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How sex before Marriage is not haram (prohibited) according to the Quran

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    rararanran
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    hahhaa
    which you prefer doing the masturbation with?

    anyway its not about a slave,

    how can right hand posses mean a slave??
    which is closer meaning?
    right hand posses = doing sex with ur own body part which possesed the sex desire
    right hand posses = your slave

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      imrankhawaja
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      slave is a poor defination ,

      look this thread for more insight...

      https//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9609341.0

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        imrankhawaja
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        hahhaa
        which you prefer doing the masturbation with?

        its a secret , i dnt really want to share my recepies with somebody else police

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          Timotheus
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          Peace,

          Those who love that immorality be spread among the believers have a painful torment in this life and in the hereafter,

          I don't believe we should make anything taboo, but at least keep the conversation clean

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            imrankhawaja
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            exactly, brother you are right..

            keeping a convo clean best way is to use surf excel...

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              rararanran
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              hahahah yeah i know, but
              openess is better in scientific matter and spiritual and belief which is about frankness
              like science, quran is about science of how this universe works
              but let me jst say sorry if any of u grt offended

              right hand posses = body part which posses (the sex desire)
              its more logical because those ayat is talking about the sex with
              and posses = mean the sex desire which the ayat is talking about
              right hand = mean body part

              that translation is better n more logical for the whole ayat

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                imrankhawaja
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                brother you can drive whatever meanings you want .. this book is open for exploring new ideas...

                i want to add something in your discussion , the right hand posess thing is also well understood in the sense of that thing which come from your own body as the result of sex drive..

                so its belong to you , if you wasted it its not a big deal... (i can understand your part)

                but i want to add one more thing.. whats about the sex with doll(artifical)... its third catagory now...
                and are two people allowed to use same doll for sex?

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                  rararanran
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                  brother you can drive whatever meanings you want .. this book is open for exploring new ideas...

                  i want to add something in your discussion , the right hand posess thing is also well understood in the sense of that thing which come from your own body as the result of sex drive..

                  so its belong to you , if you wasted it its not a big deal... (i can understand your part)

                  but i want to add one more thing.. whats about the sex with doll(artifical)... its third catagory now...
                  and are two people allowed to use same doll for sex?

                  lets just say a guy have it with robot doll

                  as long those robot moved by it self or by your self and
                  no other person control it
                  its considered as your body part,

                  tools you posses or control is ur body part
                  like sword that you hold is considered as ur bodypart

                  if two guys use that robot, than it men those robot is their each bodypart
                  and these verse tell us its okay to use what ur part posses,
                  tools become ur body part/possesed when u hold it

                  so as long u have it by ur self, theres no prohibition on that
                  dont use that bodypart tool with other person together/simultanously

                  that what i belief

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                    imrankhawaja
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                    lets just say a guy have it with robot doll

                    as long those robot moved by it self or by your self and
                    no other person control it
                    its considered as your body part,

                    tools you posses or control is ur body part
                    like sword that you hold is considered as ur bodypart

                    if two guys use that robot, than it men those robot is their each bodypart
                    and these verse tell us its okay to use what ur part posses,
                    tools become ur body part/possesed when u hold it

                    so as long u have it by ur self, theres no prohibition on that
                    dont use that bodypart tool with other person together/simultanously

                    that what i belief

                    hmm so same right handed robots are rightfully yours if you buy them...

                    but if a friend want to take favor he can also use that robot... that what you try to say...

                    in case of animals , what you rightfully own , are we allowed to do sex with them? we even kill them for eating so why not do sex with them for sex satisfaction? (i want your views on it)

                    RED nobody can do it brother.. which world you are living in... is it really possible... o

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                      rararanran
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                      hmm so same right handed robots are rightfully yours if you buy them...

                      but if a friend want to take favor he can also use that robot... that what you try to say...

                      in case of animals , what you rightfully own , are we allowed to do sex with them? we even kill them for eating so why not do sex with them for sex satisfaction? (i want your views on it)

