Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Users
Skins
  • Light
  • Brite
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (No Skin)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Free Minds Forum Icon
  1. Home
  2. Family Issues
  3. Parenting & Children
  4. Raising Children

Raising Children

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Parenting & Children
53 Posts 11 Posters 2.0k Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • R Offline
    R Offline
    Rev_John
    wrote on last edited by
    #18

    I believe many traditional Muslims are Muslim simply because they were raised that way. Not that they necessarily research any other religions, or question any of the practices - they just follow blindly.

    That is the same in any traditional religion. It is something I have been trying to change for years.

    1 Reply Last reply
    0
    • T Offline
      T Offline
      TheJoker
      wrote on last edited by
      #19

      2170

      And if they are told "Follow what God has sent down," they say "No, we will follow what we found our fathers doing!" What if their fathers did not understand anything and were not guided?

      1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • S Offline
        S Offline
        SarahY
        wrote on last edited by
        #20

        if you continue to read the next verse, it indicates theres are the ones who deny the truth who do not use their reason. If they choose to follow their fathers then they will be the same.

        (2171)

        2171 (Asad) And so, the parable of those who re bent on denying the truth is that of the beast which hears the shepherd's cry, and hears in it nothing but the sound of a voice and a call. Deaf are they, and dumb, and blind for they do not use their reason.

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • R Offline
          R Offline
          Rev_John
          wrote on last edited by
          #21

          2171 (Asad) And so, the parable of those who re bent on denying the truth is that of the beast which hears the shepherd's cry, and hears in it nothing but the sound of a voice and a call. Deaf are they, and dumb, and blind for they do not use their reason.

          I like that. I may well use that in my Sunday service. Thank you.

          1 Reply Last reply
          0
          • S Offline
            S Offline
            SarahY
            wrote on last edited by
            #22

            Np

            Do you always do Sunday service?

            1 Reply Last reply
            0
            • R Offline
              R Offline
              Rev_John
              wrote on last edited by
              #23

              Np

              Do you always do Sunday service?

              Only on Sundays . Yes every week.

              1 Reply Last reply
              0
              • S Offline
                S Offline
                SarahY
                wrote on last edited by
                #24

                Cool, so you'd have a community of people with the same belief as you?

                1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • R Offline
                  R Offline
                  Rev_John
                  wrote on last edited by
                  #25

                  Cool, so you'd have a community of people with the same belief as you?

                  Yes, I have a church here, all the members believe the same as me. We class ourselves as God-alone Christians. Christians because we believe in the message God gave to Jesus, God-alone because we do not worship Jesus or anyone other than God. We do not believe that Jesus was God incarnate or the son of God or anything other than a human being.

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  0
                  • S Offline
                    S Offline
                    SarahY
                    wrote on last edited by
                    #26

                    great, so has the church been there for many generations?

                    i'm going off topic ahh, so do kids come along?

                    1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • R Offline
                      R Offline
                      Rev_John
                      wrote on last edited by
                      #27

                      great, so has the church been there for many generations?

                      i'm going off topic ahh, so do kids come along?

                      No I am the founder of the Christian Church of Reality. There are other churches that believe (roughly) the same thing, but we are all independent of each other unfortunately. We only have a couple of kids that come, most of my members are 30s and up, I suppose after they start thinking.

                      1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • T Offline
                        T Offline
                        TheJoker
                        wrote on last edited by
                        #28

                        if you continue to read the next verse, it indicates theres are the ones who deny the truth who do not use their reason. If they choose to follow their fathers then they will be the same.

                        (2171)

                        2171 (Asad) And so, the parable of those who re bent on denying the truth is that of the beast which hears the shepherd's cry, and hears in it nothing but the sound of a voice and a call. Deaf are they, and dumb, and blind for they do not use their reason.

                        Yes, did I contend otherwise... ? My posting of that sign was to highlight the logic i.e. 'what if your fathers knew nothing and were not guided'.

