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    george
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    Greetings and Peace, all group

    I can't say that I feel that being homosexual is wrong. A person doesn't choose their feelings or attractions, but is surely responsible for acts and actions done with knowledge or lack of care.

    AQ is specific where it needs to be...and thought to be complete by those who follow its Guidance. ALLAH did not run out of words. Homosexual acts are not outright banned for a reason; they are an individual judgement call.

    If it's only male rape that GOD is against and not homosexuality then where in these verses does it say rape or trying to rape?

    780 And Lot, when he said to his people
    "Do you commit lewdness to an extend
    that none in the worlds had surpassed
    you?"
    781 "You come to men with desire instead of
    women; you are a transgressing people."
    782 The only response of his people was,
    "Drive them out of your town; they are a
    people who wish to be pure!"
    783 We saved him and his family, except for
    his wife; she was of those who lagged
    behind.
    784 We showered them with a shower, so see
    what the punishment for the criminals
    was.

    2754 And Lot, when he said to his people
    "Are you committing lewdness while
    you can clearly see?"
    2755 "You are approaching the men out of lust
    instead of the women!No, you are an
    ignorant people!"
    2928 And Lot, when he said to his people
    "You commit a lewdness that no others
    in the world have done before!"
    2929 "You sexually approach men, you
    commit highway robbery, and you bring
    all vice to your society." But the only
    response from his people was to say,
    "Bring us God's retribution, if you are
    being truthful!"

    Also those verses do not say anything about the angels/messengers that the people of Lot did try to rape until the following verses;

    2930 He said, "My Lord, grant me victory
    over the wicked people."
    2931 When Our messengers came to Abraham
    with good news, they then said, "We are
    to destroy the people of such a town, for
    its people have been wicked."
    2932 He said, "But Lot is in it!" They said,
    "We are fully aware of who is in it. We
    will save him and his family, except his
    wife; she is of those doomed."

    Also if GOD is only against male rape and not homosexuality then why does the above verses say that GOD had sent angels/messengers to Abraham about the destruction of Lots people even before they even they got there before anyone could try and rape them?
    Meaning that GOD was already going to destroy the people of Lot before the messengers he sent even got there to warn Lot.

    Some of the actuall verses that give any indication of male rape are below;

    2933 Thus when Our messengers came to Lot,
    they were mistreated, and he was
    embarrassed towards them. They said,
    "Do not fear, and do not be saddened.
    We will save you and your family,
    except for your wife; she is of those
    doomed."

    1177 When Our messengers came to Lot, he
    was grieved on their account and he
    felt discomfort for them and said, "This
    is a distressful day."
    1178 His people came rushing towards him,
    and were accustomed to committing
    sin. He said, "My people, these are my
    daughters, they are purer for you, so be
    aware of God and do not disgrace me
    regarding my guests. Is there no
    reasonable man among you?"
    1179 They said, "You know we have no
    interest in your daughters, and you are
    aware of what we want!"
    1180 He said, "If only I had strength against
    you, or I could find for myself some
    powerful support."
    1181 They said, "O Lot, we are your Lord's
    messengers; they will not be able to
    harm you. So travel with your family
    during the cover of the night and let
    not any of you look back except for
    your wife; she will be afflicted with
    what they will be afflicted. Their
    appointed time will be the morning. Is
    the morning not near?"
    1182 So when Our command came, We
    turned it upside down, and We rained
    on it with hardened fiery projectiles.
    1183 Marked from your Lord, and they are
    never far from the wicked.

    If GOD is only against male rape and not homosexuality then why does GOD tell us in the Quran of all the WOMEN that the believing MEN are allowed to marry and nothing about allowing believing men to marry other men or believing women being allowed to marrying other women?

    If GOD is against sexual intercourse for men with women outside marriage then why would GOD be happy about homosexual intercourse outside marriage?

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      Abdul-Hadi
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      Greetings and Peace, all group

      My comments within quote in red.

      If it's only male rape that GOD is against and not homosexuality then where in these verses does it say rape or trying to rape?

