source XYZ has no authority and referred me to Lane, I asked is that what it says in your Quran? i.e. does it tell you how to distinguish how one source has more authority than another and thus reject one over the other? If you cannot answer this question with reference to The Quran, then we can only assume your rejection of one source over another has no Quranic basis, that was my point.

                      Perhaps if you had bothered to read the link, you would have seen it provides verses from The Quran and linguistic evidence. Does your Quran teach you to reject without reading/consideration? If so, please tell us where, so we can distinguish who is a follower of The Quran and who is not.

                      Linguistic meaning is only one part. If it was only a matter of linguistics as you seemingly allege, then why does The Quran ask us to utilse other avenues of knowledge/experience/information/etc See this link for the relevant verses from The Quran.
                      Thus, knowing Arabic is only one part. This is an undisputable Quranic FACT.

                      But do not worry, we all have our chains to break, including me. As Voltaire says "it is difficult to free fools from the chains they revere".

                      Dear Brother
                      Every translater provides his own thought in translations.One example you can see in one thread of this forum that one gentleman is providing Quranic certificate for PRostitution.Should we accept it ? Websites are not equavalent to Quran.
                      Regards

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                        SarahY
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                        Ok I am confused.

                        I know Arabic has a number of words that mean the same thing or at least similar. Now what are you saying khimar means ?head cover? alone?

                        I?m not affluent in my Arabic so tell me the first line is supposed to be the reference or something else?

                        Ok the first reference refers to head and rest of body

                        The second confused me the brides tiara/crown? That does go on the head but doesn?t exactly cover it. so they refer it as a khimar as well?

                        I don?t understand the 3rd one. you say naseef means head cover too..

                        Last one refers to her head and everything else..

                        Also khumouron? Doesn?t that mean alcohol or is this like some root word or a word that has dual meanings or something?

                        So what are you saying based on these classical dictionaries khimar can only mean head cover?

                        so i guess your opinion on this matter is that a head cover is an obligation.

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                          Q_student
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                          Ok I am confused.

                          I know Arabic has a number of words that mean the same thing or at least similar. Now what are you saying khimar means ?head cover? alone?

                          I?m not affluent in my Arabic so tell me the first line is supposed to be the reference or something else?

                          Ok the first reference refers to head and rest of body

                          The second confused me the brides tiara/crown? That does go on the head but doesn?t exactly cover it. so they refer it as a khimar as well?

                          I don?t understand the 3rd one. you say naseef means head cover too..

                          Last one refers to her head and everything else..

                          Also khumouron? Doesn?t that mean alcohol or is this like some root word or a word that has dual meanings or something?

                          So what are you saying based on these classical dictionaries khimar can only mean head cover?

                          so i guess your opinion on this matter is that a head cover is an obligation.

                          Dear Sister
                          "Khimaar " is very specific word for "female head cover". "Naseef" is used for both male and female head cover.
                          There are so many Non specific words in 'Arabic for "cover".But Quran specifically used this word for female that they should cover their breasts with "Khimaar".
                          Just imagine if someone asks you please pick up such and such person from the airport in your "car", then it is understood you are having and using that car that is why you are being asked to pick up in "your car".
                          In the same way It is understood that "khimaar " was being used by females as head covers and Quran instructed females to cover their breasts with that "Khimaar".
                          Otherwise Quran would have used some non specific word so that this confusion is not created. Quran says it is Clear and there is no Crookeness.

                          Regards

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                            Wakas
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                            peace Qstudent,

                            Thanks for displaying the strength of your argument by not answering my questions or responding to my points.

                            "Websites are not equavalent to Quran."? Thanks for the insight. Speaking of websites and insights, I also have one having sight is not equivalent to seeing.

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                            sister Sarah,

                            There is no need to be confused. For sake of argument, let's say ALL Classical Arabic Dictionaries (CAD) in the entire world state "khimaar" means "headcover", and if we wish to use non-Quranic evidence such as this, why not look to the traditional ahadith which clearly show it does not mean "headcover". Better yet, why not carbon date the two sources CAD versus ahadith, let's see which is older. If we find ahadith is older, then bingo, this will critically damage CAD's case. If we find ahadith are newer than CAD, then we can only assume someone forged these ahadith to give a more lenient meaning to khimaar in some sort of pro-women feminist conspiracy! And no-one said "hey, wait a second, khimaar does not mean any cover, who forged these ahadith?" As we can all see this is nonsensical, but quite amusing I might add.

