"Why Pray If I Don't Get Much Out of It?"
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"Why Pray If I Don't Get Much Out of It?"
Compiled from "In The Early Hours" by Khurram Murad
http//www.islamtomorrow.com/salah_tips.htm? "Why must I pray when I don't get much out of it?"
? "What could make me love the Prayers and stay attentive?"
? "Why does Salah feel like such a chore?"These are a few of the questions that often trouble our thoughts and minds.
Today we have indeed come to treat the Prayer (Salah) as something insignificant in our lives. Very often we hear our elders say, "I will start praying when the time comes." Others, specially the younger Muslims, do not find much comfort, and joy in their Prayers. Due to our treatment of Prayer as a burden, our love and passion for the Prayer has vanished. Our hearts have become hardened, and we have become a depressed and defeated people. As a result, many are searching for 'cures and remedies' to the distress in our lives, through any means available, but are unable to find any because they have ignored the greatest medicine - Salah!
If we look deep into our daily lives and diagnose the causes of our spiritual, social and psychological illnesses, we will realize that probably something as uplifting, revolutionary, and empowering as Salah is missing. If we, the youth, realize the potential role of Prayer in changing our lives and as a constant source of hope, we would regret missing even a single Salah.
The Role of Salah in Changing our Lives
The whole purpose of Salah is to be ever conscious of Allah, the Creator and Sustainer of all things. Salah is indeed, one of the most comprehensive forms of Dhikr (Remembrance). No wonder, Allah states in a hadith qudsi "Out of all the ways through which My servant gets closer to Me, Salah is the dearest to Me." (Bukhari) It is unfortunate, therefore, that we do not always take full advantage of this gift.
We may compare the obligatory Salah to bathing five times a day. If after such frequent bathing, your body still remains dirty, then we may question the usefulness and efficacy of such bathing. Similarly, if after regular observance of Prayer your heart remains unmoved and your morals remain corrupt, we may question the usefulness of your Prayer. If you enter into Salah and come out of it the same person, then you have missed something great.
How can you improve the quality of your Salah? Remember, first and foremost, that as soon as you begin your Salah, Shaytan makes it his duty to fill your mind with anything and everything but thoughts of Allah. He tries ceaselessly to disengage your mind and heart from such remembrance. It is this state of absentmindedness that destroys the quality of your Prayer. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) once said "God does not accept the Prayers of an individual until his heart achieves in it what his body has achieved."
The ability to concentrate in Prayer may be improved by undertaking adequate psychological, mental and physical preparation before the Prayer and by utilizing certain techniques during the Prayer.
This is not 'just a good thing' but an obligation on every Muslim male. According to the Prophet, if we knew the good in praying in jama'ah we would not miss it even if we had to crawl to the masjid!
Avoid praying in a state in which you are mentally and physically fatigued.
Keep your mind free of worldly worries, evil thoughts, and ideas.Plan what verses/duas you are going to recite.
If you do not understand Arabic learn the meaning of what you recite in your Prayer.
Remind yourself that engaging in Prayer offers you an opportunity to release yourself from the tensions of this world. The Prophet has said that in Prayer was placed the comfort of his eyes. Therefore cherish the opportunity to remove the burdens of this world from your shoulders.
Use your Prayer to remain focused on your mission in life, which is to bring your entire being to serve only Allah.Use your Prayer as a source of strength, inspiration and enthusiasm for your life and activities.
ii. Physical Preparation
Fulfill all your personal needs before you commence your Prayer, for e.g., thirst, hunger and calls of nature.
Pray in a pure physical state. Perform your wudu with care and perfection.
Although the whole earth is a masjid or a place of worship, choose a place that is clean.Pray in an environment free of noise and one where there is no distraction.
Adorn yourself with clean and respectable clothes.iii. Performing Your Prayer
Assess your mental readiness for Prayer before its commencement, during the various postures, after each rakah and ultimately at the end.
Pray with humility both in your mental state and in your physical manner. Pray with hope and awe.Remind yourself continually that you are talking to the most important 'One' in your life - your Creator and Sustainer. He is in front of you. You are facing Him and you are involved in a dialogue with Him.
Commence your Prayer by seeking Allah's help and protection from the influences of Shaytan.
Lower your gaze while praying and do not allow the physical environment to distract you. Anas related that the Prophet said "My dear son, be sure to avoid being distracted during Prayer, for, to greater concentration and awareness.?
Adopt a whispering technique in your recitation in order to remain focused on what you are saying, and not distract others.
As you recite the Quran, translate it into your own language so that your attention is held. As you ponder upon the meaning and implications of the words, insha-Allah, all worldly thoughts will disappear.
On each occasion that you recite the Sifat or attributes of Allah in ruku and sajda, consider how grateful you are and how grateful you should be to Allah and express your true emotions.