      780 And Lot, when he said to his people
      "Do you commit lewdness to an extend
      that none in the worlds had surpassed
      you?"
      781 "You come to men with desire instead of
      women; you are a transgressing people."
      782 The only response of his people was,
      "Drive them out of your town; they are a
      people who wish to be pure!"
      783 We saved him and his family, except for
      his wife; she was of those who lagged
      behind.
      784 We showered them with a shower, so see
      what the punishment for the criminals
      was.

      In 781, coming to men with desire is an ACTION--not an unacted on feeling/attraction.

      2754 And Lot, when he said to his people
      "Are you committing lewdness while
      you can clearly see?"
      2755 "You are approaching the men out of lust
      instead of the women!No, you are an
      ignorant people!"
      2928 And Lot, when he said to his people
      "You commit a lewdness that no others
      in the world have done before!"
      2929 "You sexually approach men, you
      commit highway robbery, and you bring
      all vice to your society." But the only
      response from his people was to say,
      "Bring us God's retribution, if you are
      being truthful!"

      2755 also refers to an action. Please note the multiple transgressions in 2929--the transgressions are not limited to sexually approaching men.

      Also those verses do not say anything about the angels/messengers that the people of Lot did try to rape until the following verses;

      2930 He said, "My Lord, grant me victory
      over the wicked people."
      2931 When Our messengers came to Abraham
      with good news, they then said, "We are
      to destroy the people of such a town, for
      its people have been wicked."
      2932 He said, "But Lot is in it!" They said,
      "We are fully aware of who is in it. We
      will save him and his family, except his
      wife; she is of those doomed."

      Also if GOD is only against male rape and not homosexuality then why does the above verses say that GOD had sent angels/messengers to Abraham about the destruction of Lots people even before they even they got there before anyone could try and rape them?
      Meaning that GOD was already going to destroy the people of Lot before the messengers he sent even got there to warn Lot.

      Note that Lot's wife, a woman, is included among the people. It is quite a stretch to claim that the women and children were homosexuals!

      Some of the actuall verses that give any indication of male rape are below;

      2933 Thus when Our messengers came to Lot,
      they were mistreated, and he was
      embarrassed towards them. They said,
      "Do not fear, and do not be saddened.
      We will save you and your family,
      except for your wife; she is of those
      doomed."

      This may be a valid implication of sexual violence.

      However Why were the women and children destroyed? Collateral damage? <I don't think so!> If they were "collateral damage", it MUST be okay for people to attack targets without regard to collateral damage, as shown by the example of the people of Lot!

      6164 Say "Shall I seek other than GOD as a Lord when He is the Lord of everything?" And every soul earns what is for it, and none will carry the burden of another. Then to your Lord is your return and He will inform you of what you disputed in.

      1177 When Our messengers came to Lot, he
      was grieved on their account and he
      felt discomfort for them and said, "This
      is a distressful day."
      1178 His people came rushing towards him,
      and were accustomed to committing
      sin. He said, "My people, these are my
      daughters, they are purer for you, so be
      aware of God and do not disgrace me
      regarding my guests. Is there no
      reasonable man among you?"
      1179 They said, "You know we have no
      interest in your daughters, and you are
      aware of what we want!"
      1180 He said, "If only I had strength against
      you, or I could find for myself some
      powerful support."
      1181 They said, "O Lot, we are your Lord's
      messengers; they will not be able to
      harm you. So travel with your family
      during the cover of the night and let
      not any of you look back except for
      your wife; she will be afflicted with
      what they will be afflicted. Their
      appointed time will be the morning. Is
      the morning not near?"
      1182 So when Our command came, We
      turned it upside down, and We rained
      on it with hardened fiery projectiles.
      1183 Marked from your Lord, and they are
      never far from the wicked.

      If GOD is only against male rape and not homosexuality then why does GOD tell us in the Quran of all the WOMEN that the believing MEN are allowed to marry and nothing about allowing believing men to marry other men or believing women being allowed to marrying other women?

      2221 And do not marry the female polytheists until they believe. For a believing female servant is better than a polytheist even if she attracts you. And do not marry the male polytheists until they believe. For a believing male servant is better than a polytheist even if he attracts you. Those invite to the Fire, while God is inviting to the Paradise and forgiveness by His consent. He clarifies His revelations for the people that they may remember.

      If GOD is against sexual intercourse for men with women outside marriage then why would GOD be happy about homosexual intercourse outside marriage?

