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Marriage to a Sunni, I need advice

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    diamantinehoneybunch
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    Im at work right now. Give me some time when I'm free.

    *The short answer is that since Hadith-rejectors reject the authentically reported Hadith of the Prophet peace be upon him, therefore they refuse to obey his sayings and teachings, therefore they are disbelievers from the perspective of orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims.

    Salaam,

    Verse 425 clearly prohibits having sex with ma malakat aymanukum but some narrations attributed to Muhammad say that Muhammad had sex with Mariyyah his Coptic slave during Hafsa's turn at Hafsa's house.

    Regards,
    Yuliana

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      hawk99
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      Why should it be? Quran is not the only revelation from Allah.

      What other revelations are you referring to?

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        Bender
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        Im at work right now. Give me some time when I'm free.

        *The short answer is that since Hadith-rejectors reject the authentically reported Hadith of the Prophet peace be upon him, therefore they refuse to obey his sayings and teachings, therefore they are disbelievers from the perspective of orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims.

        Salaamun alayka,

        RED thank you, that is a nice an honest answer.

        Can you answer me these 3 questions please

        Who is going to judge you and me?
        A) Allah
        B) orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims

        Who is going to judge the orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims?
        A) Allah
        B) themselves

        What is the ONLY judgement that counts?
        A) Allah's judgement
        B) orthodox mainstream Sunni Muslims judgement

        Salaam,
        Bender

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          Noon_waalqalami
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          ?And give not (your daughters) in marriage to AlMushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone)?

          ?And give not (your daughters) in marriage to AlMushrikoon till they believe (in Allaah Alone)?

          Peace,

          Translation posted is horrid; there's no "give" or "daughters" in verse and address is to males and females.

          2221 and not marry yeh the idolaters (f/p) until believes and surely handmaiden believer (f/s) better from idolatress and supposing like her you and not marry yeh the idolaters (m/p) until believe they and servant (m/s) believer better from idolater and supposing liked you him surely those calling to the fire and the god invites to the garden/paradise and the forgiveness by permission his and makes clear signs his to the humankind perhaps they those remembering

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            Israfeel
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            Salaam,

            Verse 425 clearly prohibits having sex with ma malakat aymanukum but some narrations attributed to Muhammad say that Muhammad had sex with Mariyyah his Coptic slave during Hafsa's turn at Hafsa's house.

            Regards,
            Yuliana

            If only you read the Quran you would have seen this verse

            O Prophet! We have made lawful to thee thy wives to whom thou hast paid their dowers; and those whom thy right hand possesses (3350)

            and

            It is not lawful for thee (to marry more) women after this, nor to change them for (other) wives, even though their beauty attract thee, except any thy right hand should possess (3352)

            and

            And those who guard their chastity. Except with their wives and whom their right hands possess,- for (then) they are not to be blamed, (7030)

            Also, 425 never prohibits having sex with right-hand possessions, on the contrary it says

            If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess

            See how Hadith-rejecters even lie about the Quran?? God forbid

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              Israfeel
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              Peace,

              Translation posted is horrid; there's no "give" or "daughters" in verse and address is to males and females.

              2221 and not marry yeh the idolaters (f/p) until believes and surely handmaiden believer (f/s) better from idolatress and supposing like her you and not marry yeh the idolaters (m/p) until believe they and servant (m/s) believer better from idolater and supposing liked you him surely those calling to the fire and the god invites to the garden/paradise and the forgiveness by permission his and makes clear signs his to the humankind perhaps they those remembering

              You call the widespread published academic translation I posted as "horrid", but your own personal internet translation is so jumbled and confused that I have no idea what it says or means. What irony!

              Before you decide to start translating the Quran into English, at least study basic English grammar LOL

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                diamantinehoneybunch
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                If only you read the Quran you would have is verse

                O Prophet! We have made lawful to thee thy wives to whom thou hast paid their dowers; and those whom thy right hand possesses (3350)

                and

                It is not lawful for thee (to marry more) women after this, nor to change them for (other) wives, even though their beauty attract thee, except any thy right hand should possess (3352)

                and

                And those who guard their chastity. Except with their wives and whom their right hands possess,- for (then) they are not to be blamed, (7030)

                Also, 425 never prohibits having sex with right-hand possessions, on the contrary it says

                If any of you have not the means wherewith to wed free believing women, they may wed believing girls from among those whom your right hands possess

                See how Hadith-rejecters even lie about the Quran?? God forbid

                Lie about Quran?
                Are you out of your mind?

                It is proven in verse 425 that God prohibits having sex with ma malakat aymanukum / women whom the men's right hnd posses.
                What I meant by the post was nowhere in the Qur'an did it say men are allowed to commit illegal sex with their right hand possess (sorry I forgot to say women whom their right hand possess whom are not married to them).

                Are you saying that men are allowed to have sex with their slaves, servants, maidens and whom their right hand possess without even marrying them?

                I have never said that men are not allowed to marry ma malakat aymanukum. You misunderstood my post.
                SIGH

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                  Israfeel
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                  Lie about Quran?
                  Are you out of your mind?

                  It is proven in verse 425 that God prohibits having sex with ma malakat aymanukum / women whom the men's right hnd posses.
                  What I meant by the post was nowhere in the Qur'an did it say men are allowed to commit illegal sex with their right hand possess (sorry I forgot to say women whom their right hand possess whom are not married to them).

                  Are you saying that men are allowed to have sex with their slaves, servants, maidens and whom their right hand possess without even marrying them?

                  I have never said that men are not allowed to marry ma malakat aymanukum. You misunderstood my post.
                  SIGH

                  So what is the difference between an ordinary wife and "ma malakat aymanukum" ??

                  Looking forward to your enlightening answer

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                    diamantinehoneybunch
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                    So what is the difference between an ordinary wife and "ma malakat aymanukum" ??

                    Looking forward to your enlightening answer

                    All ma malakat aymanukum are ordinary wives?
                    Then why are some verses say to MARRY ma malakat aymanukum if they are already wives?

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                      Noon_waalqalami
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                      You call the widespread published academic translation I posted as "horrid", but your own personal internet translation is so jumbled and confused that I have no idea what it says or means. What irony!

                      Before you decide to start translating the Quran into English, at least study basic English grammar LOL

                      Widespread by and for the ignorant!

                      2221
                      And not marry you the idolater females until believe...
                      And not marry you the idolater males until believe they.

                      Why can?t you comprehend basic stuff?

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