                      RED nobody can do it brother.. which world you are living in... is it really possible... o

                      first thing first, god did not prohibit polygamy, divorce, gamble, geting drunk, or masturbation
                      because some people say its haram by god,

                      but god didnt say its haram
                      god jst say theres a huge lost u can get from doing that,
                      which will degenerate ur degree as human being

                      wait a second i give example, sword u hold n control at ur hand is considered ur body part,
                      its not about who is buying or own those thing, its a matter who use or control it = thats what i mean by "posses" it, like ghost "posses" a being

                      and animal? could you really or the one who control or "posess" the animal?
                      horse? do you control horse and consider that animal as ur body part?

                      btw its not a car, insted u could have sex with a car u control/possess if u want to hehe

                      RED its about the future a robot doll, or a doll with two hole
                      you can buy it, but you prohibited to use it together with other people at the same time
                      because quran answear all things, past, present or future

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                        first thing first, god did not prohibit polygamy, divorce, gamble, geting drunk, or masturbation
                        because some people say its haram by god,

                        but god didnt say its haram
                        god jst say theres a huge lost u can get from doing that,
                        which will degenerate ur degree as human being

                        wait a second i give example, sword u hold n control at ur hand is considered ur body part,
                        its not about who is buying or own those thing, its a matter who use or control it = thats what i mean by "posses" it, like ghost "posses" a being

                        and animal? could you really or the one who control or "posess" the animal?
                        horse? do you control horse and consider that animal as ur body part?

                        btw its not a car, insted u could have sex with a car u control/possess if u want to hehe

                        RED its about the future a robot doll, or a doll with two hole
                        you can buy it, but you prohibited to use it together with other people at the same time
                        because quran answear all things, past, present or future

                        having a sex with car is recommended . ok i got it...
                        and about future , we dnt know what is gona happen in near future ... (lets talk about present)

                        yes you control the horse when you , pull his left chain for taking left turn and right for right turn..
                        yes horse in in your possession and control... (by the will of God)
                        even the modern engines in cars are also built through horse power engine measurements ( seems horse is not an ordinary animal)
                        yes you rightfully own your horse /animals
                        you can kill them for eat, ride them for transport... and why dnt you just have a sex with them thats what i ask according to your own given logic... ( try to give me answer this time just yes or no)

                        apart from that...

                        polygamy, divorce, gamble, geting drunk, or masturbation

                        in this list add more thing which are not haram like

                        lie
                        dishonesty
                        cheating
                        swaering
                        assaulting

                        list is bit long ...

                        but we differentiate things with morality and immorality...

                        like the way you are discussing is consider as immoral discussion... why immoral becoz some womens are in forum too so for the sake of their respect you need to hold the moralities ..

                        but yeh for getting knowledge you can aks the questions in immoral way its not haram/prohibted...

                        people usually consider the word haram as something extra apart from law...
                        haram is a synonym of a prohibtion or restriction...
                        in that sense a lie can be haram too
                        cheating can be haram too
                        dishonesty can b haram too
                        disloyalty can be haram too...

                        depend on how you look the word "haram"

                        if you want to discuss the word haram we can talk in relevant thread instead of going offtopic...

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                          imrankhawaja
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                          RED its about the future a robot doll, or a doll with two hole
                          you can buy it, but you prohibited to use it together with other people at the same time
                          because quran answear all things, past, present or future

                          so according to you anal sex is also recomended... ? look your own logic is rolling again and again with new multiple questions...

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                            rararanran
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                            having a sex with car is recommended . ok i got it...
                            and about future , we dnt know what is gona happen in near future ... (lets talk about present)

                            yes you control the horse when you , pull his left chain for taking left turn and right for right turn..
                            yes horse in in your possession and control... (by the will of God)
                            even the modern engines in cars are also built through horse power engine measurements ( seems horse is not an ordinary animal)
                            yes you rightfully own your horse /animals
                            you can kill them for eat, ride them for transport... and why dnt you just have a sex with them thats what i ask according to your own given logic... ( try to give me answer this time just yes or no)

                            apart from that...

                            polygamy, divorce, gamble, geting drunk, or masturbation

                            in this list add more thing which are not haram like

                            lie
                            dishonesty
                            cheating
                            swaering
                            assaulting

                            list is bit long ...

                            but we differentiate things with morality and immorality...