      Far be it from me to claim to know what ALLAH knows! Strictly speaking, homosexual acts are not sex--they can't result in offspring. Also, there are same-sex marriages these days.

      Definition of homosexual of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward individuals of one's own sex?http//www.merriam-webster.com/medical/homosexual

      A person need not act on their desires to be a homosexual. This is why homosexuals who do undertake homosexual acts are different from homosexuals who engage in homosexual acts.

      4817 There is no burden on the blind, nor is there any burden on the cripple, nor is there any burden on the sick. And whoever obeys GOD and His messenger, He will admit them into gardens with rivers flowing beneath them; and whoever turns away, He will punish him with a painful retribution.

      ALLAH knows best.

      peace

      ~Abdul-Hadi

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        ExplorerSeeker86
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        Yeah Abdul I kinda see what you mean, and that's besides the verse that says they go unto men instead of their wives. Wouldn't that imply adultery?

        Like I've said the Bible says Lot's sons in law were two of the men in the crowd wanting to rape his guests. It says they were engaged to be married to his daughters. Clearly they weren't gay. What the story describes is gang violence.

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          Abdul-Hadi
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          Greetings and Peace, all group

          Yeah Abdul I kinda see what you mean, and that's besides the verse that says they go unto men instead of their wives. Wouldn't that imply adultery?

          Like I've said the Bible says Lot's sons in law were two of the men in the crowd wanting to rape his guests. It says they were engaged to be married to his daughters. Clearly they weren't gay. What the story describes is gang violence.

          There is such a thing as bisexuality. Many of the homosexuals that I know of are (or were) bisexual--many of them are now married (in one case to each other).

          If one were married and had sexual relations with other than one's spouse, it would be adultery.

          1732 And do not come near adultery, for it is lewdness and an evil path.

          ALLAH knows best.

          peace

          ~Abdul-Hadi

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            george
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            In 781, coming to men with desire is an ACTION--not an unacted on feeling/attraction.

            2755 also refers to an action.

            Comming to men with with desire is an action that DOES NOT always mean rape.

            Please note the multiple transgressions in 2929--the transgressions are not limited to sexually approaching men.

            Whilst sexually approaching may not have been the only sin, it was definately one of the sins

            Note that Lot's wife, a woman, is included among the people. It is quite a stretch to claim that the women and children were homosexuals!

            It's also quite a strech to claim that it was only about male rape, since Lot's wife, a women was among the people. Was she, the other and children all male rapists too?.

            However Why were the women and children destroyed? Collateral damage? <I don't think so!> If they were "collateral damage", it MUST be okay for people to attack targets without regard to collateral damage, as shown by the example of the people of Lot!

            Good question, why were the women and children destroyed becuase of a few male rapists?. I spose it MUST also be okay to kill all women and children all becuase a few men tried to rape other men.

            6164 Say "Shall I seek other than GOD as a Lord when He is the Lord of everything?" And every soul earns what is for it, and none will carry the burden of another. Then to your Lord is your return and He will inform you of what you disputed in

            I agree with this verse. So why then why would a just GOD (which GOD is) destroy a whole city (of Lots people) all be a few people in it wanted to rape the messengers/angel that came to his house?.

            2221 And do not marry the female polytheists until they believe. For a believing female servant is better than a polytheist even if she attracts you. And do not marry the male polytheists until they believe. For a believing male servant is better than a polytheist even if he attracts you. Those invite to the Fire, while God is inviting to the Paradise and forgiveness by His consent. He clarifies His revelations for the people that they may remember.[/color

            The part in bold is talking about who the believing women and not the men are allowed to marry. But then using your logic the part of that verse which says
            2221 And do not marry the female polytheists until they believe. For a believing female servant is better than a polytheist even if she attracts you. This must also be talking about who the believing woman and not men can marry does it?.

            Also, there are same-sex marriages these days.

            Just because there are same sex marriages these days does not mean that GOD agrees with them.

            This is why homosexuals who do undertake homosexual acts are different from homosexuals who engage in homosexual acts.

            I think you mean "who do not undertake homosexual acts", because if not then there is no difference between the two.

            Far be it from me to claim to know what ALLAH knows!

