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How sex before Marriage is not haram (prohibited) according to the Quran

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    rararanran
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    QURAN is just a tips books, and a happy info from god the most good n most evil, its just a tips how things work in this harsh dimension of universe, how lion kill and eat lamb, but ballance is a good thing in believer perspective, there will be no good without evil, now chose animal human,

    and who follow hadist is a man without knowledge, may god give them hidayah

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      rararanran
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      peace brother,

      some people are left handed yes

      whats about them

      use ur right hand mean self masturbation is halal
      "use what ur body posesed with those sex desire"
      your foot or your own mouth or use vibrator, easy
      or hold and abstain from it like higer human woth knowledge
      until you got money to pay dowry or if ur lover doesent need any dowry

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        imrankhawaja
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        right hand batsman & left hand batsman(cricket)
        right hand rule (physics)
        right hand traffic & left hand traffic(transport)

        some right handers play with left hand ,,, and some lleft handed played with right hand... its a strange classification..

        even in tradition people who eat with right hand and wipe their (dirt) with left hand considered as righteous people..
        but again when i see a lefty is in situation and every time he eat with left hand people say him things... (its was illogical)..

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          imrankhawaja
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          your foot or your own mouth

          hahahahahaha

          for this a person must be expert in gymnastic...

          specially the mouth one is impossible... rotfl rotfl rotfl rotfl rotfl rotfl

          btw did you try it...?

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            rararanran
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            hahhaa
            which you prefer doing the masturbation with?

            anyway its not about a slave,

            how can right hand posses mean a slave??
            which is closer meaning?
            right hand posses = doing sex with ur own body part which possesed the sex desire
            right hand posses = your slave

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              imrankhawaja
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              slave is a poor defination ,

              look this thread for more insight...

              https//free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9609341.0

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                imrankhawaja
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                hahhaa
                which you prefer doing the masturbation with?

                its a secret , i dnt really want to share my recepies with somebody else police

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                  Timotheus
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                  Peace,

                  Those who love that immorality be spread among the believers have a painful torment in this life and in the hereafter,

                  I don't believe we should make anything taboo, but at least keep the conversation clean

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                    imrankhawaja
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                    exactly, brother you are right..

                    keeping a convo clean best way is to use surf excel...

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                      rararanran
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                      hahahah yeah i know, but
                      openess is better in scientific matter and spiritual and belief which is about frankness
                      like science, quran is about science of how this universe works
                      but let me jst say sorry if any of u grt offended

                      right hand posses = body part which posses (the sex desire)
                      its more logical because those ayat is talking about the sex with
                      and posses = mean the sex desire which the ayat is talking about
                      right hand = mean body part

                      that translation is better n more logical for the whole ayat

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                        imrankhawaja
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                        brother you can drive whatever meanings you want .. this book is open for exploring new ideas...

                        i want to add something in your discussion , the right hand posess thing is also well understood in the sense of that thing which come from your own body as the result of sex drive..

                        so its belong to you , if you wasted it its not a big deal... (i can understand your part)

                        but i want to add one more thing.. whats about the sex with doll(artifical)... its third catagory now...
                        and are two people allowed to use same doll for sex?

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                          rararanran
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                          brother you can drive whatever meanings you want .. this book is open for exploring new ideas...

                          i want to add something in your discussion , the right hand posess thing is also well understood in the sense of that thing which come from your own body as the result of sex drive..

                          so its belong to you , if you wasted it its not a big deal... (i can understand your part)

                          but i want to add one more thing.. whats about the sex with doll(artifical)... its third catagory now...
                          and are two people allowed to use same doll for sex?

                          lets just say a guy have it with robot doll

                          as long those robot moved by it self or by your self and
                          no other person control it
                          its considered as your body part,

                          tools you posses or control is ur body part
                          like sword that you hold is considered as ur bodypart

                          if two guys use that robot, than it men those robot is their each bodypart
                          and these verse tell us its okay to use what ur part posses,
                          tools become ur body part/possesed when u hold it

                          so as long u have it by ur self, theres no prohibition on that
                          dont use that bodypart tool with other person together/simultanously

                          that what i belief

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                            imrankhawaja
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                            lets just say a guy have it with robot doll

                            as long those robot moved by it self or by your self and
                            no other person control it
                            its considered as your body part,

                            tools you posses or control is ur body part
                            like sword that you hold is considered as ur bodypart

                            if two guys use that robot, than it men those robot is their each bodypart
                            and these verse tell us its okay to use what ur part posses,
                            tools become ur body part/possesed when u hold it

                            so as long u have it by ur self, theres no prohibition on that
                            dont use that bodypart tool with other person together/simultanously

                            that what i belief

                            hmm so same right handed robots are rightfully yours if you buy them...

                            but if a friend want to take favor he can also use that robot... that what you try to say...

