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  • Status of Mothers
    C Carlee

    As someone said respect in general has to be earned. It does NOT depend solely on a blood relation, and you can't agree with one person saying this (Bender) and another saying the complete opposite. The Quran right there pointed out under what circumstance you should treat your mother/father in a good manner, i.e. if she breast-feeds, takes care of you and so forth. Dave Peltzer (if you read where I mentioned him in the opening post) obviously has no obligation to even like his mother.

    It also mentions that you should reject them if they're idol-worshippers, which practice-wise my mother is, but just continue to treat them nicely (which I do). It also doesn't mention anywhere how that relationship should change considering she gave consent and paid to get me genitally and sexually mutilated, losing around 70% of bodily pleasure when considering the amount of neural and vascular damage, i.e. paying and giving consent to let that which Satan promised to do, which is to get people to alter God's creation. I'm almost positive God then in this case wouldn't even give a rat's ass if I'm "amicable" to her or not.

    Questions/Comments on the Quran

  • Status of Mothers
    C Carlee

    "Fear the wombs"? -\

    Questions/Comments on the Quran

  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    thnx

    What is the nature of God?

  • Status of Mothers
    C Carlee

    I agree with that^ 100%, and your last sentence answered one of the most important questions I asked here. It's good to know I'm not the only one who thinks the way I do on this matter (which I'd say is the way making most sense).

    Questions/Comments on the Quran

  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    For the record, I lol'd as soon as I read "Hey Carlee, I found a website.." because then my eyes immediately noticed the link, I hahaha I went. xD

    Anyway I'll look at that later...maybe...thanks Zulf...peace out.

    P.S. I like Mr. Sina's reply here. Applies to me a lot (I'm not the inquirer though) http//www.faithfreedom.org/features/letters/the-self-imposed-prision-of-muslims/

    Peace

    What is the nature of God?

  • Status of Mothers
    C Carlee

    So true about the "having to compensate for the awful other things they say about women" thing. That thought came to me years ago in fact. I always thought my mother liked that lofty status since that's the only "loftiness" women have in mainstream Islam period, so naturally my mother tries taking as much advantage from this as possible. Too bad I'm not a blind-following mainstream Muslim though. I act towards her according to what I see is fair/just and that's a lot better than what mainstream Islam suggests. She also sometimes mentions she wishes not to live to an old age, and that she die much earlier just to avoid living the life of an elderly women who must be nursed, but when I talk about how desperate I am for death for my inarguably worse circumstances, she has the nerve to get mad & sh*t. I did that once years ago, and you can bet I'll never bring that up again to her, especially when every now and then she strictly warns against doing things or living in a way that even might cause some kind of depression. Unknowingly to her of course, I've had depression for who knows how long, and on a scale of -10 to 10 with -10 being the most one could desire death, and 10 being the opposite, I'm at around a -5. In my recent life it's never exceeded a -2. Every couple of years I notice it spikes to a -7/-8 due to something that makes me insane, most likely love-relationship-related.

    Screw her.

    Questions/Comments on the Quran

  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    There's not one thing other than being genitally mutilated at birth (and obviously w/out my consent) that mentally hurts me more now for the physical results of this barbaric act. It originated from Judaism and made its way into Christianity and Islam. Of course with Christianity, abiding to the old laws (most of which are man-made, since this is corrupted Judaism being discussed) hardly applies, so that's why 98% of males in Europe aren't mutilated and America is pretty much the only Christian country who does it, and unsurprisingly started sometime after the Holocaust when they befriended the Jews so much, and with mainstream Islam, you know there's no hope. They endorse that just as much, and even to some extent for females.