            Well the quran (GOD'S word) is telling us want he wants us to know, like sexual intercourse (gay or straight) outside marriage is wrong.

            A person need not act on their desires to be a homosexual

            True and GOD does not say the desire itself is sinful, just the act.

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              Abdul-Hadi
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              Greetings and Peace, all group

              @george -[ Yep, that was a typo. Thanks for correcting it.

              Forgive me if I sound defensive, but I never claimed that the people of Lot were destroyed for rape or homosexual acts or any one transgression.

              It could be that the women and children among the people of Lot benefited from robbery/piracy/vice and were Judged as being guilty--but ultimately this is conjecture.

              The fact that there are same-sex marriages does not mean that we can say with certainty if ALLAH counts them as marriage or not.

              In AQ 2221 there is no shift in audience. Where else does such a shift occur in AQ? In the few places where females/women are specifically addressed apart from men, they are specially identified. Example

              3330 O women of the prophet, if any of you commits evident lewdness, then her retribution will be doubled. This is easy for GOD to do.

              ALLAH knows best.

              peace

              ~Abdul-Hadi

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                ExplorerSeeker86
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                Doesn't the Koran suggest in places that masturbation and sex acts outside marriage may be permissible? Like the Koran says something about what their right hands possess, which sometimes gets interpreted as concubines or something, but I've always thought about what the right hand could "possess", if you catch my drift.

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                  Abdul-Hadi
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                  Greetings and Peace, all group

                  Doesn't the Koran suggest in places that masturbation and sex acts outside marriage may be permissible? Like the Koran says something about what their right hands possess, which sometimes gets interpreted as concubines or something, but I've always thought about what the right hand could "possess", if you catch my drift.

                  No, AQ states that if one can't marry a free believer, then one should marry a believer that is not free. This sort of begs the question "What is real marriage?" hmm

                  Masturbation is not addressed, except perhaps in the Guidance about abstaining from lewdness.

                  peace

                  ~Abdul-Hadi

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                    Okay I'm gonna come out with the real question playing on my mind. Thanks for the responses guys. I'm gay, and it's how I am, it's an attraction, and I need to ask.

                    Can I be gay and Muslim? Is it wrong? Does God forbid it?

                    A Sunni told me I have no place in Allah's creation and should be killed.

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                      Bigmo
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                      Okay I'm gonna come out with the real question playing on my mind. Thanks for the responses guys. I'm gay, and it's how I am, it's an attraction, and I need to ask.

                      Can I be gay and Muslim? Is it wrong? Does God forbid it?

                      A Sunni told me I have no place in Allah's creation and should be killed.

                      Being gay or not is not a criteria of faith or charcter. When you talk about faith you must look at how the Koran understand the criteria of faith. The Koran established faith in God and the hereafter as the criteria for faith. It then established righteous deeds like salat, zakat, feeding of the poor, honesty, forgiveness etc as rghteous acts. Those who have faith and are righteous go to heaven.

                      Surely those who believe, and those who are Jews, and the Christians, and the Sabians, whoever believes in Allah and the Last day and does good, they shall have their reward from their Lord, and there is no fear for them, nor shall they grieve.

                      2.111-112 And they say "None shall enter Paradise unless he be a Jew or a Christian." Those are their (vain) desires. Say "Produce your proof if ye are truthful." Nay,-whoever submits His whole self to Allah and is a doer of good,- He will get his reward with his Lord; on such shall be no fear, nor shall they grieve

                      Surely those who believe and those who are Jews and the Sabians and the Christians whoever believes in Allah and the last day and does good-- they shall have no fear nor shall they grieve

                      Anyone who works righteousness, male or female, while believing, we will surely grant them a happy life in this world, and we will surely pay them their full recompense (on the Day of Judgment) for their righteous works

                      So the Koran does not care what religious community you come from, whether Muslim, Jewish or Christian. What it cares about is faith in God and the hereafter.

                      This then leaves us with the issue of whether being homosexual goes against righteousness. However homosexuality is one issue a person can have, it says nothing whether he is a believer or a person of good character. One sin or one lifestyle issue does not dominate the scale on day of Judgement. So even if we say homosexuality is a sin, it can not be a grave sin. A person can be a homsexual and he is a disbeliever, rude, arrogant, stingy and vengeful and a person can be a homosexual and faithfull, kind, generous and God fearing.