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        0
                        • S Offline
                          S Offline
                          SarahY
                          wrote on last edited by
                          #29

                          Rev.John how'd you manage the funding? other than people donating? would be pricey to own a church

                          TheJoker ok my logic is if you choose to follow the fathers who knew nothing and were not guided you will be like the people of 2171.

                          Everyone has the choice in life. What do you think?

                          1 Reply Last reply
                          0
                          • R Offline
                            R Offline
                            Rev_John
                            wrote on last edited by
                            #30

                            Rev.John how'd you manage the funding? other than people donating? would be pricey to own a church

                            TheJoker ok my logic is if you choose to follow the fathers who knew nothing and were not guided you will be like the people of 2171.

                            Everyone has the choice in life. What do you think?

                            The funding is difficult, it is just members donating and me making up the difference.

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • S Offline
                              S Offline
                              SarahY
                              wrote on last edited by
                              #31

                              ah ok well good for you that you can maintain it

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              • R Offline
                                R Offline
                                Rev_John
                                wrote on last edited by
                                #32

                                ah ok well good for you that you can maintain it

                                I can't, that's the problem.

                                1 Reply Last reply
                                0
                                • S Offline
                                  S Offline
                                  SarahY
                                  wrote on last edited by
                                  #33

                                  oh.. sorry to hear, what about applying to the council for support? or other churches? or fundraising events?

                                  Dunno (

                                  1 Reply Last reply
                                  0
                                  • R Offline
                                    R Offline
                                    Rev_John
                                    wrote on last edited by
                                    #34

                                    oh.. sorry to hear, what about applying to the council for support? or other churches? or fundraising events?

                                    Dunno (

                                    Our local city cannot help, not allowed. We do try some fundraising with varying results. Rely mainly on the generosity of some of our members.

                                    Have you looked at our website?

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    0
                                    • T Offline
                                      T Offline
                                      TheJoker
                                      wrote on last edited by
                                      #35

                                      Rev.John how'd you manage the funding? other than people donating? would be pricey to own a church

                                      TheJoker ok my logic is if you choose to follow the fathers who knew nothing and were not guided you will be like the people of 2171.

                                      Everyone has the choice in life. What do you think?

                                      Agreed. The question is is this a characteristic of these people, or using this kind of logic makes one a kaafir? And how does one know if their fathers knew nothing or weren't guided? I am suggesting the quran is saying, don't leave it to chance. What do you think?

                                      1 Reply Last reply
                                      0
                                      • S Offline
                                        S Offline
                                        SarahY
                                        wrote on last edited by
                                        #36

                                        I had a quick flick

                                        Well is the property owned? because if it is then it shouldn't be to hard to maintain..

                                        The Joker, Don't leave it to chance? yeh well i think i was saying we shouldn't just choose to follow blindly. People know if they study? if they question if they think..

                                        People can choose to be ignorant or knowledgeable.

                                        I think as a child or a growing adult you can see what you agree and disagree with from your parents practices. I already see things and think I don't agree with that if i ever have children i would bla bla bla..

                                        you can have some insight through observation.

                                        1 Reply Last reply
                                        0
                                        • R Offline
                                          R Offline
                                          Rev_John
                                          wrote on last edited by
                                          #37

                                          I had a quick flick

                                          Well is the property owned? because if it is then it shouldn't be to hard to maintain..

                                          The Joker, Don't leave it to chance? yeh well i think i was saying we shouldn't just choose to follow blindly. People know if they study? if they question if they think..

                                          People can choose to be ignorant or knowledgeable.

                                          I think as a child or a growing adult you can see what you agree and disagree with from your parents practices. I already see things and think I don't agree with that if i ever have children i would bla bla bla..

                                          you can have some insight through observation.

                                          No it's rented

                                          1 Reply Last reply
                                          0
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Don't have an account? Register

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Users