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Arranged Marriages are an INJUSTICE?

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    Tahira
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    Salam Jaxal

    Great to have you with us too. Tell me, what is it like regarding arranged marriges to 1st cousins down South?

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      HI Tahira,

      Hey there girlfriend, nice of you to join us.

      same here.
      Peace

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        Jaxal
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        SaLaM Tahira

        Down south where? oops . I wouldnt know tahira. I havent married my first cousine, even tho there was talk of it. But i know my cousines and there is no way on earth im marrying them. Too much 'nakhrae' looooooooooollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll.

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          unknownuser
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          Hello Tahira,

          salam LoteTree
          you guessed right. We are pakistani and yes we do get forced to marry our first cousins.

          Oh Tahira, it is so sad to hear that people forced into marriages -(
          Arranged marriages perhaps may be acceptable when the boy and the girl has a say but forced marriages are despicable!

          At the moment there are some debates going on in Bradford about marrying 1st cousins.

          Yes, I heard that some MP is setting out some bill to outlaw first cousin marriages in Pakistani communities...

          Apparently ther are diseases and disabilities linked to marrying 1st cousins then their children marrying 1st cousins also etc.

          Yes, this is the case Tahira, lots of inherited genetic diseases. Thalacyma is one of the common diseases to be passed in first cousins marriages.

          It is about time that Women of the Indian Subcontinent and also in all the Traditionalist must Societies must stand up and reclaim their human diginity...

          Regards,

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            Tahira
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            Jaxal behave yourself, I meant down south of uk since i'm up in the north.

            Jaxal why do i get the feeling you chat up girls with really cheesy chatup lines. hmm

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              Tahira
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              LoteTree are you from the uk?

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                It is about time that Women of the Indian Subcontinent and also in all the Traditionalist must Societies must stand up and reclaim their human diginity...

                In our societies, we dont marry first cousins at all.
                They are like our siblings and we grow up like that.
                There is no marrying them.
                And the other reason being, ' the risks of inherited disorders' are well recognised.

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                  Tahira
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                  Peacefulmuslim what part of the uk are you in?

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                    unknownuser
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                    Hi Tahira,
                    Surrey currently.
                    Peace!

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                      unknownuser
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                      LoteTree are you from the uk?

                      Yes, from Merry England -)...But my family roots are in the Indian Subcontinent...

                      Regards,

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                        Tahira
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                        You guys are so lucky you're not living in pakiford. OOPS i meant bradford. It is like the Big Apple for immigration up here.
                        Bradford 3 is the worst. The majority are muslims and the men are completley out of control while the women have to wear hijabs and stay inside. Its like all the criminal activity in bradford starts there.

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                          You guys are so lucky you're not living in pakiford. OOPS i meant bradford. It is like the Big Apple for immigration up here.
                          Bradford 3 is the worst. The majority are muslims and the men are completley out of control while the women have to wear hijabs and stay inside. Its like all the criminal activity in bradford starts there.

                          My mate lives in Baradford near the city centre, reminds me actually, got to see him, aint seen him for somewhile now. Bradford does have it's share of nice asian girls and the accent to go with it OOOOOH!! lol

                          PEACE

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                            Tahira
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                            has anyone noticed how many views this thread has had? shock

                            It's got popular since all this talk about whipping Jaxal started. wow

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                              Tahira
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                              Pity we did'nt get more guys like you up here 2Pac-Notts.
                              We got all the whimpy women suppressors.

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                                Bradford does have it's share of nice asian girls and the accent to go with it OOOOOH!! lol
                                PEACE

                                But how do you get to see them since they are all covered in Hijabs? -)

                                Regards,

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                                  It's got popular since all this talk about whipping Jaxal started. wow

                                  You are not suggesting that women get turned on by the prospect of whipping a guy? wink

                                  Regards,

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                                    Tahira
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                                    No sweet LoteTree not just any guy. I think it's got something to do with whipping Jaxal.
                                    Great point about the hijabs though but its not all of bradford just bradford3 (sin city).

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                                      Tahira
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                                      Moderators are you all ok with this talk of Jaxal punishing?

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                                        Jaxal
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                                        SaLaM Tahira

                                        Dont worry about the mods. Finally someone showing them how to punish me rotfl

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                                          SwedenMajidah
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                                          JAXAL JAXAL JAXAL!!!!!!!!

                                          HOW WILL THIS END???

                                          Majidah

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