                      So saying a person who is gay can not be a Muslim is impossible unless you are either saying that being gay means you can not believe in God and the hereafter or being gay means you have an evil character. There is no proof of that.

                      I think for Koranist the issue is whether homosexuality is a sin or not. It may not be the sin that will lead to hell fire but there are many such sins like occasional lying, or occasional stealing that also do not lead to hell fire.

                      The issue that lead to hell fire in the Koran are polytheism, stinginess especially towards the needy, injustice, denying truth, creating conflicts between people, arrogant, murder, lying while swearing by God, and adultery. These sins are specifically mentioned in the Koran as the chartacter of the poeple of hell. Only repentance from them can prevent retribution on Judgement day.

                      It is far worse to be stingy towards the needy than to be gay.

                      Right hand possess (Ma Malakat Aymanukum) in a concubine which in the Bible means a relationship established by oath only and without dowry or engagement. Hagar was a concubine. A concubine in Biblical sense has the same rights as a wife, except she has nop financial protection as a wife does since no dowry was paid.

                      Among the Israelites, men commonly acknowledged their concubines, and such women enjoyed the same rights in the house as legitimate wives. The principal difference in the Bible between a wife and a concubine is that wives had dowries, while concubines did not.

                      The concubine may have commanded the same respect and inviolability as the wife. The Hebrew word used in the Levitical rules on sexual relations, which is commonly translated as "wife", is distinct from the Hebrew word that means "concubine". (However, on at least one other occasion it is used to refer a woman who is not a wife - specifically, the handmaid of Jacob's wife.) In the Levitical code, sexual intercourse between a man and a wife of a different man was forbidden and punishable by death for both persons involved. The Bible notes several incidents of intercourse between a man and another man's concubine, and none of them result in capital punishment for either party, although the man to whom the concubine belonged was dishonored by such a relationship. For instance, David is portrayed as having been dishonoured when his concubines had a sexual relationship with his son Absalom. However, this instance is as likely dishonoring to David because it involves a form of incest, as David's concubines would have been somewhat like step-mothers to David's children.

                      Since it was regarded as the highest blessing to have many children, legitimate wives often gave their maids to their husbands to atone, at least in part, if they were barren, as in the cases of Sarah and Hagar, Rachel and Bilhah. The children of the concubine had equal rights with those of the legitimate wife; for example, King Abimelech was the son of Gideon and his concubine. Later biblical figures such as Gideon, David, and Solomon had concubines in addition to many childbearing wives. For example, the Books of Kings says that Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines.

                      In Judaism

                      In Judaism, concubines are referred to by the Hebrew term pilegesh. The term is a non-Hebrew, non-Semitic loanword deriving from the Greek word pallakis, Greek , meaning a mistress staying in house. Or the Aramaic phrase palga isha, meaning half-wife.

                      According to the Babylonian Talmud, the difference between a concubine and a full wife was that the latter received a marriage contract (Hebrewketubah) and her marriage (nissu'in) was preceded by a formal betrothal (erusin), neither being the case for a concubine. But, one opinion in the Jerusalem Talmud argues that the concubine should also receive a marriage contract, but without including a clause specifying a divorce settlement.
                      http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Concubinage

                      Sunnis and Shias believe a MMA is a slave who a Muslim can have sex with whenever he feels. They believe that a female prsioner of war can be sold as a slave and that the person who owns her can have sex with her. This is clear cut rape and nothing else. These are the kinds of thigs that can get you into hell and not homsexuality.

                      So you can tell this Sunni friends of yours who said a gay can not be a Muslim, why is raping female prsioners Islam while two male adults having sex by their free will is not Islam. The issue that differentiate the two situations is freedom. I don't know about you but I would rather face God as a homosexual than a slave trader and a rapist and abuser of female prisoners.

                      (Pharaoh) said "Did we not cherish thee as a child among us, and didst thou not stay in our midst many years of thy life? "And thou didst a deed of thine which (thou knowest) thou didst, and thou art an ungrateful (wretch)!" Moses said "I did it then, when I was in error. "So I fled from you (all) when I feared you; but my Lord has (since) invested me with judgment (and wisdom) and appointed me as one of the messengers. "And this is the favour with which thou dost reproach me,- that thou hast enslaved the Children of Israel!" [Qur'an 2618-22

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                        huruf
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                        I do not believe in this division beteween homo, hetero, bi... It is a labelling assuming certain thins which are not proved and without going into depth as to what conditions one thing or the other, even promiscuity...