                            in case of animals , what you rightfully own , are we allowed to do sex with them? we even kill them for eating so why not do sex with them for sex satisfaction? (i want your views on it)

                            RED nobody can do it brother.. which world you are living in... is it really possible... o

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                              rararanran
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                              hmm so same right handed robots are rightfully yours if you buy them...

                              but if a friend want to take favor he can also use that robot... that what you try to say...

                              in case of animals , what you rightfully own , are we allowed to do sex with them? we even kill them for eating so why not do sex with them for sex satisfaction? (i want your views on it)

                              RED nobody can do it brother.. which world you are living in... is it really possible... o

                              first thing first, god did not prohibit polygamy, divorce, gamble, geting drunk, or masturbation
                              because some people say its haram by god,

                              but god didnt say its haram
                              god jst say theres a huge lost u can get from doing that,
                              which will degenerate ur degree as human being

                              wait a second i give example, sword u hold n control at ur hand is considered ur body part,
                              its not about who is buying or own those thing, its a matter who use or control it = thats what i mean by "posses" it, like ghost "posses" a being

                              and animal? could you really or the one who control or "posess" the animal?
                              horse? do you control horse and consider that animal as ur body part?

                              btw its not a car, insted u could have sex with a car u control/possess if u want to hehe

                              RED its about the future a robot doll, or a doll with two hole
                              you can buy it, but you prohibited to use it together with other people at the same time
                              because quran answear all things, past, present or future

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                                imrankhawaja
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                                first thing first, god did not prohibit polygamy, divorce, gamble, geting drunk, or masturbation
                                because some people say its haram by god,

                                but god didnt say its haram
                                god jst say theres a huge lost u can get from doing that,
                                which will degenerate ur degree as human being

                                wait a second i give example, sword u hold n control at ur hand is considered ur body part,
                                its not about who is buying or own those thing, its a matter who use or control it = thats what i mean by "posses" it, like ghost "posses" a being

                                and animal? could you really or the one who control or "posess" the animal?
                                horse? do you control horse and consider that animal as ur body part?

                                btw its not a car, insted u could have sex with a car u control/possess if u want to hehe

                                RED its about the future a robot doll, or a doll with two hole
                                you can buy it, but you prohibited to use it together with other people at the same time
                                because quran answear all things, past, present or future

                                having a sex with car is recommended . ok i got it...
                                and about future , we dnt know what is gona happen in near future ... (lets talk about present)

                                yes you control the horse when you , pull his left chain for taking left turn and right for right turn..
                                yes horse in in your possession and control... (by the will of God)
                                even the modern engines in cars are also built through horse power engine measurements ( seems horse is not an ordinary animal)
                                yes you rightfully own your horse /animals
                                you can kill them for eat, ride them for transport... and why dnt you just have a sex with them thats what i ask according to your own given logic... ( try to give me answer this time just yes or no)

                                apart from that...

                                polygamy, divorce, gamble, geting drunk, or masturbation

                                in this list add more thing which are not haram like

                                lie
                                dishonesty
                                cheating
                                swaering
                                assaulting

                                list is bit long ...

                                but we differentiate things with morality and immorality...

                                like the way you are discussing is consider as immoral discussion... why immoral becoz some womens are in forum too so for the sake of their respect you need to hold the moralities ..

                                but yeh for getting knowledge you can aks the questions in immoral way its not haram/prohibted...

                                people usually consider the word haram as something extra apart from law...
                                haram is a synonym of a prohibtion or restriction...
                                in that sense a lie can be haram too
                                cheating can be haram too
                                dishonesty can b haram too
                                disloyalty can be haram too...

                                depend on how you look the word "haram"

                                if you want to discuss the word haram we can talk in relevant thread instead of going offtopic...

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                                  imrankhawaja
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                                  RED its about the future a robot doll, or a doll with two hole
                                  you can buy it, but you prohibited to use it together with other people at the same time
                                  because quran answear all things, past, present or future

                                  so according to you anal sex is also recomended... ? look your own logic is rolling again and again with new multiple questions...

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                                    rararanran
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                                    having a sex with car is recommended . ok i got it...
                                    and about future , we dnt know what is gona happen in near future ... (lets talk about present)

                                    yes you control the horse when you , pull his left chain for taking left turn and right for right turn..
                                    yes horse in in your possession and control... (by the will of God)
                                    even the modern engines in cars are also built through horse power engine measurements ( seems horse is not an ordinary animal)
                                    yes you rightfully own your horse /animals
                                    you can kill them for eat, ride them for transport... and why dnt you just have a sex with them thats what i ask according to your own given logic... ( try to give me answer this time just yes or no)

                                    apart from that...

                                    polygamy, divorce, gamble, geting drunk, or masturbation

                                    in this list add more thing which are not haram like

                                    lie
                                    dishonesty
                                    cheating
                                    swaering
                                    assaulting

                                    list is bit long ...

