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    belH
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    What if she agrees to marry him but he did not want to because he married? Should she kill his wife?

    What would you do? I'm not a Female to answer this.

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      Samia
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      What would you do? I'm not a Female to answer this.

      I would do the same thing you would do if you fall in love with a married woman would you marry her, commit zina or ask her to divorce her husband (or kill him)? (I do not see there's any other reasonable alternative confused

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        TheNabi
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        Peace

        Bel, I understand there are differences between the sexes, but females are not aliens. I think you're getting carried away with how you see females.

        Joe

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          afridi220
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          Ok, i will not argue a female can only judge a female, but what about taking the opinion of the guys in this forum also . Can a man love more than one woman at at time? let us see what the majority will say.

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          They seems to be normal, every one has his own personal belifs, needs, priorities and concepts, they seem to me thet they are more intersted in being a house wives and mothers and for sure they need a male for that.

          peace

          If that poor gay don?t loose his senses then may be.

          Some ppls are keeping more than one car and still -*

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            afridi220
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            I would do the same thing you would do if you fall in love with a married woman would you marry her, commit zina or ask her to divorce her husband (or kill him)? (I do not see there's any other reasonable alternative confused

            ;D what do you means other reason, do you think he will elopes with her confused

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              anna
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              Peace Sisters

              Thank you for starting that new thread;

              Anyway, I have a Question for all of the Sisters
              Psychologically, Can a Woman fall in Love with a married man? and if she did, would it be better for her to marry him or to commit Zina? Or would she ask him to divorce his first wife before marrying him?

              the question is if a married man fell in love with a woman would she marry him, the answer is there is no reason why they cant if they have a mutual agreement, and if his first wife has to know, nothing done in secret,
              as for myself i would never marry into a married household, but if i was that first wife and my husband is capable of supporting more then one, yes i find no reason why he cant, he doesnt belong to me he belongs to god, and life msut be made easier for all people and not be greedy. this idea of one wife is all in the mind, of course if one is only capable of one then so be it nothing is wrong with that but to say it should ONLY be this way then im sorry i do not agree.
              i would go as far a sayig if i had money beyond what we need for necessties i myself would look for a wife for my husband not one but 3.

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                belH
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                i would go as far a sayig if i had money beyond what we need for necessties i myself would look for a wife for my husband not one but 3.

                Very encouraging answer from a Female.
                We agreed...again.

                I would do the same thing you would do if you fall in love with a married woman would you marry her, commit zina or ask her to divorce her husband (or kill him)? (I do not see there's any other reasonable alternative confused)

                I would not dare to fall in love with a married woman, simply because it is a Sin. But it is not Sin for the Female to Love and marry a married man.

                Peace

                Bel, I understand there are differences between the sexes, but females are not aliens. I think you're getting carried away with how you see females.

                Joe

                Joe, I see that Female and Male are different when it comes to what both provide for the Love relationship. As a Male, I would do every thing to rock my Female world, if she acts in a true Feminine way.

                If that poor guy don?t loose his senses then may be.

                Agree; otherwise one is enough as God instructed us.

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                  Hope
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                  I have a Question for all of the Sisters
                  Psychologically, Can a Woman fall in Love with a married man?

                  Yes she can, casue we dont chose whom to love ,that is why it is called FALLING in love .

                  and if she did, would it be better for her to marry him or to commit Zina? Or would she ask him to divorce his first wife before marrying him?

                  None of the above

                  She would keep silant, holding her emotions till by time it will fade away . We dont have control on our feelings, but we do have control on our deeds .

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                    Jasmin
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                    Anyway, I have a Question for all of the Sisters
                    Psychologically, Can a Woman fall in Love with a married man? and if she did, would it be better for her to marry him or to commit Zina? Or would she ask him to divorce his first wife before marrying him?

                    PeaceOnly Quran can make us agree or disagree; May God Bless

                    It is possible for a woman to fall in love with a married man. It depends on what kind of views this woman has, if she agrees with polygamy, then marry the guy, if she doesn't agree with polygamy...then it's best to stay away.

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                      Samia
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                      I would not dare to fall in love with a married woman, simply because it is a Sin. But it is not Sin for the Female to Love and marry a married man.

                      Let me put it in another scenareo. You fell in love with an unmarried woman. For a reason or another, she married somene else. What would you do?

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                        afridi220
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                        She would keep silant, holding her emotions till by time it will fade away . We dont have control on our feelings, but we do have control on our deeds .

                        Sorry missy yoy are wrong here you dont have the experiance of life -[

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                          anna
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                          Sorry missy yoy are wrong here you dont have the experiance of life -[

                          a crush=something you have at a teenager state and years
                          love = something you feel in your 20s and early 30s
                          respect= is whn your mind matures.........
                          when one gets to a certain stage in life love turns into respect, love is for the young, not the wise, for the wise know better then to let there feeling go astray, with a fairytale idea, we believe in reality
                          and i suggest for all those who are in there 20s to answer to this post in a few years time P then you will understand

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                            afridi220
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                            a crush=something you have at a teenager state and years
                            love = something you feel in your 20s and early 30s
                            respect= is whn your mind matures.........
                            when one gets to a certain stage in life love turns into respect, love is for the young, not the wise, for the wise know better then to let there feeling go astray, with a fairytale idea, we believe in reality
                            and i suggest for all those who are in there 20s to answer to this post in a few years time then you will understand

                            Hey thsi not about fairytale thsi about the truth how some women behave when they fal in love with a married man.

                            You are toooo angel

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                              Hope
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                              Sorry missy yoy are wrong here you dont have the experiance of life -[

                              Who said so?

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                                afridi220
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                                Who said so?

                                Oh so you are the experienced one D

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                                  Hope
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                                  Oh so you are the experienced one D

                                  Who said so also? D

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                                    afridi220
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                                    Who said so also? D

                                    You 7 now you are confused rotfl

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                                      Hope
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                                      You 7 now you are confused rotfl

                                      I am not confused

                                      It is not a matter of experiance , whether it did exist or not, every one has his own principles ).

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                                        afridi220
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                                        I am not confused

                                        It is not a matter of experiance , whether it did exist or not, every one has his own principles ).

                                        Tha question is genral one and not about ones Principle O0

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                                          Hope
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                                          Tha question is genral one and not about ones Principle O0

                                          Nothing is general , every one has his own way and opnion in dealing with differenet situations.

                                          I was asked about my own opinion and not about the genarl opinion .

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