    When I made this topic, I couldn't be taking more of the grief caused by my older brother (who had anxiety-based OCD and depression, though made the choice to irritate the crap out of people just so he's satisfied). Mid-way of this thread, this female hurt me like no tomorrow over FB; even if not intentional, I made it clear to her how I was affected and the person never responds, and blocks me instead. This was a lot worse to me than it sounds; you'd have to be me to realize it, and know how it makes you want death so much. Later I come to find out more about the terrible effects of circumcision (started reading in 2009) and learned it's far worse than I initially thought. I've come to realize how much God-given pleasure has been stripped due to people's ignorance, lack of common sense, and care to let me decide what happens to my OWN body (and obviously I'm not going to screw myself up by having a very purposeful part of my penis cut off)! I bet if I was kept unmutilated up to this point, I'd be getting a hell of a lot more stress relief and happier, and hence see more of an incentive to desire a future for myself (which I don't now).

    I know there are a lot of circ'd boys/men, probably on this forum even, though with me, being a victim of this does not just take a physical toll, but a severe mental/psychological/emotional one as well.

    All of these problems mentioned are due to people, so I don't much doubt that people are more directly to blame for any of these.

    What is the nature of God?

  • suicide, going to hell?
    C Carlee

    @ IAMOP Actually, I answered my own question yesterday while pondering it myself. Yeah that makes sense.

    @ justamuslim Another good point. I've read that "kill" in the Quran can be used in more than one context. I mean, "daraba" does not always have to mean hit right? The Quran PDF on this site mentions how we should think critically when reading the verses, and accept what makes most sense. To me right now actually, that verse IS looking like it's saying don't "kill" yourself over the subject of money, not suicide per se.

    But since the husband shooting himself through the brain example seems pretty messed up, I can imagine that verse could be talking about something like that.

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  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    I agree with that, thanks. I just wish this wo...know what, never mind. I concede.

    What is the nature of God?

  • suicide, going to hell?
    C Carlee

    Suicide is still taking a life, which is a major bad deed except in certain cases. So I believe that you will get the same punishment as killing somebody else.

    I think that's what huruf was referring to.

    Peace,

    Carlee

    -Edit- And Jafar brought up another point. Reading that verse again, it doesn't seem that God is referring to suicide with the animosity and transgression thing. I've been thinking about that recently. How exactly to you kill yourself "out of animosity and transgression"? If you have animosity (hatred), wouldn't you desire that person you hate to be harmed? Wouldn't you be transgressing with regards to your hatred for that person?

    "And whoever does so" then doesn't seem to be referring to the self-killing, since the phrase follows "God is merciful". You'd think you'd be casted in hell for transgressing against and hating someone and that you don't kill yourself out of transgression and animosity. When has that even happened before?

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  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    Alright. I think I'm done here and that pretty much everything has been said, and in the future I'll make another topic about something, with the assumption the Quran is right for the sake of that topic (or if there's already a relevant topic, I'll add to it).

    Take care all.

    What is the nature of God?

  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    Ok, so what are you implying? That we concede the Quran is wrong with what it says and that the truth is uglier than what it suggests, i.e. the world is the way it is. It may have a "driving force", though no god with the attributes it (the Quran) claims that god has. Perhaps the wording is so off with the Quran I'm hardly seeing the purpose of reading it any longer.

    If this is the consensus we can reach in this "all support for the belief in God" forum, then I'm down with that.

    What is the nature of God?

  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    I'm not respecting other members, though all the insulting posts aimed at yours truly (like ones saying I'm "deaf, blind, and dumb&quot is not a sign of disrespect. I wouldn't be surprised if after making you look this bad, you would agree to said hateful insults.

    It's sad people are too lazy to read through a topic they decide to give bans in, or were you upset after the fact there's no deity of boundless power and mercy was made clear to you?

    Replies to the last responses to me in order since I don't find them quote-worthy

    • "Mental suffering is a symptom of our inability to reason" is your argument. Alright, and a merciful all-powerful god out there is ok with this suffering happening. Never mind how it, in the first place lets it be that a person is "unable" to reason. Right.

    • Another person who doesn't read. I knew someone was going to use that against me. It's what happens when you no longer have a valid argument to make, not that you ever had one.

