Peace LTTBT. Regrets will be there at first, but consistency with the correction will make them fade. Of course day to day living can bring new regrets and more remorse . Life is ongoing with ups and down. Following GOD s message consistently will help remove the issues . Eventually , your way of life and relationship with your Creator will balance your life towards having very few issues and gives you solutions towards dealing with your feelings and status. We have to accept that good and bad will happen in our life. Only repeated bad/sins will increase the regrets. Keeping our word and avoiding committing the same errors over and over again helps the healing. GOD teaches us that if we try our best ,be honest and trust Him ,we eventually succeed. Human by definition, makes mistakes and forgets . Everyday we try our best to do better. GOD bless you. Peace

I am confused on why the son of Adam did not defend himself against his brother's intent to kill, when throughout the Quran The God tells us to fight/defend those who fight against you. ...If you extend your hand towards me to kill me, I will not extend my hand to you to kill you for I fear Allah, the Lord of the Universe. I want you to leave with the sin of killing me and with your own sin then you will be among the people of the Fire. This is the reward of the unjust. His soul made him kill his brother. So he killed him and became one of the losers. S5V27-30 Is it more righteous to not reciprocate like the son of Adam did? Or am I missing something? Peace Peace LTTBT Be a believer or none believing person.. Their quotes are not necessarily the command of Allah even though they are in Quran as a complete verse.. ... We are not to follow every verse of Quran.. We are to believe in all of them and to adhere what is asked to be followed.. There are lessons in Quran as well orders.. We are not ordered to destroy all deities like Ibrahim did.. Ibrahim did doesn't mean we should do coz it is in Quran.. They are lessons not command of God.. Do follow command of God if it applies to all believers.. It was the sole decision of one of the sons of Adam.. He told his brother what He wanted to say.. He may be loving his brother and cannot do something to the extent of killing even in self defence... It can happen to any kind hearted person.. Even if such a thing happen in my life I can't think of killing my own sibling even though they want to kill me for a silly reason out of jealousy ... Coz once I have killed own sibling for self defence the pain will only remain with me... But it is different killing an another person who came against you and you would try to protect yourself.. And in that case anything could happen.. Even you overcome and kill the one who attacked you you won't bother much coz you can be satisfied after sometime.. But not in case of the one you love.. Suppose if one's father try to kill his son while son loves him more than anyone, can son kill father for self defence.. Such approach is tough with love.. So it was comprehensive decision of Adam's son and not what God ordered or prefer necessarily.. Furthermore.. We have no idea how he murdered his brother.. Was there any chance for defence? Though he told I won't attack you, he would have defended spontaneously if it was face to face.. But who knows.. It could be a cowardly killing without knowledge to his brother.. For example.. Poisoning, attack from rear.. Etc etc.. God gives as law what is best for human being though we like it or not.. Can do it or not.. But Allah knows what suits best for human heart as law.. Self defence for the sake of others is best.. Self defence for the sake of self is personal choice like Adam's son..

I know, from previous threads you're (G.A) arrogant ignorance knows no bounds, but you need only use a dictionary look up the origin of the term, and you'll find law means as I point out. You "must" also be re-presented in any positive law court, you cannot be un-re-presented, YOU MUST BE a constructed legal fiction, they cannot deal with a living soul, or inherent power, as these things are immutable, unalienable and universal, the legal fictions are just that fictions placed upon you through a straw man.

Salam, vain talk or action is anything that causes one into commiting gross or minor sin at the worst case. At the best case, vain talk or action is anything that "waste your time" with regard to developing your soul in preparation to day of judgement. We are human so we always will make mistakes like participate in vain things but we should develop our Iman to the point that at least we can identify vain things from our lives and remove it as much as possible. You can also convert a vain things into something righteous. For example taking a 1 week vacation for non believers they focus on their own relaxation and escape from reality which is a vain things. For a guided person, they take 1 or 2 days in the vacation and maybe do some charity work at the new destination and the rest they use to relax and ponder on Allah. Can you see the difference? The same vacation for the non believer is really waste of time but for the righteous person he or she has converted the vacation into a righteous deed.