A poll for sisters only.......
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Did I say something different?
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Male cannot deliver Love for a Masculine human being.Love can only exist between Feminine and Masculine.
nonsense.
Now, if the woman can be a true feminine, then she will be Loved.
So you are implying that a woman who is not feminine will never be loved?
And the result will be a Male who can fulfill her needs and protract her from harms.
Sweet. But some women can protect themselves even when they are in a relationship.
Now do any Female thinks that being a Feminine being is wrong?
Do any Male thinks that being a Masculine being is wrong?Not sure how this links with the points that you've already made.
Peace Joe
misunderstanding people is OK; but it would be better to clarify the misunderstanding before starting to make it FACTS.
There was no misunderstanding.
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Peace
The fact is you DID say men should be doing the loving and as a man I do not mind doing that
As expected from a Male. When I said Male should be providing Love, I meant can fulfill her needs (Psychological and Bodily) and protract her from harms (Psychological and Bodily). When a male succeed in doing so, He will trigger The Love Emotions in the Female System.
, but I would really love for a woman to be doing the loving to me (not sexually, that's not really a big issue). I think I need a woman who's a friend, almost like god (knowing all things about me), and like a parents (caring, loving, empathetic, reliable).
Now, Can what I said about Male roll in relationship be the same as Female? My opinion is no; I, myself, do not want My Woman to Protect me, but to fulfill my need of having a feminine being in my side so she can balance my wild and tough life.
If you read your opinion and mine, you will note that they are the same; but mine uses different words (not sweet as yours ).
Please also note that I do not like the Female to treat me as her Kid nor I want her to control my life--as you can note from my avatar I'm an Eagle who wants to be free "Roaming God's world" .Peace and may God Bless all.
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Salam Belal,
Peace Jasmin
Did I say something different?
Males are different from females; I personally think that male is to provide Love and Female is to be Loved.
Any female wants some one who can care for here (fulfill her psychological and bodily needs) and provide protection to here and her kids (prevent the psychological and bodily harms). Now, do you think the male needs the female to do the same for him?Male cannot deliver Love for a Masculine human being. Love can only exist between Feminine and Masculine.
Now, if the woman can be a true feminine, then she will be Loved. And the result will be a Male who can fulfill her needs and protract her from harms.
Now do any Female thinks that being a Feminine being is wrong?
Do any Male thinks that being a Masculine being is wrong?Peace Joe
misunderstanding people is OK; but it would be better to clarify the misunderstanding before starting to make it FACTS.
True feminine!!?? Where is that?? Is there such a thing? Every female has testosterone (male hormone) in her body. Every male has estrogen (female hormone) in his body. So there is no pure him or her. A human being hormones are a combination of both only in different concentrations between one human being and another and even in the same one human body those hormones undergo a change in different times of their lives. So your wife-to-be may have a high amount of estrogen at the time of marriage but later will have more testosterone in her body , and she will, like every woman, so what would you do then? Divorce her?
And what's love got to do with the physical body anyway!?
we use the words man, woman, he , she,, male , female, etc for practical reasons, the same way we use the pronoun He to refer to Allah,, when Allah is not a He nor a She ( even if we use capital letters).. Our language is limited.
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No way!!! sharing is not an option ...i can imagine there being alot of jealousy issues. fftopic I don't understand how some guys choose to marry more than one woman....Surely you can't fall in love with more than one person. Or am i wrong? confused
Regardless of the issue of pollygomy in itself , and the debate around it.
i would say that a man can marry more than one, but not necessary love them all or love any D.
Love is only for ONE sun
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Peace
Love is for the one? What about when one loves the family and friends? Does one have to choose the one, or can one love them all? Sure that's not a marital situation, but it is a situation none-the-less.
Joe
I am only talking about that special love feeling between a man and a women.
didnt mean the other types of love one have for friends family,kids,......etc.
In my own personal opinion, no one can chose whom to love, but he can chose whom to marry.
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I am only talking about that special love feeling between a man and a women.
didnt mean the other types of love one have for friends family,kids,......etc.
In my own personal opinion, no one can chose whom to love, but he can chose whom to marry.
In my opinion it's best to marry someone you love. That can only be one person.
Why marry more than one? thats a different topic have a look at this thread or do another search, theres plenty of articles on polygamy. http//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9596781.0 -
Peace Hope
I understand what you're saying but I'm also asking can someone have what you call that "special love" between a man and a woman, with a man a woman and a woman, and perhaps another woman? I ask because even though you may not agree with polygamy, can a person love more than one wife? Do people who remarry not love the 2nd, or did they not love the first? Can this love only be for one wife? Have you ever experienced that it is not possible to love more than one man or woman at a time?
Joe
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Peace Hope
Have you ever experienced that it is not possible to love more than one man or woman at a time?
Joe
Peace Joe
That is exactely what i am saying, she/he can not love but ONE at a time.
Peace Hope
I ask because even though you may not agree with polygamy.
I didnt mention whether i agree or not on polygamy, but mostly i agree, but i think there are conditions for it, which i dont totally understand (need to read about polygamy more and more ???).
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In my opinion it's best to marry someone you love. That can only be one person.
Sure, it is the best to marry someone you love. but unforuntely the probability of one find his/her beloved partener and the circumstances around are suitable for they getting married is not usually high.
SO
Most people marry someone they LIKE.
Again one can LIKE many, but can only Love ONE.
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Sure, it is the best to marry someone you love. but unforuntely the probability of one find his/her beloved partener and the circumstances around are suitable for they getting married is not usually high.
why so pessimistic?
Most people marry someone they LIKE.
Not 'most' but 'some' and that minority may have their reasons for doing so. (i.e. arranged marriages)
If you want to live a happy, peaceful, stress free life then marry someone you love. Worse case scenerio is that you don't fall in love and meet the right guy, then, you can carry on living a happy life anyhow.
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Peace all
That is exactely what i am saying, she/he can not love but ONE at a time.
Female can only Judge a Female; thus you can only say that She can not Love but one.
I didnt mention whether i agree or not on polygamy, but mostly i agree, but i think there are conditions for it, which i dont totally understand (need to read about polygamy more and more ???).
I want your opinion on the women in the following short documentary movie; are they Crazy or normal?
http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=7OEaRn3uHsc
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I want your opinion on the women in the following short documentary movie; are they Crazy or normal?
http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=7OEaRn3uHsc
Peace,
I watched that video clip about polygamy and my comment will be that it's Ok to do if all involved agree about it.
Now this was an christian family maybe they have other rules because all lived under one roof.
The positive was that all stick together and the kids were never alone.
The Negative was that there was jealousy among the wives. Four women shared One man, can be difficult treat all fairly.Maria
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Peace,
I watched that video clip about polygamy and my comment will be that it's Ok to do if all involved agree about it.
Now this was an christian family maybe they have other rules because all lived under one roof.
The positive was that all stick together and the kids were never alone.
The Negative was that there was jealousy among the wives. Four women shared One man, can be difficult treat all fairly.Maria
well said Maria D