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A poll for sisters only.......

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    afridi220
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    Nothing is general , every one has his own way and opnion in dealing with differenet situations.

    I was asked about my own opinion and not about the genarl opinion ).

    She would keep silant, holding her emotions till by time it will fade away . We dont have control on our feelings, but we do have control on our deeds .

    This is what you said

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      belH
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      She would keep silant, holding her emotions till by time it will fade away (. We dont have control on our feelings, but we do have control on our deeds .

      I respect your opinion; therefore, no comments )

      It is possible for a woman to fall in love with a married man. It depends on what kind of views this woman has, if she agrees with polygamy, then marry the guy, if she doesn't agree with polygamy...then it's best to stay away.

      How about you, what would you do?

      Let me put it in another scenareo. You fell in love with an unmarried woman. For a reason or another, she married somene else. What would you do?

      I will respect her choice; thus, I will move on to look for another one.

      a crush=something you have at a teenager state and years
      love = something you feel in your 20s and early 30s
      respect= is whn your mind matures.........
      when one gets to a certain stage in life love turns into respect, love is for the young, not the wise, for the wise know better then to let there feeling go astray, with a fairytale idea, we believe in reality
      and i suggest for all those who are in there 20s to answer to this post in a few years time P then you will understand

      Please note that the Sexual drive has a major affect in Crush, Love, and Respect (types of relationship). In the last type (Respect), it gets weaker with some Females and not all when getting older. But with males, It gets stronger (I'm not sure about all or some men) in their Forty's, and therefor, they act like Teenagers when seeing a Beautiful Female.
      Thus, if Males do not Lower their Gaze, they get in lots of trouble.
      I would like to add that when aging, Male and Female tend to have more experience in relationship; and therefore, their Psychological part changes, which affects their valuing of the other opposite sex and their relationship with them.

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        anna
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        I respect your opinion; therefore, no comments )
        How about you, what would you do?

        I will respect her choice; thus, I will move on to look for another one.

        Please note that the Sexual drive has a major affect in Crush, Love, and Respect (types of relationship). In the last type (Respect), it gets weaker with some Females and not all when getting older. But with males, It gets stronger (I'm not sure about all or some men) in their Forty's, and therefor, they act like Teenagers when seeing a Beautiful Female.
        Thus, if Males do not Lower their Gaze, they get in lots of trouble.

        who said anything about sexual drive..... are men really that weak that they have to lower there gaze in order not to feel this sexual drive when seeing a younger or any girl for that matter....
        who ever thought the only weakness females can use agianst males, and its forbidden rotfl rotfl

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          belH
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          who said anything about sexual drive..... are men really that weak P that they have to lower there gaze in order not to feel this sexual drive when seeing a younger or any girl for that matter....
          who ever thought the only weakness females can use agianst males, and its forbidden rotfl rotfl

          Sorry, I added the following part during your above posting

          I would like to add that when aging, Male and Female tend to have more experience in relationship; and therefore, their Psychological part changes, which affects their valuing of the other opposite sex and their relationship with them.

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            anna
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            I would like to add that when aging, Male and Female tend to have more experience in relationship; and therefore, their Psychological part changes, which affects their valuing of the other opposite sex and their relationship with them.

            and that is my dear why i said for all younger in there 20s should wait a few years before replying to this post.... group

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              Jasmin
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              How about you, what would you do?

              I would stay away, i can't say it would be easy, but thats the best thing to do i think. Married men are off limits. They have their own family their own responsibilities. I would not never want to be responsible for breaking up or ruining someone else's life (i.e.kids). Sure i would be upset and heartbroken...but one person hurt is better then two or three or more.

              If he was married and had no kids? I would still stay away. How could i guarantee that he wouldn't do the same thing to me? and i would never dream of asking him to divorce his wife, thats selfish. Theres plenty of single guys out there so no need to try and steal someone elses man.

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                Hope
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                I would stay away, i can't say it would be easy, but thats the best thing to do i think. Married men are off limits. They have their own family their own responsibilities. I would not never want to be responsible for breaking up or ruining someone else's life (i.e.kids). Sure i would be upset and heartbroken...but one person hurt is better then two or three or more.

                If he was married and had no kids? I would still stay away. How could i guarantee that he wouldn't do the same thing to me? and i would never dream of asking him to divorce his wife, thats selfish. Theres plenty of single guys out there so no need to try and steal someone elses man.

                yeah

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                  Jasmin
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                  yeah

                  Whats so hard to believe? Everyone has their own views and beliefs, the least you could do is respect that.

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                    Hope
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                    Whats so hard to believe? Everyone has their own views and beliefs, the least you could do is respect that.

                    ????

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                      Jasmin
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                      ????

                      Your confused? LOL you said 'Yeah right' thats sarcasm...trust me i'm an expert! unless i misunderstood, did you mean something else?

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                        Hope
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                        Your confused? D LOL you said 'Yeah right' thats sarcasm...trust me i'm an expert! unless i misunderstood, did you mean something else?

                        i didnt mean any sarcasm, i was approving what you saying, if you read my opinion it totally coincide with yours.

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                          Jasmin
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                          i didnt mean any sarcasm, i was approving what you saying, if you read my opinion it totally coincide with yours.

                          LOL ;D Ana Asfaah owe! I misunderstood ( i think i'm just over tired! sun

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                            anna
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                            LOL ;D Ana Asfaah owe! I misunderstood ( i think i'm just over tired! sun

                            tell me about it, i have been at this all day today i cant even see or hear myself think brickwall

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                              Hope
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                              LOL ;D Ana Asfaah owe! I misunderstood ( i think i'm just over tired! sun

                              It is ok &nbsp

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