I have sinned big time :(
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Hi FreedomStands.
I too like your suggestions to agphys.
Nice words.Regards,
ArmanThank you very much! We all should do it if we can!
https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqLRqzTp6Rk
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https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTcJWhmdzpg
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I think there is something wrong that has occurred in this thread, really... =___=
I suppose we actually do not know his true condition and situation...
and what if people here gave him unsuitable advices...?
Now, also, why not see if you can be honorable with this girl, and not do Zina but instead properly do your duty towards her and be righteous and knightly and give to her the proper rights and respect, and if you marry her, then you can do it all day it long what is the big deal then, except that she is a kaffir?
I thought you disagree if a Muslim marry with a Christian?
To my knowledge, the girl is a Christian (if agphys refer to the same person).
i told her to agrre to my wish to do mutah, and shes a christian..
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I think there is something wrong that has occurred in this thread, really... =___=
I suppose we actually do not know his true condition and situation...
and what if people here gave him unsuitable advices...?
I thought you disagree if a Muslim marry with a Christian?
To my knowledge, the girl is a Christian (if agphys refer to the same person).
He is only supposed to do the best he can. I don't know anything about his life or his situation, except my advice is good.
Regardless if a woman is a polytheist even, you are to do right to a human being, it doesn't matter. Yes, it is forbidden to marry an evildoer, but never is it wrong to be just and right in your conduct, and to do what is most appropriate and good, and to be just to women regardless of their background. It may be that she might become a Muslim if she is not already, but his duty is only to do goodness and right.
Do you see?
https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=f5bjJzJ-T4c
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https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=BF1DQr5dKW8
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I think there is something wrong that has occurred in this thread, really... =___=
Can you let me know what went wrong in your opinion?
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https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=_h3QM_zp8NQ
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https//youtu.be/kI4fAU_X1fQ?t=90
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https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qf1JvdomH6s
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Honestly, I don't know the true things regarding what happened to him and that girl, about their true situation, and about what really happened between them.
I hope he will seek Allah alone, for help and guidance.
May Allah help you, agphys.
I think what happened is what I hear about so frequently, a girl and a guy met, and they fooled around and had sexual relations of various sorts, sometimes short of penetrative sex, but still doing pretty much everything. People tend to feel terrible after this, and its because the whole thing is set up wrong. This is why men and women should not meet each other like that.
In any case, now he simply has to use it as fuel to drive himself in goodness and try to make things right and do whatever is right.
To other people, I warn them not to think they can do better than him, as this is a very common thing that happens.
Knowing this, one should take preventative measures way ahead of time, and always act justly from the earliest point so that there is no shame or dishonor involved in anything which you do righteously with the intention of being compassionate, and good, charitable, just, righteous, honorable, knightly, and doing your duty and obligation, giving the proper rights and whatever else.
If she can convert, even a fake conversion just on the surface, God knows their heart, and if she doesn't do what is right, you are not obligated to force anyone only that you try to make things right and do what is just, and forever turn towards knightly conduct.
If anyone listens to me, it may be to their benefit, and if anyone has objections, they should bring it up to discuss or help me.
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In my world, his story and posting acted as a catalyst to make some interesting speeches just now, find some interesting lyrics in music videos, and do other things.
My speeches are dangerous, because it can be said "You spoke, but you did not do it yourself!", this is why my speeches are a pressure, and I am most bound and obligated to follow them as it is worse if I don't, being the speaker. So no one should admire my work on this forum, in the sense that its all a burden on the speaker.
I advise anyone to follow what is best and most right, and if someone thinks that is wrong of me to say, then they should explain.
Yet his story has already acted to produce what I deem good, such as my statements here, and so the flowering has already begun, thanks to righteous action.
His righteous guilt and reduced ego sharing of the thing, and then my speeches out of compassion, etc etc. It is our hope that Arman, and him, and even you (though in your case I don't know if you'll even try), should follow it closely and try to live up to it if they can, and me most of all and whoever reads it too.
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I guess I agree... that some of your speeches are dangerous.
Good one! I think it is incumbent on the compassionate and just to speak out against what I have written that is deemed dangerous or misleading, so that one can be helpful, even towards me.
