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    unknownuser
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    Yes, by looking of verse's context.

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      muslims
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      So.. let me confirm it again with you for the (x) times, you mean it as "spouses"?

      Yes, by looking of verse's context.

      Salam

      Okay, you mean it to be "spouses".

      And those who guard their private parts. Except from their spouses

      Second question,

      Now, can you show me any dictionary (link) that says "spouses" is not related to "husband or wife", or "marriages"?

      Peace

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        unknownuser
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        Now, can you show me any dictionary (link) that says "spouses" is not related to husband and wife, or marriages?

        This is your biggest fault when intepreted my post.I will make clear now.

        I never said if spouses not related to husbad-wife, marriage.But that time we talk about verse 235-6 (about private guard).

        So I respong if this verses has not talking about marriage, the contexs is about zina preventing.

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          muslims
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          This is your biggest fault when intepreted my post.I will make clear now.

          I never said if spouses not related to husbad-wife, marriage.But that time we talk about verse 235-6 (about private guard).

          So I respong if this verses has not talking about marriage, the contexs is about zina preventing.

          Salam

          Read again our main ssue, where did I mention about (235-6)?

          I'm discussing about (7029-31) and it is you who diverted/jumping from one issue the other, and yet claiming that it is my biggest fault.

          And those who guard their private parts <- ALL human beings have private parts, including homosexual
          Except from their wives <- referring to marriages
          or those their right hands possess
          for indeed, they are not to be blamed
          But whoever seeks beyond that
          then they are the transgressors
          (7029-31)

          We settle one issue at a time. We check the verses and discuss that later, though it is hard to say the context is about the prevention of zina.

          Secondly,

          Now, can you show me any dictionary (link) that says "spouses" is not related to "husband or wife", or "marriages"?

          I'm still waiting for the meaning of "spouses".

          Please provide me the links.

          Peace

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            unknownuser
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            I'm still waiting for the meaning of "spouses"?

            http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spouse

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              huruf
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              There is also the question of what "hafadha farj" entails, means, encompasses.

              There is also the question that in 23.5 there is a list of deeds for which people who do them will inherit al firdaws...

              so, only those who do all of them will inherit, or will those who do all of them save one inherit and the good they do will not avail them anything?

              Also, what is taken to mean ma malakat aymanuhum in aya 23.5?

              Salaam

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                muslims
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                http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spouse

                Salam

                You can't be serious?

                Is Wikipedia is the "authoritative body for defining words"?

                Do you know what is Wikipedia?

                Do you know what is Encyclopedia?

                Do you know who writes in Wikipedia?

                Try this...

                http//www.refseek.com/directory/dictionaries.html

                http//www.goodreads.com/list/show/785.Best_Dictionaries_of_the_English_Language

                or any dictionary of your choice.

                Peace

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                  unknownuser
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                  Sorry for wait.A internet trouble.

                  I mostly use dictionary.com

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                    muslims
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                    Sorry for wait.A internet trouble.

                    I mostly use dictionary.com

                    Salam

                    You can type yourself, or try here..

                    Meta-search tool indexing 13 million words from 1,000 dictionaries.
                    http//www.onelook.com/?w=spouse&ls=a

                    Roget's Thesaurus
                    http//dictionary.reference.com/browse/spouse?s=t

                    or

                    American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language
                    http//education.yahoo.com/reference/dictionary/entry/spouse

                    Collins English Dictionary
                    http//www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/spouse

                    Oxford Dictionaries Online
                    http//www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/spouse?q=spouse

                    Merriam Webster
                    http//www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spouse

                    Cambridge
                    http//dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/british/spouse?q=spouse

                    Macmillan
                    http//www.macmillandictionary.com/dictionary/british/spouse

                    Abbreviations.com
                    http//www.abbreviations.com/SPOUSE

                    Definitions.net
                    http//www.definitions.net/definition/spouse

                    Vocabulary.com
                    https//www.vocabulary.com/dictionary/spouse

                    Peace

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                      unknownuser
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                      Thanks for the links )

                      Back to the topic.Literally after magrib until some days maybe, I'm busy.

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                        muslims
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                        Salam

                        Okay, it is two hours difference if in Surabaya or Gresik, that means almost Maghrib.

                        So does it referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages"?