    • "My creator" half the time doesn't even make sense. Reading the Quran is like reading Yoda talk, and it cares about you so much that it spends the first 200 or so verses talking about a story so irrelevant to you and your spiritual health about a 3000 year old dude who for all we know didn't even exist.

    • This is also pretty irrelevant. You're arguing there's still a god with all this power that created everything and blah blah blah. It still does not address my posts in any relevant manner, not even much the opening post.

    -EDIT- & the Quran gives a "Western" description of the god, once again attributing traits like "all-powerful", "just", and "merciful" (and not just simply "the driving force of everything" as you claim), things that are outright and ridiculously wrong with what goes on in this world. It even claims to have emotions, what with it being "angry" and "satisfied" from our doings, and even attributes body parts ("the hand of...", "in the eyes of...&quot to itself. Human-like and Western? I think so.

    What is the nature of God?

  • How to get rid of negative thoughts?
    C Carlee

    Shalom Aleikhem,

    This is one way

    1. First Step

    http//cdn.memegenerator.net/instances/400x/22935394.jpg

    1. Second Step

    https//encrypted-tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbnANd9GcQcfWL5_K3VkcBdZR6Z8634m6l5C3IWHVgbAL5iTRip-NWSDjjZvQ

    1. Third Step

    https//encrypted-tbn1.google.com/images?q=tbnANd9GcRwYvjyRCpEivW_kJZCWX8nUZ-hmgNWxRFj8Ol_NwcejHXJ9mCa

    1. Fourth Step (where you realize that you are not the one that deserves the pain)

    https//encrypted-tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbnANd9GcTpEZ86YKUd_TyJLhmsVg8vms5N31pZKWJ6wNDxL818dTU52hEB

    1. Fifth Step ( you revolt )

    https//encrypted-tbn1.google.com/images?q=tbnANd9GcQQpeA4QGVj2s_lKoSyMBQTv149d_pNYz4-RrTwaCpQJtVHQ9hjwQ

    1. Sixth Step

    https//encrypted-tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbnANd9GcSmJMjpGlfA1k7hyTAvk265n3QUYwZLrku0Ezdl3ZU7d89rzuuA

    You now dedicate your life to be the Hemorrhoid that humanity deserves in its back. You dedicate your life to rebel against peace and justice of the species that gave you none.

    Peace
    ----------- Student of Allah

    Haha, this is too funny!

    Profiling (well...only if I could xD).

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  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    If that choice coincides with His plans, it will manifest.

    Will not respond to the rest as it's a sad attempt to get back at me for pointing out the obvious.

    This quote's all that's needed to prove there's no merciful god. Read the rest of this post if you wish, though do me a favor and don't respond, unless you have something worthwhile to say.

    @carlee,

    you know that you have that choice not to follow God's guidance or believe in anything. if you think it is immature to believe what is said about God and is written in the scriptures, then you don't have to. if you think God is crap and so are his scriptures, carlee you do have that choice not to follow.

    wondering....are you stuck in your thinking as you are mentally suffering and reaching out for help or are you so resolute convinced in your thinking and just airing out your opinions? help me to understand what is your point, carlee?

    I'd say part of my coming here is to enlighten people there's in fact no god the Quran describes exists, with logic and reasoning. I'm not here to simply say I don't believe in it. I've proved there's nothing that has boundless power and mercy, or even boundless power and is just. You and some others simply find it hard to accept.

    I believe that we don't know much about the "mechanics" of this life and it's purpose. Our minds are very small.
    I also believe this life is a test and a school. We are given a chance to grow and improve ourselves to better and better states. The shit and suffering is part of the test... but is also a result of ourselves (as I currently believe)... and a necessity for us... but I don't have all the answers. But since we as human being do not know the secret of life and death and beyond, at least for experience, then we should assume there is MUCH we don't grasp, and should account for that big unknown... realizing we just don't know it all, and cannot determine how things really are, or their purpose.