For example, if I am saying Oh yeah! Go down the highway, take a left, to get to the restaurant, and you know that the bridge is out on that path or even think it might be, you have to speak up and and let me know. Then I will say, oh, I didn't know the bridge is out, sorry about that, thanks for letting us know, I could have hurt myself too!
Or I could say, how recently have you checked? In my case I have just been there to see it, and they have reconstructed the bridge now, so it should be safe!
Leading the driver to their deaths, bwuahaha, good riddance.
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Salam,
Not sure you can be a human and not sin.
Joseph sinned with the wife of the Governor and nearly did what you did.
I can go on with all the Prophets.
Seeking forgiveness and acknowledging the sin is the best way to go.
Not sure about your proposal to marry with 2 witnesses. Marriage had rules and one of them is longevity and responsibility - it is a commitment for life, not a license for sex.
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3953 Say "O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah for Allah forgives all sins for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
lol, how wasteful.lol, how wasteful.
39.53 is a laughing stock and utterly wasteful ayat? Please explain. I think this is simply rejection and jesting and mocking at Allah.
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39.53 is a laughing stock and utterly wasteful ayat? Please explain. I think this is simply rejection and jesting and mocking at Allah.
I think you interpret it incorrectly, and are waiting for an opportunity to try to strike at me, because of jealousy or who knows what. Don't be jealous of me, I may be on my way to hell.
"lol so wasteful" is a comment about not taking the opportunity where the guilt has arisen to use it as fuel to correct oneself, instead to merely imagine oneself forgiven and then reduce "wastefully" their fuel and motivation to do good. I explained these ideas even in the posts, which perhaps you did not read, but you should, to find other opportunities to attack, as a Satan might do.
Instead of laying down accusations, like a good Satan, why don't you just ask me what I meant?
Instead, by your way of making accusation, you earn the ire of a person and make yourself a target of malice.
Perhaps though, you can use this as an opportunity to learn. I can not learn of course, but maybe you can learn, as you are the free one and I am the slave.
I was not mocking the revelation, I was humored by the idea that people quickly forgive themselves or imagine themselves forgiven and don't use the opportunity or the feeling to drive themselves to deeply change and strive towards goodness.
Now you see how I work so much on this forum and write so much, all talking about God as the sole power, and you quickly accuse me of mocking Allah, even while you see all that? Even that I do all this while I'm fasting? Do you think that is a good thing to do, even while you see?
Are you fasting? If so, that is good for you, it might be a help to you in whatever is to come.
Please refrain from making such accusations about me or my writing here, and think to yourself why you really did it, and how you even see what I am writing and how much, and what it is all about.
(Feel free to continue to make any accusations you please, I also like them, and it made me think of some good things, for example, how even our desires are merciful for you compared to the kind of malice God can intend in comparison)
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If it was not for that distracting body we would not sin -)
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I think that only Allah Who can truly help you, so, why not focus on seeking help unto Allah alone?
And also, be careful about oath, I don't think it is good to make oath without enough consideration (sufficient thought).
If you still not able to maintain your oath, then perhaps it is better if what you do is making commitment - without oath/promise/pledge.
And also, if I'm not mistaken...
Didn't you already married to her??
Can you be trusted, agphys?
Whether you really tell the truth about yourself?
Salaam Java,
I agree with you. In his last thread I tried to explain him in many ways by quoting many aayaat and many others also explained him in different ways. I also PM him with detail on how to repent and not to feel bad. But he never seem to take a look at the aayaat quoted by many free-minders.
It is really difficult for me to trust him now. I don't know what exactly he want from here but feels something fishy!? But couldn't configure it out.
Why don't he get married with any girl if he is not able to control himself?
May Allah increase our knowledge and guide us on His path pr
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Salaam Java,
I agree with you. In his last thread I tried to explain him in many ways by quoting many aayaat and many others also explained him in different ways. I also PM him with detail on how to repent and not to feel bad. But he never seem to take a look at the aayaat quoted by many free-minders.
It is really difficult for me to trust him now. I don't know what exactly he want from here but feels something fishy!? But couldn't configure it out.
Why don't he get married with any girl if he is not able to control himself?
May Allah increase our knowledge and guide us on His path pr
mmKhanWhy do you all want him to not feel bad so fast? Not feeling bad would not be helpful really, it is better that he does feel bad and thus strives with that as a fuel to do good.