Utilize the occasion of sajda to make additional dua to Allah. The Prophet said "A servant is nearest to his Lord when he is in sajda, so increase your supplication when in sajda." (Muslim.)
Make your Prayer of moderate duration so that you do not become physically and mentally tired but be aware that while in Prayer you must take your time praying.
Give due regard to the proper performance of all the physical postures. Do not 'peck like a crow' when doing rukus and sajdas as every posture in Salah, even the rests, are important.
Pray as if it is your last Prayer. The Messenger of God said When you stand up to pray, perform your prayer as if it were your last...' (Ahmad)
Performing your prayer in a satisfactory manner should lead to a radical change in the way you lead your daily life. Salah must be as the Quran states Surely, Salah prevents indecency and evil . Your improved and more disciplined life will in turn help the quality of your Prayer to increase even more. The two should continuously reinforce each other.Remember, Salah is an obligation. Whether your heart is attentive or not, it must be performed. You cannot give up Prayer because to you it appears useless. There is punishment for a Prayer not performed satisfactorily. It will be a witness against you rather than a witness for you on the Day of Judgment. Don't give up the obligation but try to fill it with the purpose it seeks to serve - remembrance of Allah. It is important to remember the saying of the Prophet (pbuh) "If a man performs two rakat of Salah without the distraction of any worldly thought, all his previous sins will be forgiven." (Bukhari.)
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Remember, Salah is an obligation. Whether your heart is attentive or not, it must be performed. You cannot give up Prayer because to you it appears useless. There is punishment for a Prayer not performed satisfactorily. It will be a witness against you rather than a witness for you on the Day of Judgment. Don't give up the obligation but try to fill it with the purpose it seeks to serve - remembrance of Allah. It is important to remember the saying of the Prophet (pbuh) "If a man performs two rakat of Salah without the distraction of any worldly thought, all his previous sins will be forgiven."
Wow...HARSH.
i pray in english samiri, is that ok ?
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Remember, Salah is an obligation. Whether your heart is attentive or not, it must be performed. You cannot give up Prayer because to you it appears useless. There is punishment for a Prayer not performed satisfactorily. It will be a witness against you rather than a witness for you on the Day of Judgment. Don't give up the obligation but try to fill it with the purpose it seeks to serve - remembrance of Allah. It is important to remember the saying of the Prophet (pbuh) "If a man performs two rakat of Salah without the distraction of any worldly thought, all his previous sins will be forgiven."
Wow...HARSH.
i pray in english samiri, is that ok ?
You must embark upon the journey in learning Arabic; you don't have an excuse to not learn Arabic because you can access this knowledge even through the internet.
The consensus of praying Salah is that it must be done in Arabic and not in ones native tongue.
Samir
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Salaam Samir,
Consensus will not override Allah's judgement in matters.
Joe
And what is Allah's judgment in regards to praying Salah in ones native tongue?
Samir
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Easier to learn arabic than our Creator understanding what's in out hearts? Please. roll
Yes, the Creator knows the capacity you have to embark upon the journey of acquiring knowledge. He knows how much is in your means of doing so. If you are sane, and not striving hard for His Cause, you are in trouble.
Samir
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Salaam,
And what is Allah's judgment in regards to praying Salah in ones native tongue?
Well since there is no command to pray salaat there is no answer to your question.
Joe
No, because then you would be going against the ayah
1736 And follow not that of which you have no knowledge of; surely the hearing and the sight and the heart, all of these, shall be questioned about that.
If you don't know, then why are you making the decision for yourself? That's why the Scholars say, if the Qur'an doesn't mention it, then you turn to the Ahadith. If it doesn't mention it, then you turn to the Sahaba, and so on.
Samir
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Salaam Samir,
No, because then you would be going against the ayah
1736 And follow not that of which you have no knowledge of; surely the hearing and the sight and the heart, all of these, shall be questioned about that.
If you don't know, then why are you making the decision for yourself?
There is no command to 'pray salaat'. If you will show me this command in alquran than I would be gracious. Of all the occurrences of the word I've not seen 'pray salaat'.
That's why the Scholars say, if the Qur'an doesn't mention it, then you turn to the Ahadith.
Seek you a judgement other than Allah's? He is the best of Judges.
If it doesn't mention it, then you turn to the Sahaba, and so on.
If it does not mention it, I do not bother. My salvation is clear to me.
Joe
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There is no command to 'pray salaat'. If you will show me this command in alquran than I would be gracious. Of all the occurrences of the word I've not seen 'pray salaat'.
Go here and Type in 'Aqeemos Salaat'
http//www.islamicity.com/ps/default.asp?inc=PhoneticSearch.asp
There are over 22 results of Allah commanding us to pray. I mentioned this in another thread.
Seek you a judgement other than Allah's? He is the best of Judges.
