Arranged Marriages are an INJUSTICE?
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SaLaM Tahira and SM and PM
Yes Tahira I AM adorable and I AM one of a kind giggle . You are too kind to say that.
I guess he sitting home now and cry because we don't want to whip him
Im heart broken SM. Really cry
Women need to wake up and realise their rights. Also women should be independent and should stand on their own feet, no matter what.
There is a verse in the Quran that talks about women keeping their earning. But i remember reading that verse with someone and we both agreed that Even reading the Quran, God does point towards women making a living for themselves. Its only the 3rd world countries that stop women from working. Either that or insecure men who think that their wives might get a bit too independant.
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HI Tahira,
Hey there girlfriend, nice of you to join us.
same here.
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SaLaM Tahira
Down south where? oops . I wouldnt know tahira. I havent married my first cousine, even tho there was talk of it. But i know my cousines and there is no way on earth im marrying them. Too much 'nakhrae' looooooooooollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll.
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Hello Tahira,
salam LoteTree
you guessed right. We are pakistani and yes we do get forced to marry our first cousins.Oh Tahira, it is so sad to hear that people forced into marriages -(
Arranged marriages perhaps may be acceptable when the boy and the girl has a say but forced marriages are despicable!At the moment there are some debates going on in Bradford about marrying 1st cousins.
Yes, I heard that some MP is setting out some bill to outlaw first cousin marriages in Pakistani communities...
Apparently ther are diseases and disabilities linked to marrying 1st cousins then their children marrying 1st cousins also etc.
Yes, this is the case Tahira, lots of inherited genetic diseases. Thalacyma is one of the common diseases to be passed in first cousins marriages.
It is about time that Women of the Indian Subcontinent and also in all the Traditionalist must Societies must stand up and reclaim their human diginity...
Regards,
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It is about time that Women of the Indian Subcontinent and also in all the Traditionalist must Societies must stand up and reclaim their human diginity...
In our societies, we dont marry first cousins at all.
They are like our siblings and we grow up like that.
There is no marrying them.
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Hi Tahira,
Surrey currently.
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LoteTree are you from the uk?
Yes, from Merry England -)...But my family roots are in the Indian Subcontinent...
Regards,
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You guys are so lucky you're not living in pakiford. OOPS i meant bradford. It is like the Big Apple for immigration up here.
Bradford 3 is the worst. The majority are muslims and the men are completley out of control while the women have to wear hijabs and stay inside. Its like all the criminal activity in bradford starts there. -
You guys are so lucky you're not living in pakiford. OOPS i meant bradford. It is like the Big Apple for immigration up here.
Bradford 3 is the worst. The majority are muslims and the men are completley out of control while the women have to wear hijabs and stay inside. Its like all the criminal activity in bradford starts there.My mate lives in Baradford near the city centre, reminds me actually, got to see him, aint seen him for somewhile now. Bradford does have it's share of nice asian girls and the accent to go with it OOOOOH!! lol
PEACE
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Bradford does have it's share of nice asian girls and the accent to go with it OOOOOH!! lol
PEACEBut how do you get to see them since they are all covered in Hijabs? -)
Regards,
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It's got popular since all this talk about whipping Jaxal started. wow
You are not suggesting that women get turned on by the prospect of whipping a guy? wink
Regards,