                            like the way you are discussing is consider as immoral discussion... why immoral becoz some womens are in forum too so for the sake of their respect you need to hold the moralities ..

                            but yeh for getting knowledge you can aks the questions in immoral way its not haram/prohibted...

                            people usually consider the word haram as something extra apart from law...
                            haram is a synonym of a prohibtion or restriction...
                            in that sense a lie can be haram too
                            cheating can be haram too
                            dishonesty can b haram too
                            disloyalty can be haram too...

                            depend on how you look the word "haram"

                            if you want to discuss the word haram we can talk in relevant thread instead of going offtopic...

                            dishonesty, dont take oath n promise from them anymore
                            cheating lets say adultery, lash em in public ( talk about their bad deed in public to make them ashamed)
                            swaering?? this is not haram
                            assaulting, its considered transgression do what they did to you in equal
                            stealing for greed/corruption chop hand
                            straling because nothing to eat starving to death is not haram

                            its not about moral or immoral its about which is haram, dont mix those
                            haram and have punishment for it
                            punishment by god and by human

                            quran is science and theres no taboo thing in science 1+1 is 2

                            so talk about stephen hawking or people with prosthetic or robot hand

                            recomended?? what i recomend is to abstain from all those animal things the best u can
                            i recomend to all of you to abstain from sex!

                            btw anal sex is not prohibited with your supose, wife or husband
                            how could you tell if im a man or woman?

                            is that only a man who could talk about these thing??
                            is woman unable to talk about these?

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                              rararanran
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                              the first haram is something which is zalim thing to other human and god tell us about human realm or other human punishment for it, and prohibition for it

                              the second is not actually a haram or prohibition thing because this is seomthing that only god who will judge and will punish, so its up to individual to consider gamble, beer, polygamy, divorce,etc is haram or not. god only say about the bad things or cons about those things.

                              but if people in society make an agreement and regulation about it its okay but just dont take god or prophet name about those regulation, its human regulation

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                                imrankhawaja
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                                btw anal sex is not prohibited with your supose, wife or husband
                                how could you tell if im a man or woman?

                                if something is not mention is the list of haram, doesnt necessarily means you are allowed to do it...(in general)
                                like speaking a lie?
                                can save a life or speaking a truth can take a life too.. but as i told earlier i dnt want to go offtopic... (about haram)

                                its totally morality and immorality always like

                                dark and light
                                haram(disallowed/prohibted) and halal(allowed/not prohibted)
                                neg and positive
                                good and evil
                                moral and immoral
                                right and wrong
                                true and false like 1+1 = 2 true... =3 false...

                                BOLD part yeh i dnt know who you are?
                                but thats not important ...

                                about anal sex and blowjobs its depends on the moral value of individual i cant comment on it..
                                but every body really knows the difference between neat and clean , and hygience stuff...
                                some people are neat and clean while other appeared to take less care about it...

                                but God like people are who clean (somewhere mention in scripture too)

                                making anal sex allowed is a big claim without any evidence from quran in hand...

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                                  rararanran
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                                  if something is not mention is the list of haram, doesnt necessarily means you are allowed to do it...(in general)
                                  like speaking a lie?
                                  can save a life or speaking a truth can take a life too.. but as i told earlier i dnt want to go offtopic... (about haram)

                                  its totally morality and immorality always like

                                  dark and light
                                  haram(disallowed/prohibted) and halal(allowed/not prohibted)
                                  neg and positive
                                  good and evil
                                  moral and immoral
                                  right and wrong
                                  true and false like 1+1 = 2 true... =3 false...

                                  BOLD part yeh i dnt know who you are?
                                  but thats not important ...

                                  about anal sex and blowjobs its depends on the moral value of individual i cant comment on it..
                                  but every body really knows the difference between neat and clean , and hygience stuff...
                                  some people are neat and clean while other appeared to take less care about it...

                                  but God like people are who clean (somewhere mention in scripture too)

                                  making anal sex allowed is a big claim without any evidence from quran in hand...