You seek judgments if Allah doesn't mention it. Then what else do you follow? Your vain desires? Or Scholarly people who know the texts better than you would in your lifetime?
Samir
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Salaam Samir,
There are over 22 results of Allah commanding us to pray. I mentioned this in another thread.
Samir the phrase 'aqeemoo alssalat' does not mean 'pray salaat'.
I only asked that you show me where the quran states 'pray salaat'. This is what you said. I want you to show me where the quran says to 'pray salaat'.
You seek judgments if Allah doesn't mention it. Then what else do you follow? Your vain desires? Or Scholarly people who know the texts better than you would in your lifetime?
If Allah never mentioned purify yourself than why should I go seek a judgement elsewhere of what Allah requires? I do not believe I need to .
Joe
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Samir the phrase 'aqeemoo alssalat' does not mean 'pray salaat'.
I only asked that you show me where the quran states 'pray salaat'. This is what you said. I want you to show me where the quran says to 'pray salaat'.
The word "Aqeemo" comes from the word "Iqama" which means "to stand" or "to erect" or "to establish". So this command comes repeatedly in the Qur'an saying Establish the Salaat; are you telling me this is not including praying Salaat?
If Allah never mentioned purify yourself than why should I go seek a judgement elsewhere of what Allah requires? I do not believe I need to .
Because if you follow your vain desires of Qur'an and interpret it the way you want, then you'll be going against a plethora of ayaat of Qur'an that warn us against that. So whats the solution?
You follow the way of the Sahaba. Try to show me an ayah of Qur'an which tells us to not follow the Sahaba.
Samir
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Salaam Samir,
The word "Aqeemo" comes from the word "Iqama" which means "to stand" or "to erect" or "to establish". So this command comes repeatedly in the Qur'an saying Establish the Salaat; are you telling me this is not including praying Salaat?
I know what the word aqeemoo means. I repeat, I only asked that you show me where the quran states 'pray salaat'. This is what you said. I want you to show me where the quran says to 'pray salaat'.
aqeemoo salaat = establish or uphold salaat; it does not mean pray salaat. Where does the quran say pray salaat?
Joe
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Salaam Samir,
Because if you follow your vain desires of Qur'an and interpret it the way you want, then you'll be going against a plethora of ayaat of Qur'an that warn us against that. So whats the solution?
Read my signature. You will be aware thereafter that I know of this. If you want to discuss traditional islam then go ahead and post to the other section entitled Fake Islam. Not here in the Salaat/Zakaat section. Thank you.
Joe
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Salaam Samir,
The word "Aqeemo" comes from the word "Iqama" which means "to stand" or "to erect" or "to establish". So this command comes repeatedly in the Qur'an saying Establish the Salaat; are you telling me this is not including praying Salaat?
I know what the word aqeemoo means. I repeat, I only asked that you show me where the quran states 'pray salaat'. This is what you said. I want you to show me where the quran says to 'pray salaat'.
aqeemoo salaat = establish or uphold salaat; it does not mean pray salaat. Where does the quran say pray salaat?
Joe
What Arabic terminology are you trying to ask of me? "Pray Salaat" is not Arabic, it's English. How does "establish salaat" not include pray salaat?
Samir
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Salaam Samir,
What Arabic terminology are you trying to ask of me?
That which says what you said. Show me where it says pray salaat. In this case, if we translate salaat as prayer, show me where it says pray prayer. In any case I want the command that says 'pray salaat'.
"Pray Salaat" is not Arabic, it's English.
Well part of it is english and the other part is arabic . I want you to show me the full arabic in alquran that states 'pray prayer'.
How does "establish salaat" not include pray salaat?
That's not what I'm getting at. The term aqeemoo salaat does not mean pray salaat. You said the quran says to pray salaat. Show me where alquran commands us to 'pray salaat'.
Joe
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You must embark upon the journey in learning Arabic; you don't have an excuse to not learn Arabic because you can access this knowledge even through the internet.
The consensus of praying Salah is that it must be done in Arabic and not in ones native tongue.
I do understand what is being said in the sunni salaat but I choose to salaat in english.
I start with talkig to God, reciting al-quraan and focussing on my covenant with him.
I think the prayer method sunnis practise is an innovation, totally unnecessary to islam.
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You must embark upon the journey in learning Arabic; you don't have an excuse to not learn Arabic because you can access this knowledge even through the internet.
The consensus of praying Salah is that it must be done in Arabic and not in ones native tongue.
I do understand what is being said in the sunni salaat but I choose to salaat in english.
I start with talkig to God, reciting al-quraan and focussing on my covenant with him.
I think the prayer method sunnis practise is an innovation, totally unnecessary to islam.
- On what basis do you do this?
- How is it unecessary and an innovation when all the Muslims practiced it during the time of the Prophet (s) till today?
- Prove to me that someone prayed it in their native tongue during the Prophet's (s) time.
Samir