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    Alen
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    estaghfirullahi 3atheem..... these women should have separate beaches where men and lesbians shouldn't be allowed to go...

    Peace,
    Respectfully.

    lesbians? I'm sure they have that .... in San Francisco. I saw gays there among the cops as well as among the inmates. Horrible. yuck

    Peace.

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      SarahY
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      How is being wet sexy anyway not everyone has the desired body to come out of the water looking sexy. besides some materials cling differently some are worse than others.

      Joe when you swim you all get wet every bit of you... so the sticky wet feeling ain't so bad, but when it rains and you get wet feet that's annoying!

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        SubmitterToGOD
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        Hi all,

        As summer is coming, and reading about an article about women dress code, I was wondering what are your thought about "dress code on the beach", I know seems maybe obvious for some, but still, everyone should enjoy of God's creation and going to swim in the sea is one of them.

        Here is an example of "correct" dressing

        http//www.swimmingfunstore.com/arena-woman-combi.html

        Thanks for your replies

        Salamun Alaykum,

        i think those clothes are too tight,
        its like wearing paint.

        you should probably swim in (decent) clothes,

        or in a private pool

        or not all all, you won't die from not being able to swim in the ocean

        (btw, always check in the Quran before you do something)

        may GOD guide you sister peace

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          herbman
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          Salamun Alaykum,

          i think those clothes are too tight,
          its like wearing paint.

          you should probably swim in (decent) clothes,

          or in a private pool

          or not all all, you won't die from not being able to swim in the ocean

          (btw, always check in the Quran before you do something)

          may GOD guide you sister peace

          Following your saying you should either

          be rich and have your own private pool
          or
          not swim at all

          This is not an answer, it is like
          "-I would like to be a doctor

          • have you got enough money for Univercity
            -No
            -Ok, forget it, you will not die if you don't become a doc"

          brickwall

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            nimnimak_11
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            Salamun Alaykum,

            i think those clothes are too tight,
            its like wearing paint.

            you should probably swim in (decent) clothes,

            or in a private pool

            or not all all, you won't die from not being able to swim in the ocean

            (btw, always check in the Quran before you do something)

            may GOD guide you sister peace

            They are tight.... Which is better for swimming.
            No one should place hardship on themselves.
            Intention is the key issue i think

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              No longer a Sunna-rejecter
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              2430 Tell the acknowledging men to lower their gaze and guard their private parts, for that is purer for them. God is fully aware of what you do.

              2431 Tell the acknowledging women to lower their gaze and guard their private parts, and that they should not show off their attraction except what is apparent, and let them cast their clothes over their cleavage...

              I guess for the beach, a swim suite is OK.
              It is, however a two-way deal. BOTH MEN AND WOMEN should LOWER THEIR GAZE and GUARD THEIR PRIVATE PARTS.

              Peace

              I am no longer a Sunna-rejecter. See 4:59-65, 62:2-4, 3:31, 4:156, 7:157 Messenger teaches and is to be followed and obeyed. Examples of revelation received which is not in the Qur'an: 3:123-126, 33:37, 2:187, 66:3, 62:9.

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                nsws1988
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                Following your saying you should either

                be rich and have your own private pool
                or
                not swim at all

                This is not an answer, it is like
                "-I would like to be a doctor

                • have you got enough money for Univercity
                  -No
                  -Ok, forget it, you will not die if you don't become a doc"

                brickwall

                You can always swim in your bath tub looooool

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                  huruf
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                  You people are really hopelessly spoilt. What is that need now to swim in the middle of some water? You just go through the movements at home on the kitchen floor and those should be plenty of kicks. Throw some salt around to get the taste of it, and who needs to spend money on transport and all the discomfort...

                  Salaam

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                    nsws1988
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                    You people are really hopelessly spoilt. What is that need now to swim in the middle of some water? You just go through the movements at home on the kitchen floor and those should be plenty of kicks. Throw some salt around to get the taste of it, and who needs to spend money on transport and all the discomfort...

                    Salaam

                    Peace

                    I take it you never go swimming?

                    God bless

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                      aynur
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                      You people are really hopelessly spoilt. What is that need now to swim in the middle of some water? You just go through the movements at home on the kitchen floor and those should be plenty of kicks. Throw some salt around to get the taste of it, and who needs to spend money on transport and all the discomfort...