                            Of course, the above is a sideline. AQ weights the answer in favour of "khimaar" not meaning "headcover", this is fact. Thus, it will come down to what a person gives more weight to, what AQ says or what CAD says (even if we assume they all say the same thing). Qstudent has already made clear what he takes as his authority.

                            All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                              SarahY
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                              Haha the argument could be non ending

                              Off course Wakas we should take account of what Quran states otherwise we?d be following definitions of meanings from people not Quran.

                              Q_student
                              Yes Quran is clear and free from crookedness? going on that note Quran is specific about the khimar covering a woman?s breasts not specific of the khimar covering her hair.

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                                almarh0m
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                                Peace Q_s

                                Dear Sister
                                "Khimaar " is very specific word for "female head cover". "Naseef" is used for both male and female head cover.

                                In the same way It is understood that "khimaar " was being used by females as head covers and Quran instructed females to cover their breasts with that "Khimaar".

                                Regards

                                Are you saying that Allah is telling the believing women to cover their breasts with their "headcovers" ? How Interesting .

                                Peace

                                almarh0m

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                                  Respected sister.
                                  This is not the question.
                                  Arabic is very vast language.For "cover" there are more "Fifty words".For Reference please see "Thesaursu of Arabic" by Dr Hanna Ghalib.Al-Quran used particularly this word avoiding words which only mean "cover"."Khimaar" and "Naseef" are particularly used for "head cover".
                                  The Dictionaries of Classical arabic are unanimous in its meaning of "Head Cover"

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                                  Translating what you quote from lisaanul 3arab

                                  (al khimaar for the woman is alnaseef, and it's said that al khimaar is what the woman covers her head with...)

                                  Is this what you call "The Primary meaning of "Khimaar" is "head cover"? I am pointing at the bolded underlined word ( and it's said...). This s not primary!

                                  And since we are at it, did you bother to know what / al naseef is? In this context in lisaanul 3arab, it could mean anything but head cover.
                                  Not only don't you know how to consult a dictionary, you do not understand simple Arabic!

                                  Dear Brother one gentleman is providing Quranic certificate for PRostitution.Should we accept it ? Websites are not equavalent to Quran.
                                  Regards

                                  This is your way to retrieve your lies? You could have at least apologized, but it seems that this kind of good manners is not accessible to the arrogant.

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                                    Translating what you quote from lisaanul 3arab

                                    (al khimaar for the woman is alnaseef, and it's said that al khimaar is what the woman covers her head with...)

                                    Is this what you call "The Primary meaning of "Khimaar" is "head cover"? I am pointing at the bolded underlined word ( and it's said...). This s not primary!

                                    And since we are at it, did you bother to know what / al naseef is? In this context in lisaanul 3arab, it could mean anything but head cover.
                                    Not only don't you know how to consult a dictionary, you do not understand simple Arabic!
                                    This is your way to retrieve your lies? You could have at least apologized, but it seems that this kind of good manners is not accessible to the arrogant.

                                    Salaam sister
                                    It shows that you do not know how to consult a dictionary. Your doubts would have been absolutely clear if could translate all of My DICTIONARY References.If you do not know that all dictionary of every language when give usages they usually say "it is said" which it is spoken or meant like this. This word "qeela" you can see in lisaan ul Arab and Tajul Aroos at many places.If you do not know that is not my fault.
                                    It is the reason I gave so many references.If you feel difficulty to translate Arabic Dictionaries which I referred ,I will recommend to consult Lane's Lexicon under Khimaar.
                                    As far as your second allegation is concerned you said.

                                    This is your way to retrieve your lies? You could have at least apologized, but it seems that this kind of good manners is not accessible to the arrogant.

                                    Here is what this gentleman said

                                    4-24 ----------seek them with your money , with an aim to maintain chastity, not fornicating, you must pay them their wages before you touch them , and when you have enjoyed them, there is no sin upon you what you both agree to. God is knowledgeable wise.