                                  and now you are like a hadist people haraming thing which is not told in quran
                                  who said anal is haram you or god?
                                  even tough i dont like anal and even my self considered it as immoral,
                                  its not prohibited in quran, so dont say if its a haram thing okay

                                  even prophet are not allowed to say haram to something which is not in quran

                                  and who said lying is not haram? the punishment is to not believe those person again
                                  until he ask the other party forgiveness, and test them if he/she is not lie anymore

                                  lying even cause death is a lie, what the difference?? u make it complicated

                                  because moral and immorality is relative but quran is not
                                  everything is already there in detail

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                                    This is the severe drawback in the existing translations of the Quran. Unfortunately the whole Quran has been translated without reasoning and even without looking at the words of the Quran. This is correct that Iranian culture and our upbringing has changed the understanding of the Quran and we take each and every statement of the Quran according to our beliefs which could be wrong. The truth should come out whether it matches with our personal belief or not. I appreciate those thoughtful people who do their best to bring out the truth without looking back.

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                                      imrankhawaja
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                                      and now you are like a hadist people haraming thing which is not told in quran
                                      who said anal is haram you or god?

                                      read my all posts again and tell me a single thing i claim its haram...

                                      i did not claim its haram .

                                      you claim its allowed , burden of proof is on you.. either you bring a reference for your claim it would be sufficent...

                                      i said i consider it as an immoral act and God dnt like immorality...

                                      even tough i dont like anal and even my self considered it as immoral,
                                      its not prohibited in quran, so dont say if its a haram thing okay

                                      well its good you know the dfference between immoral and moral
                                      thats what we are actually discussing....

                                      lying even cause death is a lie, what the difference?? u make it complicated

                                      its not complicated i actually told you the moral values of speaking lie and truth according to a situation

                                      example telling a truth to kid about his drawing is horrible is not a moral thing
                                      a person is running for his life.. and hide in your house ,,, and if you speak lie , its a moral thing... u saved a life..

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                                        rararanran
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                                        if something is not mention is the list of haram, doesnt necessarily means you are allowed to do it...(in general)

                                        ?? confusing if it doesnt necessarily means you are allowed to do it then, it means not allowed right?

                                        read my all posts again and tell me a single thing i claim its haram...

                                        i did not claim its haram .

                                        you claim its allowed , burden of proof is on you.. either you bring a reference for your claim it would be sufficent...

                                        i said i consider it as an immoral act and God dnt like immorality...

                                        its you who should refrence out if god dnt like immorality and anal is not allowed thing,

                                        my base is
                                        16116

                                        and, for what your tongues describe, do not utter the lie, (saying) this is lawful and this is unlawful, in order to forge a lie against allah; surely those who forge the lie against allah shall not prosper

                                        587

                                        o you who believe! do not forbid (yourselves) the good things which allah has made lawful for you and do not exceed the limits; surely allah does not love those who exceed the limits (sex outside marriage)

                                        2223

                                        Your wives are as fields for you. You may enter your fields from any place you want. Reserve something good for your souls (for the life hereafter). Have fear of God and know that you are going to meet Him. give the glad news to the believers.

                                        as long your supose agreed and have no problem with that, and do not foce her

                                        and alot of hadist forbid anal intercourse with ur supose, like this one

                                        It was narrated that Ibn ?Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said ?Allaah will not look at a man who has intercourse with a woman in her back passage.? Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1165); classed as saheeh by Ibn Daqeeq al-?Eid in al-Ilmaam (2/660) and by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

                                        i dont like any sex, im abstaining from it, but it is what it is, anal sex is allowed with your supose

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                                          rararanran
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                                          lying to save life, lie is a lie
                                          but only god who will judge

                                          and haram means its got a direct impact to any other human,
                                          and if the person u lie to know that u are lying, he will not trust u anymore
                                          and u will ask forgiveness, so they will trust u again
                                          and they will surely test u if will not lie anymore, thats what haram mean

                                          and if u lie to save life then is it a lie or a saving life,
                                          i say its saving life with doing haram thing which is lying,

                                          will you get sin from god or enter hell, or will u got pahala n enter heaven, its only god who judge
                                          but with those human u will surely take those haram punishment in human realm by other human

                                          but my self i dont care if a bad guy who want to hurt other person eill not trust me anymore,
                                          and im saving other people life,
                                          i will lie if im faced with that circumstence, but the lie is still lie and it is haram

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