                      Salaam

                      rotfl

                      Guess we don't need to see the sun either, we should just stay indoors with the shades drawn and not ever see the light of day...

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                        Samia
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                        or not all all, you won't die from not being able to swim in the ocean

                        Tell this to someone whose boat sank in the middle of water...oops you can't, because he/she is already dead.

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                          SubmitterToGOD
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                          Salamun alaykum,

                          wow you people really twist everything

                          Following your saying you should either

                          be rich and have your own private pool
                          or
                          not swim at all

                          no, thats not what i said brickwall

                          you should probably swim in (decent) clothes,

                          or in a private pool

                          or not all all, you won't die from not being able to swim in the ocean

                          "probably swim in decent clothes"

                          learn to read.

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                            herbman
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                            Salamun alaykum,

                            wow you people really twist everything

                            no, thats not what i said brickwall

                            "probably swim in decent clothes"

                            learn to read.

                            Peace,

                            Sorry brickwall I didn't brickwall saw that brickwall

                            No offense
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                              almarh0m
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                              2430 Tell the acknowledging men to lower their gaze and guard their private parts, for that is purer for them. God is fully aware of what you do.

                              2431 Tell the acknowledging women to lower their gaze and guard their private parts, and that they should not show off their attraction except what is apparent, and let them cast their clothes over their cleavage...

                              I guess for the beach, a swim suite is OK.
                              It is, however a two-way deal. BOTH MEN AND WOMEN should LOWER THEIR GAZE and GUARD THEIR PRIVATE PARTS.

                              Peace

                              If the beach goers lower their gaze to the ankles , they wouldn't even notice what other people are wearing

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                                SwedenMajidah
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                                Peace,

                                Well, I think it's up to everyone to choose what to wear on the beach.

                                If I really want to melt into the crowd of people on the beach I should wear a normal bikini or swimsuit that most women wear. If I wear strange clothes people will notice me more and I get attention that I don't want to get.

                                A suggestion is to wear bikini when you lay down to take sunburn and when you take a dip into the ocean but when you will take a longer walk along the beach and perhaps buy an ice-cream then you can put on a beach dress or something.

                                Maria

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                                  Wakas
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                                  peace Maria, all,

                                  Well, I think it's up to everyone to choose what to wear on the beach.

                                  Depends on the aim. If part of the aim is to follow Al Quran then how can it be up to everyone to choose?

                                  IF part of the aim is not to follow Al Quran, then yes, it is up to everyone to choose.

                                  All information is correct to the best of my knowledge only and thus should not be taken as a fact. One should always seek knowledge and verify for themselves when possible: 17:36, 20:114, 35:28, 49:6, 58:11.

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                                    SarahY
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                                    inevitably we all choose what we want. your suggestion of a bikini might work in some areas of the world in which the social construction says bikini is the thing to wear at a beach but not all places are like this. Also as people become aware of other people's beliefs and cultures they recognise the clothing as part of identity and do not look out of place. it's all about perceptions and social constructions..

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                                      No longer a Sunna-rejecter
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                                      If the beach goers lower their gaze to the ankles , they wouldn't even notice what other people are wearing

                                      laugh

                                      I understand "lower their gaze" as idiomatic. It simply means not to stare at women the whole time and so on. It doesnt mean to physically lower their gaze. Otherwise you'd be walking around with your head facing downwards the whole time!

                                      I am no longer a Sunna-rejecter. See 4:59-65, 62:2-4, 3:31, 4:156, 7:157 Messenger teaches and is to be followed and obeyed. Examples of revelation received which is not in the Qur'an: 3:123-126, 33:37, 2:187, 66:3, 62:9.

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                                        SarahY
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                                        I think the lowering of the gaze can be physically done

                                        I'll give you an example imagine you saw a really attractive guy/girl and you like unconsciously starred at them. IF you thought of lowering your gaze maybe instantly you would look down and distract your thoughts.

                                        i don't mean you look down all the time but maybe you would lower your gaze initially and then be off to walking normally.

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                                          almarh0m
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                                          I think , we would draw more un-welcome attention/stare if we were to dress differently from other beach goers , and it all depends on our intention for going to the beach . Personally , I am more comfortable in a speedo at the beach , better for swimming ;D

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