                        Sex mostly is in the mind, and the mind is conditioned by many emotional events. I think we are being cheated out of finding out more about human character and behaivour thnak to the very expeditive procedure of labelling a, b, c... Many persons can feel inclined to many things, sexually too, and that doesn't force them into any pattern, except that they decide or assume that they should fit some pattern.

                        Salaam

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                          Well its not so easy for me to deny the distinction when its about my attraction. I cannot really flick a light switch on and decide to like women.

                          Anyhow, that's what I do now, as a Christian @bigmo. I try to follow what Jesus taught through love, charity, kindness, etc. I feel like Christianity is where I belong right now, unless something changes.

                          I can only do what I feel like God wants me to do. I know that before I embraced Christianity and also started practicing some in my Jewish background, I was in severe idolotry. I was believing Pantheism, which means I basically made God myself.

                          I had to repent of that, I really did.

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                            There is a reason for everything, just that and why is the most human question that exists. It seems that putting a name or a label to anything ends the questions and the whys... Fine with me, whoever wants to do that. For me the question does not end there.

                            Salaam

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                              Greetings and Peace, all group

                              5332 They avoid major sins and lewdness, except for minor offences. Your Lord is with vast forgiveness. He has been fully aware of you since He initiated you from the earth, and while you were embryos in the wombs of your mothers. Therefore, do not ascribe purity to yourselves; He is fully aware of the righteous.

                              peace

                              ~Abdul-Hadi

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                                Note that Lot's wife, a woman, is included among the people. It is quite a stretch to claim that the women and children were homosexuals!

                                It's also quite a strech to claim that it was only about male rape, since Lot's wife, a women was among the people. Was she, the other and children all male rapists too?.

                                However Why were the women and children destroyed? Collateral damage? <I don't think so!> If they were "collateral damage", it MUST be okay for people to attack targets without regard to collateral damage, as shown by the example of the people of Lot!

                                Good question, why were the women and children destroyed becuase of a few male rapists?. I spose it MUST also be okay to kill all women and children all becuase a few men tried to rape other men.

                                6164 Say "Shall I seek other than GOD as a Lord when He is the Lord of everything?" And every soul earns what is for it, and none will carry the burden of another. Then to your Lord is your return and He will inform you of what you disputed in

                                I agree with this verse. So why then why would a just GOD (which GOD is) destroy a whole city (of Lots people) all be a few people in it wanted to rape the messengers/angel that came to his house?.

                                Salaam brother,

                                Please take a look at these verses to understand better

                                1174 So when the shock left Abraham, and the good news was delivered to him, he began to argue with Us for the people of Lot.
                                1175 Abraham was compassionate, kind, obedient.
                                1176 "O Abraham, turn away from this. The command of your Lord has been passed, and a retribution that will not be turned back is coming for them."

                                2931 And when Our messengers came to Abraham with good news, they said "We are to destroy the people of such a town, for its people have been wicked."
                                2932 He said "But Lot is in it!" They said "We are fully aware of who is in it. We will save him and his AHL, except his wife; she is of those doomed."

                                Who are the AHL of Lot?
                                To understand better who are the AHL of a certain person please take a look at the next verses

                                2176 And Noah when he called out before that, thus We responded to him, and We saved him and his AHL from the great distress.

                                Allah knows exactly who the AHL of Noah are. Even Noah himself doesn't know.

                                1145 And Noah called on his Lord, and he said "My Lord, my son is from my AHL, and your promise is the truth, and you are the Wisest of all Judges."
                                1146 He said "O Noah, he is not from your AHL, he was of an unrighteous deed, so do not ask what you have no knowledge of. I advise you not to be of the ignorant."
                                1147 He said "My Lord, I seek refuge with You from asking You what I do not have knowledge of. And if You do not forgive me and have mercy on me, I will be of the losers!"