    If it doesn't make sense to believe in a omnipotent and all merciful god, then perhaps it is our ideas that are wrong or faulty. We think we know what is just and right. We think we know what is merciful. Looking at humanity in general and how human beings behave with each other, ourselves and nature, it would be more logical to assume that we are retarded as far as justice and mercy is concerned, especially on a universal level. I don't think we as human being are the best judges of stuff like mercy and justice... looking at our track record.. sooo there might be stuff about mercy and justice we just don't comprehend.

    I'm also pretty sure that our ideas of God is also quite twisted and retarded. I feel one gets a better idea of God by thinking about what God is NOT. Also scrap the terminology one is used to when thinking about reality, like 'God' for example... there is just too much false mental baggage attached to it... keeping us stuck in the same old useless thinking tracks... trapped and misled in old habitual thoughts and ideas.

    If there is something which doesn't add up or make sense... perhaps we just cannot see the whole picture, or we don't see clearly, or we miss something. Perhaps it is not the thing which is wrong... but it is our thinking. It's like asking whether almighty God would be able to delete him self from existence since 'he' is almighty. Or, whether God can create a stone that is so heavy that even 'he' cannot lift it. It is the question which is faulty... it is not a proof that an almighty God doesn't exist. The problem lies in our perspective of reality... not in reality itself.

    But I understand your questions and thinking... and I don't want to give shine I understand your suffering... I can only feel my own... but whatever I have posted above here now, are things I have been thinking about for a long time... so I thought I'd share it...

    Peace!

    Thanks, and ha, you are funny. )

    By the way, it's not like I'm saying something should've happened somewhere to make me fine. An almighty god can at least make me strong enough to take life, but I've always been sensitive emotionally. Some things normal people find trivial and forgettable may make me depressed to the point I'd shoot myself with no second thought. I never thought I'd say this here, but what pushed me to make this topic was the grief I get from my mentally ill brother. My most recent experience deals with a girl on a social networking site. It's been with girls when I've experienced the most devastating emotional events. The second-to-last almost ended in suicide, and after 2 days ago, I was fubar'd.

    Although I'm sad, I can still think/be rational just the same, so I advise no one to use this against me in their argument.

    I'm expecting otherwise to happen from some, especially those who've shown they don't read what's posted here.

    Lol, ok, let me see if I understand your responses. First, the problem of unjust suffering. Why are there people who go through horrible things, never seem to get any relief, and end up killing themselves? There is no way to reconcile the idea of a just, loving, and merciful God with the fact that this happens. It is illogical. Is this a fair summary of your first point?

    If so, then we need to talk about human logic and reason. Do you think we, as humans, have enough logic and reason to determine what is right and wrong? I'm going to guess that you will say yes. So let's think about it a little bit. Socrates believed in a monistic soul. This means that in every person, their emotions, reason, and will all resided as a unified entity that he called the "soul" of a person. And because the will, emotions, and reason were all together in the soul, all a person had to do was figure out what was right and they would do it. In fact, they would be irresistibly compelled to do what they thought was right. Do you think that this is correct? I personally do not think Socrates was right and here's why. Have you ever known what was right to do and you didn't do it for any number of reasons? Have you known anyone else who knew that something was the right thing to do and they did the opposite? Everyone is like this to some degree. We all know that world hunger is bad, we all have the means to end it, and we don't do it. Socrates was wrong. Our will, reason, and emotions are not united in the soul. We are not truly logical or rational beings because most of the time we do not do what we know is right. We are, on occasion, capable of some level of reasoning, but not ewnough to know the truth.

    And since we are not rational or logical beings, do we really have the ability to judge whether or not God exists, or even is just and good? If we can't even bring ourselves to do the things that we know are good, who are we to judge God? We cannot know truth through reason, we can only know it through revelation. We can, however, compare things that claim to be revealed from God and see if they fit the world around us.

    But anyway, since we lack enough reason and logic to see the truth, we are incapable of seeing the end result of suffering. It sucks, I know. But I think that is the way that it is. But we do not suffer without meaning. I will say some more about that later.