                        Peace

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                          unknownuser
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                          Salam

                          Okay, it is two hours difference if in Surabaya or Gresik, that means almost Maghrib.

                          So does it referring to "husband and wife" or "marriages"?

                          Peace

                          I live around that area and now the time is 1607.

                          Yes it does.

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                            muslims
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                            So does it referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages"?

                            Yes it does.

                            Salam

                            Good, I went to Indonesia almost every year. )

                            So... you agree that "spouses" is referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                            Therefore, can you agree that the following verse is referring to marriages?

                            And those who guard their private parts <- ALL human beings have private parts
                            Except from their spouses <- referring to marriages

                            Peace

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                              unknownuser
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                              Good, I went to Indonesia almost every year.

                              Good, may I visit Malaysia some day for see Petronas Building.

                              So... you agree that "spouses" is referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                              Therefore, can you agree that the verse is referring to marriages?

                              Spouses is not enough for husband-wife.We see same-gender also as spouses.

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                                muslims
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                                Spouses is not enough for husband-wife.We see same-gender also as spouses.

                                Salam,

                                No problem, it is just two hours flights and the tickets is cheap.

                                It doesn't matter if it refers to same gender marriage or etc.

                                It is irrelevant at this point of time.

                                What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                                If it is, can you agree that the verse is referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an?

                                Peace.

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                                  unknownuser
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                                  No problem, it is just two hours flights and the tickets is cheap.

                                  Unfortunaly Rupiah's exchange rate is below Ringgit ;D.What place you visits in Indonesia.I don't live in Surabaya nor Gresik, but I still in East Java.I visit Surabaya every year for a vacation.

                                  If it is, can you agree that the verse is referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an?

                                  If 235-6, it's not.This verse more talk about zina prevention or ethics of do sexual intercouse.

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                                    muslims
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                                    If 235-6, it's not.This verse more talk about zina prevention or ethics of do sexual intercouse.

                                    Salam

                                    There are few places, Surabaya, Gresik, Jogja etc and my family rooted back from Indonesia during 1,000-1300+

                                    We leave out that issue later, what's relevant is whether that verse includes "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                                    What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                                    Peace

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                                      unknownuser
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                                      There are few places, Surabaya, Gresik, Jogja etc and my family rooted back from Indonesia during 1,000-1300+

                                      This means you still a Javanese like me.You're wong Jowo D.
                                      Malay ethnic in Indonesia more concentrated in Bawean, Riau, Bangka, Belitung and some parts in Sumatra, Kalimantan and Sulawesi.

                                      Ok we will talk about this later, just do PM if necessary.

                                      What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                                      Term marriage/nikah is wide in context.We talk about leglitas of homosexual in this thread.So what contexs you want to discuss??

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                                        muslims
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                                        Term marriage/nikah is wide in context.We talk about leglitas of homosexual in this thread.So what contexs you want to discuss??

                                        Salam

                                        I'm originally rooted from Yemen, Hadhramaut and Palestine, which my great great grandfather make a hijrah to Indonesia for Da'wah, maybe before Islam came to Indonesia.

                                        Okay we stop here, and you can continue by answering the following issue

                                        Whether the verse in (7029-31) is referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                                        and you might also explain why you are saying the context of (235-6) is related to zina prevention.

                                        Certainly will the believers have succeeded
                                        They who are during their prayer
                                        humbly submissive
                                        And they who turn away
                                        from ill speech
                                        And they who are observant
                                        of zakah
                                        And they who guard
                                        their private parts
                                        Except from their wives
                                        or those their right hands possess
                                        for indeed, they will not be blamed
                                        But whoever seeks beyond that
                                        then those are the transgressors
                                        And they who are to their trusts
                                        and their promises attentive
                                        And they who carefully maintain
                                        their prayers
                                        Those are the inheritors
                                        Who will inherit al-Firdaus
                                        They will abide therein eternally
                                        (231-11)

                                        Peace

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                                          unknownuser
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                                          As you see, the verses in the Quran didn't follow the index by orders.I mean a verse in a surat, may have a continuations in another surat.

                                          "Zena prevention" is my own term and yu may have your own
                                          According to me, most of Quranic verses not talking about fiqh-fatwa but how to became a proper being.

                                          Ok "zina prevention" term is almost leave the topic.So what we must discuss is homosexual is legal or not according to Quran.

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