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NEW HERE SOME QUESTIONS/a bit crude warning***

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    unknownuser
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    But you can have an orgasm without ejaculating.

    I never tried it nor I think it is possible with men

    what then?

    if ejacualtion is achieved then the status Junub have been reached and the full bath will be required

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      decepticus
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      I never tried it nor I think it is possible with men

      It is possible in many cases

      • someone who had many orgasms in a short period of time the quantity of sperm decreases until being indetectable
      • a person having undergone prostatic surgery ejaculation occurs in the bladder (retrograde)
      • orgasm in a child whose testes and other sexual glands are not yet active.

      Men usually make a confusion between ejaculation and orgasm because they occur most frequently in the same time but they are distinct phenomenons angel

      That is why I said that orgasm even without ejaculation must be followed by "bathing" (tatahhour)

      Peace

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        phoenix1
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        Actually, you don't have to have any of those cases to not ejaculate during an orgasm. There are techniques used by followers of Tantra and Daoism that prevent or limit ejaculation during an orgasm. They believe (or believed) that loss of bodily fluids is harmful or something. They either physically force retrograde ejaculation or contract the PC muscle (I think that's what it's called) which prevents ejaculation.
        No, YOU should get out more.

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          alpha97
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          Peace all,

          The meditative stages of slaat in traditional practices starts with water! It is a game of symbolics!
          LIFE HAS BEEN MADE A MISTERY TO US FOR A REASON! HOWAL AZZIZ OL HAKEEM!
          It is a game of hide and seek! Hints are given and signs are set! but there is a need for a seeker!

          This mystery is the power behind the process of awakening! It calls you to search to reach out!

          Washing with water and sensation of water drops cleansing the surface is a hint ! to wash the world before it impregnates within your skin and one adds layer upon layer!

          but why? is sexual act so bad then to wash it away? No that is not the reason. We learn to identify the body and its sensations as ME. It creates a false frame of reference that I am my body so I am separate from the creation.

          But I am not my body or its pleasures! i am that i am! i was present before the mnifestation of the world. and had listend to GOD and made a pledge to witness HIS HAMD. i am a ray of the sun. immortal in nature.

          Washing is the symbol of purification! Creating innocence! getting simple, straight, like a child!

          The in adhan comes the stage of witnessing - Consciouseness, gathering of attention, one wants to witness, to tell that which he already knows, then comes the call for passion, passion to seek salvation. salvation of the lower self. the ego.

          Washing or bathing is not a requirement or obligation. It is far more than that. It is a symbolic practice that has a meditative value if one does it slowly and if it could very very slowly. It widens the awareness and creates slilence of MIND.

          peace

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            phoenix1
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            peace Alpha, very well said. You should talk more!

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              flamindecent
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              Peace all...

              bravo

              Super informative!

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                Alen
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                Salaam
                I am very new to this forum and i am so impressed mashallah. I havent quite understood though is it different to traditional thinkin islam? I am a born sunni muslim, husband to be is sunni mum and dad sunni, every where i go sunni which doesnt bother me. But as a 22 year old muslim woman I have pondered many questions about islam, when i read the quran i do question how sunni scholars have interpreted it..i am not well educated in islamic studies think i knw the basics yet i am searchin for my truth. Anyhow many things i feel people really twist to, is things such as hijab, Ive read and read and tried to look for where it mentions one MUST where a hijab cover her hair..i dont see it.
                The other is a bit rude..but i do beg your pardon its IMPORTANT for me..I am so sorry if this is vulgar or crude but masturbation isnt mentioned as haram in the quran as FORBIDDEN I do believe Allah wouldnt forget to add such things yet the prophet muhammad, is it mentioned in the Quran a muslim MUST follow his path to be successful here on thie planet? I am confused..
                The question referrin to masturbation is this, I have a few muslim female friends who are pious muslims but admit to masturbation, now my question is, if you have sexual intercourse between man and woman obviously one has to bathe, if you masturbate wots the etiquette in order to be in front of allah whilst performing salaat?
                And does one burn in hell fire for not performing salaat? I am sooooo sorry for stupid questions im not a weirdo im just very inquisitive and wish for any form of help in findin these particular answers. I mean no disrespect to anybody.
                Peace

                Peace,
                Respectfully.

                welcome to the forum, dear sister and may The Exalted God The Most Merciful bless you and reward you with Paradise, for you are truly a Muslim, you are thinking with your own head, as we are told to do in The Quran. MashaAllah.

                The Exalted God says this in The Quran, when it comes to a code dress

                O children of Adam, we have provided you with garments to cover your bodies, as well as for luxury. But the best garment is the garment of righteousness. These are some of GOD's signs, that they may take heed.

                And tell the believing women to subdue their eyes, and maintain their chastity. They shall not reveal any parts of their bodies, except that which is necessary. They shall cover their chests, and shall not relax this code in the presence of other than their husbands, their fathers, the fathers of their husbands, their sons, the sons of their husbands, their brothers, the sons of their brothers, the sons of their sisters, other women, the male servants or employees whose sexual drive has been nullified, or the children who have not reached puberty. They shall not strike their feet when they walk in order to shake and reveal certain details of their bodies. All of you shall repent to GOD, O you believers, that you may succeed.

                3359] O prophet, tell your wives, your daughters, and the wives of the believers that they shall lengthen their garments. Thus, they will be recognized (as righteous women) and avoid being insulted. GOD is Forgiver, Most Merciful.

                You should avoid masturbation as much as humanly possible, of course humans are weak and The Exalted God The Most Merciful is Forgiving but masturbation is a lesser sin then fornication. You won't go to HellFire for masturbation but fornication might lead to much bigger crimes and sinful deeds and therefore will have worse results in the HereAfter. Avoid masturbation, better try to get married. I have prayed to The Exalted God The Most Powerful for a woman who folows The Quran alone and who wants to marry me and The Exalted God The Most Powerful has answered my prayers and gave me exactly what i aske dfor. AlhamdilAllah.

                Even after masturbation, one should take at least a shower and clean him/herself, afterall, we should be clean all the time - prayer or no prayer - and even especially before the prayer.

                I'm very glad you're here sister and i hope you will enjoy and make more friends. Remember, just rely on The Exalted God AllMighty and trust Him, He has The Best Plan and He is in Control of ALL things.

                Glory be to our God, The Most Merciful, The Forgiver.
                Glory be to our God, The Most Powerful, The Originator.
                Glory be to our God.
                God bless you all.
                Peace.

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                  TheNabi
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                  Dude, why are you answering the same person twice? Did you forget that you already replied to this thread a year ago?

                  Joe

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                    phoenix1
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                    well he did change his views a bit about masturbation....

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                      phoenix1
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                      i just realized my last three posts have the word "masturbation" in them. S

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                        IronSky
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                        something on your mind lately lobster?

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                          Alen
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                          Dude, why are you answering the same person twice? Did you forget that you already replied to this thread a year ago?
                          Joe

                          Peace,
                          Respectfully.

                          I'm sorry i forgot.
                          Nevertheless, we do need to remind each other and prevent sins.

                          Glory be to our God.
                          Peace.

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                            phoenix1
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                            something on your mind lately lobster?

                            I guess so. That's all I'll say in this post.

                            oh I almost forgot...masturbation.

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