    Before I end up writing a novel, I want to hear what you think of what I've said this far.

    We may be irrational to a degree, though some things are downright obvious. Mental suffering high as causing someone to have no will to continue, eat, drink, or to do anything besides lie on the ground to rot (if he couldn't kill himself beforehand) is never justified. What I find to be sick and ignorant of human beings, especially in countries like the United States is they will try to keep people alive no matter what. They don't believe in euthanasia, since they believe there can be hope for everyone to change. That's not possible with me, since change has been attempted many times, and each and every time, I'm back to desiring death like a cool water fountain in the Sahara.

    What is the nature of God?

  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    By the way if you're replying now, I just finished updating, so now it's up-to-date.

    -Edit- Did a second update. Now it's up-to-date (heh this is kind of silly...p).

    What is the nature of God?

  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    Ok, Carlee. )

    First, I'm going to ask some questions, if that is ok with you. Feel free to answer or not answer any of them.

    1. Would it be safe to say that you feel logic and reason will not allow you to believe in a just, all-powerful God that either causes and/or allows suffering?

    2. Do you think it is ever justified to cause or inflict suffering or death as a means of preventing more suffering? Example where I live, deer sometimes become overpopulated because of a large food supply. Hunting becomes encouraged because overpopulation leads to starving and sickly animals that suffer horribly.

    3. Have you ever squished a bug and not felt remorse for it?

    I'd believe such if said suffering went where it belongs, i.e. people who're undoubtedly evil and did evil intentionally; not experienced by those being good and wanting to at least desire living, especially when they've not asked for a life. Heck, I may believe it if said god didn't necessarily give bounty and good to the them. At least make their life bearable enough mentally so they could achieve death via a method other than suicide. Keyword is may, since I don't see it logical they wouldn't be given that, and to give them the kind of mental torture leading to suicide, DESPITE trying so hard seeking God for help so many times before (I'm talking a 20 - 25 year period) makes the notion there's such god/light or whatever described in the Quran become very illogical. As for me, anything I've done wrong in life I've repented/apologized for LONG ago, and anything that I may do now to someone, which if anything would be in the form of words (talk-back) or slight actions, are done in retaliation; I don't just to it for the lulz or due to some kind of sadism, so no, logically there is no god - at least not the type any of the monotheistic religions (including Quran-alone sects) teach exists.

    Shooting them and killing them instantly is justified, if it's going to prevent long-felt suffering such as hunger. That's even why most suicidal people want a gun - it ends suffering while not having to make you experience bursts of it before you die, not to mentioned guaranteed unlike many other methods, and when you attempt something that almost kills you but doesn't...well the rest of this should be obvious.

    A bug dude. How many nerves, emotions etc. does it have compared to a much larger being like a human not to mention the human mind, plus it's a near instant death when someone (at least a good, and smart person) does it. I'm not gonna crush a leg of an ant, then another, then another before I'd kill one. It's more like a squish it didn't get to know for more than .25 seconds, done so that it doesn't cause months of some grief to a person because of an ant problem, and yes, humans much more important than insects in this sense.

    What is the nature of God?

  • Why is Rashad Khalifa wrong?
    C Carlee

    Irrelevant but, Bigmo has the best avatar.

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  • God's Care
    C Carlee

    Wow, what a post!

    The answer is both.

    P.S. - that smiley's not an indication I'm fine though the above post's so much better than most posts here it makes me feel slightly so.

    What is the nature of God?

  • Why is Rashad Khalifa wrong?
    C Carlee

    I'm gonna have to agree way more with this light business and that there isn't a god - spent the last 1 to 1.5 hours reading one of the articles on that page. Pretty interesting. The Arabic phrase "la ilaaha illallah" actually means "there's no god but the one who is not god"! Again, VERY interesting (and I agree, for the most part).

    brofist

    P.S. es is pretty. P

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