Is death painful ?
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I have a search engine in arabic bro, however I have to remember one word at least to bring the related verses, and truely the words of the Quran always rimes in my ears due to the fact I read it in arabc for the last 25 years
remember the verse bro "The Quran was made easy for REMEMBERANCE"
Man, i've known arabic for about 6 years, just enough to understand what im reading, and already it moves me. Al-quraan is the ultimate conceptual adventure for me, alhamdulillah.
Sure mate, I encourage you to learn more about the language and I'm sure we will learn a lot together when I get the Nahaw refrence book inshaallah
your 6 years knowledge should be enough to make you understand over 80% of the Quran
peace be with you
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Thankyou AhmedBaghat
I am glad to know we are not going to be reincarnated, i mean i wouldn't want to come to earth a second time, once is enough for me.
I have another question for you brother.
I have been told(being a sunni) that when either of the spouse dies they become strangers for one another and in islam you are not allowed to love that man or woman after they have died.
I can remember when my dad died, my mum wasn't allowed to visit his grave or talk about how much she loved him. She would say if i think about him or see him in a dream i will be commiting sin. -
Thankyou AhmedBaghat
I am glad to know we are not going to be reincarnated, i mean i wouldn't want to come to earth a second time, once is enough for me.
I have another question for you brother.
I have been told(being a sunni) that when either of the spouse dies they become strangers for one another and in islam you are not allowed to love that man or woman after they have died.
I can remember when my dad died, my mum wasn't allowed to visit his grave or talk about how much she loved him. She would say if i think about him or see him in a dream i will be commiting sin.Peace Tahira
what you heard does not make sense to me Tahira, from what I read it is not encouraged to cry on the loved one who died, this makes sense to me beacause our cry my be motivated as that's it while the fact of the matter is the real life just started by death, we are only transitting in this short life, so to cry on someone who died is like objecting the general law of Allah
however if someone know the above advice but was so emotional that he/she cried on a loved one, I see no sin committed because it can be motivated by love and loyalty and both are encouraged in the Quran
from what I read that women are discouraged to visit the graves of loved ones, I would say because women are more emotional and kinder than men and most likely they will cry
but if a woman wants to visit a loved one grave and can handle herself from crying then why not, it sounds very meritic to me
your mum can remember your dad and think about him everyday, there is nothing wrong in that but just advice her not to cry, that's all
but if she cried because she got emotional then I see nothing wrong at all, we are humans and God created us weak as stated in the Quran
Allah knows best
peace be with you
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How can it not hurt just a bit? I mean there you are as the energy that is you, must seperate from the physical. A connection that has been for that long a period of time is not going to let go easily. Then there is the added mental state. Honestly, no matter how they may protest, i doubt very many poeple are completely comfortable with death when it happens.
Who knows? Seriously though, I don't think it is really worth worrying about. What are you gonna do? Spend the rest of your time trying to figure it out to the point where you fight "literally" to the death? Or realize that regardless of what you THINK you know now, it means nothing when the time comes and whatever will happen will.
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The process of dying can be painful. You can be hit by a truck, or stabbed, or burned, or develop serious cancer or other diseases that can cause pain. But it can also be a peaceful normal death.
Inshallah, I hope that when I die it may be a peaceful transition and that I'd be worthy of God's love and approval.
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LIke I said, I doubt there are many people who will go peacefully into that good night, when it comes down to it. Sure death is natural, but from the experience and knowledge of humans, LIFE is a hell of a lot more natural and at least, by the time most of us die, we are pretty sure of life. Get back to me at your moment of death and let me know how calm and natural it is then
Realism is always a refreshing concept
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Pain is an odd thing.
Amputees can sometimes feel pain in the missing limb - called phantom pain it shows how dependent pain is on things other than actual physical stimulation.
It is quite obviously mediated by the brain and reactions occurring there.
Can you feel pain in a dream?
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When I say peaceful death it's opposed to that of death by killings or nasty diseases. I'm sure it's never a walk in the park.
I saw my old grandfather die in bed and it sure wasn't peaceful.
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I have felt emotional pain in a dream, fear-sorrow-remorse-ect., but usually any physical pain is a result of the cat walking across my chest or face or something like that. I once burned my arm on the radiator while sleeping and that became part of my dream.