                                    What I understand out of this is that "Prostitution is allowed" because,

                                    1. The "marriage/Nikah" word is missing from this very important commandment.

                                    2. You are to seek her with your money (in a normal relationship you dont seek the woman with your money, you seek them with your luv)

                                    3. You must pay her agreed wage before you derive sexual benefit, (so that you dont runaway after sex)

                                    http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9598241.405
                                    Now you can see who is lying ,you or I .
                                    Did you refute or deny or condemn this "Quranic Certificate" ?

                                    Regards

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                                      Salaam sister
                                      It shows that you do not know how to consult a dictionary. Your doubts would have been absolutely clear if could translate all of My DICTIONARY References.If you do not know that all dictionary of every language when give usages they usually say "it is said" which it is spoken or meant like this. This word "qeela" you can see in lisaan ul Arab and Tajul Aroos at many places.If you do not know that is not my fault.
                                      It is the reason I gave so many references.If you feel difficulty to translate Arabic Dictionaries which I referred ,I will recommend to consult Lane's Lexicon under Khimaar.

                                      You quoted four dictionaries, and I displayed three of them not saying (khimaar is head cover). Why do I have to translate all of them if the one I translated gives the seem meaning as the others? Did you translate any of them? Do you deny that the ones I displayed and not translated, do not say (khimaar is head cover), but (khimaar is al naseef)?

                                      Here is what this gentleman said

                                      http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9598241.405
                                      Now you can see who is lying ,you or I .
                                      Did you refute or deny or condemn this "Quranic Certificate" ?

                                      Regards

                                      I do not know which one you are talking about. If it's TS11, what was your response to him? I pesonally did not understand this from his post, nor did any one else; and many were reading that discussion. If you mean siki to whom you made your silly, brainless comment, you are showing a further degree of stupidity because siki was sarcastic about a poster, and I do not know who it was but I doubt it was TS11.
                                      You earn a further description absolutely stupid.
                                      I am not going further into discussion with you regarding this matter. In order to not derail this thread further, if you want to post again, make it to the subject of this thread. If you make me, or anyone else, your subject in a mater not related to this thead, I will delete your post.

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                                        peace Qstudent,

                                        Thanks for displaying the strength of your argument by not answering my questions or responding to my points.

                                        "Websites are not equavalent to Quran."? Thanks for the insight. Speaking of websites and insights, I also have one having sight is not equivalent to seeing.

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                                        sister Sarah,

                                        There is no need to be confused. For sake of argument, let's say ALL Classical Arabic Dictionaries (CAD) in the entire world state "khimaar" means "headcover", and if we wish to use non-Quranic evidence such as this, why not look to the traditional ahadith which clearly show it does not mean "headcover". Better yet, why not carbon date the two sources CAD versus ahadith, let's see which is older. If we find ahadith is older, then bingo, this will critically damage CAD's case. If we find ahadith are newer than CAD, then we can only assume someone forged these ahadith to give a more lenient meaning to khimaar in some sort of pro-women feminist conspiracy! And no-one said "hey, wait a second, khimaar does not mean any cover, who forged these ahadith?" As we can all see this is nonsensical, but quite amusing I might add.

                                        Of course, the above is a sideline. AQ weights the answer in favour of "khimaar" not meaning "headcover", this is fact. Thus, it will come down to what a person gives more weight to, what AQ says or what CAD says (even if we assume they all say the same thing). Qstudent has already made clear what he takes as his authority.

                                        I think there is such a thing as common sense and I also think that the Qur'an counts on that. Let us say that we do not have any khimar at hand. That would obviously mean that women should let their breasts uncovered, because the important part is that you use a khimar, whatever that is, and not to cover the breasts. Right?

                                        Salaam

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                                          When I responded to your post, I had this verse in my mind

                                          3359

                                          O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the women of the believers, that they should cast their outer garments over their persons which is more convenient that they should be known and not harmed. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

                                          I think that 33.59 do not refer to the same thing. The an-nur aleya deal with a generality of social behaviour, 33.59 deals with very specific circumstances of strife and hostility. Not does it follow from it that ANY other circumstances would require the same resources.

                                          Salaam

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