                                    but we differentiate things with morality and immorality...

                                    like the way you are discussing is consider as immoral discussion... why immoral becoz some womens are in forum too so for the sake of their respect you need to hold the moralities ..

                                    but yeh for getting knowledge you can aks the questions in immoral way its not haram/prohibted...

                                    people usually consider the word haram as something extra apart from law...
                                    haram is a synonym of a prohibtion or restriction...
                                    in that sense a lie can be haram too
                                    cheating can be haram too
                                    dishonesty can b haram too
                                    disloyalty can be haram too...

                                    depend on how you look the word "haram"

                                    if you want to discuss the word haram we can talk in relevant thread instead of going offtopic...

                                    dishonesty, dont take oath n promise from them anymore
                                    cheating lets say adultery, lash em in public ( talk about their bad deed in public to make them ashamed)
                                    swaering?? this is not haram
                                    assaulting, its considered transgression do what they did to you in equal
                                    stealing for greed/corruption chop hand
                                    straling because nothing to eat starving to death is not haram

                                    its not about moral or immoral its about which is haram, dont mix those
                                    haram and have punishment for it
                                    punishment by god and by human

                                    quran is science and theres no taboo thing in science 1+1 is 2

                                    so talk about stephen hawking or people with prosthetic or robot hand

                                    recomended?? what i recomend is to abstain from all those animal things the best u can
                                    i recomend to all of you to abstain from sex!

                                    btw anal sex is not prohibited with your supose, wife or husband
                                    how could you tell if im a man or woman?

                                    is that only a man who could talk about these thing??
                                    is woman unable to talk about these?

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                                      rararanran
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                                      the first haram is something which is zalim thing to other human and god tell us about human realm or other human punishment for it, and prohibition for it

                                      the second is not actually a haram or prohibition thing because this is seomthing that only god who will judge and will punish, so its up to individual to consider gamble, beer, polygamy, divorce,etc is haram or not. god only say about the bad things or cons about those things.

                                      but if people in society make an agreement and regulation about it its okay but just dont take god or prophet name about those regulation, its human regulation

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                                        imrankhawaja
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                                        btw anal sex is not prohibited with your supose, wife or husband
                                        how could you tell if im a man or woman?

                                        if something is not mention is the list of haram, doesnt necessarily means you are allowed to do it...(in general)
                                        like speaking a lie?
                                        can save a life or speaking a truth can take a life too.. but as i told earlier i dnt want to go offtopic... (about haram)

                                        its totally morality and immorality always like

                                        dark and light
                                        haram(disallowed/prohibted) and halal(allowed/not prohibted)
                                        neg and positive
                                        good and evil
                                        moral and immoral
                                        right and wrong
                                        true and false like 1+1 = 2 true... =3 false...

                                        BOLD part yeh i dnt know who you are?
                                        but thats not important ...

                                        about anal sex and blowjobs its depends on the moral value of individual i cant comment on it..
                                        but every body really knows the difference between neat and clean , and hygience stuff...
                                        some people are neat and clean while other appeared to take less care about it...

                                        but God like people are who clean (somewhere mention in scripture too)

                                        making anal sex allowed is a big claim without any evidence from quran in hand...

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                                          rararanran
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                                          if something is not mention is the list of haram, doesnt necessarily means you are allowed to do it...(in general)
                                          like speaking a lie?
                                          can save a life or speaking a truth can take a life too.. but as i told earlier i dnt want to go offtopic... (about haram)

                                          its totally morality and immorality always like

                                          dark and light
                                          haram(disallowed/prohibted) and halal(allowed/not prohibted)
                                          neg and positive
                                          good and evil
                                          moral and immoral
                                          right and wrong
                                          true and false like 1+1 = 2 true... =3 false...

                                          BOLD part yeh i dnt know who you are?
                                          but thats not important ...

                                          about anal sex and blowjobs its depends on the moral value of individual i cant comment on it..
                                          but every body really knows the difference between neat and clean , and hygience stuff...
                                          some people are neat and clean while other appeared to take less care about it...

                                          but God like people are who clean (somewhere mention in scripture too)

                                          making anal sex allowed is a big claim without any evidence from quran in hand...

                                          and now you are like a hadist people haraming thing which is not told in quran
                                          who said anal is haram you or god?
                                          even tough i dont like anal and even my self considered it as immoral,
                                          its not prohibited in quran, so dont say if its a haram thing okay

                                          even prophet are not allowed to say haram to something which is not in quran

                                          and who said lying is not haram? the punishment is to not believe those person again
                                          until he ask the other party forgiveness, and test them if he/she is not lie anymore

                                          lying even cause death is a lie, what the difference?? u make it complicated

                                          because moral and immorality is relative but quran is not
                                          everything is already there in detail

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