                                Everyone from the AHL of Lot were saved, the ones who were not saved were not from his AHL, see 2932.
                                Also please note the word THALIMEEN used in 2931 which is translated as wicked, it doesn't mean homosexuality.

                                If there were childeren and women and men who where not thalimeen then they were saved as they are of the AHL of Lot. AHL does not mean family, see 2176. The people who were with Noah on the boat were his AHL his son and his wife not.

                                If you still doubt about little childeren, it never says something about childeren in the town, see also what Ibrahim says, he never mentions childeren.
                                But even if there were childeren in that place, Allah is full aware of who there are. Please read the next verses

                                1874 So they ventured forth until they came upon a youth, and he killed him. He said "Have you killed an innocent person without justice? You have done something awful!"
                                1875 He said "Did I not tell you that you will not be able to have patience with me?"

                                1880 "And as for the youth, his parents were believers, so we were concerned that he would oppress them by his transgression and disbelief."
                                1881 "So we wanted their Lord to replace for them with one who is better than him in purity and closer to mercy."

                                Salaam and may Allah increase us in knowledge,
                                Bender

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                                  In AQ 2221 there is no shift in audience. Where else does such a shift occur in AQ? In the few places where females/women are specifically addressed apart from men, they are specially identified. Example

                                  ~Abdul-Hadi

                                  Salaam brother,

                                  You are right that there is no shift in audience but who is the audience in the verse?

                                  2221 And do not marry the female polytheists until they believe. For a believing female servant is better than a polytheist even if she attracts you. And do not marry the male polytheists until they believe. For a believing male servant is better than a polytheist even if he attracts you. Those invite to the Fire, while God is inviting to the Paradise and forgiveness by His consent. He clarifies His revelations for the people that they may remember.

                                  Does that mean men only?

                                  Salaam,
                                  Bender

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                                    Greetings and Peace, all group

                                    @Bender Both of your posts were insightful reading. handshake sun

                                    I got tunnel vision on the audience in 2221; it appears that you are correct.

                                    peace

                                    ~Abdul-Hadi

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                                      Greetings and Peace, all group

                                      @Bender Both of your posts were insightful reading. handshake sun

                                      I got tunnel vision on the audience in 2221; it appears that you are correct.

                                      peace

                                      ~Abdul-Hadi

                                      Salaam brother,

                                      handshake

                                      Salaam,
                                      Bender

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                                        Forgive me if I sound defensive, but I never claimed that the people of Lot were destroyed for rape or homosexual acts or any one transgression.

                                        I never said that you did say that but you did say that the verses where GOD is telling Lot to tell his people (the men) not to approach other men sex, as only about male rape and not about homosexuality.

                                        The fact that there are same-sex marriages does not mean that we can say with certainty if ALLAH counts them as marriage or not.

                                        In AQ 2221 there is no shift in audience. Where else does such a shift occur in AQ? In the few places where females/women are specifically addressed apart from men, they are specially identified.

                                        ALLAH knows best.

                                        peace

                                        ~Abdul-Hadi

                                        There is a change in the gender of the audience in AQ 2221 because if there isn't then it would contradict these verses

                                        2755 "You are approaching the men out of lust
                                        instead of the women!No, you are an
                                        ignorant people!"

                                        If GOD was alright with homosexual intercourse then why would he tell Lot to tell the men of his people that they were ingnorant for approaching the men instead of the women for lust?, meaning the GOD intended for the men to only have sex with their women/wives.

                                        Also

                                        26165 "Do you approach the males of the
                                        worlds?"
                                        26166 "You leave what your Lord has created
                                        for you of mates? You are an intrusive
                                        people!"

                                        Now who are the mates that GOD as created which Lot is telling off his people for leaving if it's not the women?.

                                        How can verse 2221 be allowing same sex marriages, but verses 2755, 26165, 26166 be against men having sex/lust with someone other than or instead of the mates/women that GOD created?.

                                        I think we can both agree that GOD does not contradict himself.

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                                          Notice that the Koran only seems to put that forward in the context of heterosexual men choosing to go with other males. Not in the context of an actual homosexual attracted to other men by their natural makeup. A point you seem hesitant to address. Another point you won't address is it says they leave their wives, which would be adultery.

                                          This is just like people who cite Romans 1 out of context when it comes to the New Testament.

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