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    unknownuser
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    I'm still waiting for the meaning of "spouses"?

    http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spouse

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      huruf
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      There is also the question of what "hafadha farj" entails, means, encompasses.

      There is also the question that in 23.5 there is a list of deeds for which people who do them will inherit al firdaws...

      so, only those who do all of them will inherit, or will those who do all of them save one inherit and the good they do will not avail them anything?

      Also, what is taken to mean ma malakat aymanuhum in aya 23.5?

      Salaam

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        muslims
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        http//en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spouse

        Salam

        You can't be serious?

        Is Wikipedia is the "authoritative body for defining words"?

        Do you know what is Wikipedia?

        Do you know what is Encyclopedia?

        Do you know who writes in Wikipedia?

        Try this...

        http//www.refseek.com/directory/dictionaries.html

        http//www.goodreads.com/list/show/785.Best_Dictionaries_of_the_English_Language

        or any dictionary of your choice.

        Peace

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          unknownuser
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          Sorry for wait.A internet trouble.

          I mostly use dictionary.com

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            muslims
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            Sorry for wait.A internet trouble.

            I mostly use dictionary.com

            Salam

            You can type yourself, or try here..

            Meta-search tool indexing 13 million words from 1,000 dictionaries.
            http//www.onelook.com/?w=spouse&ls=a

            Roget's Thesaurus
            http//dictionary.reference.com/browse/spouse?s=t

            or

            American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language
            http//education.yahoo.com/reference/dictionary/entry/spouse

            Collins English Dictionary
            http//www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/spouse

            Oxford Dictionaries Online
            http//www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/spouse?q=spouse

            Merriam Webster
            http//www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spouse

            Cambridge
            http//dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/british/spouse?q=spouse

            Macmillan
            http//www.macmillandictionary.com/dictionary/british/spouse

            Abbreviations.com
            http//www.abbreviations.com/SPOUSE

            Definitions.net
            http//www.definitions.net/definition/spouse

            Vocabulary.com
            https//www.vocabulary.com/dictionary/spouse

            Peace

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              unknownuser
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              Thanks for the links )

              Back to the topic.Literally after magrib until some days maybe, I'm busy.

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                muslims
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                Salam

                Okay, it is two hours difference if in Surabaya or Gresik, that means almost Maghrib.

                So does it referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages"?

                Peace

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                  Salam

                  Okay, it is two hours difference if in Surabaya or Gresik, that means almost Maghrib.

                  So does it referring to "husband and wife" or "marriages"?

                  Peace

                  I live around that area and now the time is 1607.

                  Yes it does.

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                    muslims
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                    So does it referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages"?

                    Yes it does.

                    Salam

                    Good, I went to Indonesia almost every year. )

                    So... you agree that "spouses" is referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                    Therefore, can you agree that the following verse is referring to marriages?

                    And those who guard their private parts <- ALL human beings have private parts
                    Except from their spouses <- referring to marriages

                    Peace

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                      Good, I went to Indonesia almost every year.

                      Good, may I visit Malaysia some day for see Petronas Building.

                      So... you agree that "spouses" is referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                      Therefore, can you agree that the verse is referring to marriages?

                      Spouses is not enough for husband-wife.We see same-gender also as spouses.

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                        muslims
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                        Spouses is not enough for husband-wife.We see same-gender also as spouses.

                        Salam,

                        No problem, it is just two hours flights and the tickets is cheap.

                        It doesn't matter if it refers to same gender marriage or etc.

                        It is irrelevant at this point of time.

                        What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                        If it is, can you agree that the verse is referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an?

                        Peace.

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                          No problem, it is just two hours flights and the tickets is cheap.

                          Unfortunaly Rupiah's exchange rate is below Ringgit ;D.What place you visits in Indonesia.I don't live in Surabaya nor Gresik, but I still in East Java.I visit Surabaya every year for a vacation.

                          If it is, can you agree that the verse is referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an?

                          If 235-6, it's not.This verse more talk about zina prevention or ethics of do sexual intercouse.

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                            muslims
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                            If 235-6, it's not.This verse more talk about zina prevention or ethics of do sexual intercouse.

                            Salam

                            There are few places, Surabaya, Gresik, Jogja etc and my family rooted back from Indonesia during 1,000-1300+

                            We leave out that issue later, what's relevant is whether that verse includes "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                            What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                            Peace

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                              There are few places, Surabaya, Gresik, Jogja etc and my family rooted back from Indonesia during 1,000-1300+

                              This means you still a Javanese like me.You're wong Jowo D.
                              Malay ethnic in Indonesia more concentrated in Bawean, Riau, Bangka, Belitung and some parts in Sumatra, Kalimantan and Sulawesi.

                              Ok we will talk about this later, just do PM if necessary.

                              What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                              Term marriage/nikah is wide in context.We talk about leglitas of homosexual in this thread.So what contexs you want to discuss??

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                                muslims
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                                Term marriage/nikah is wide in context.We talk about leglitas of homosexual in this thread.So what contexs you want to discuss??

                                Salam

                                I'm originally rooted from Yemen, Hadhramaut and Palestine, which my great great grandfather make a hijrah to Indonesia for Da'wah, maybe before Islam came to Indonesia.

                                Okay we stop here, and you can continue by answering the following issue

                                Whether the verse in (7029-31) is referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                                and you might also explain why you are saying the context of (235-6) is related to zina prevention.

                                Certainly will the believers have succeeded
                                They who are during their prayer
                                humbly submissive
                                And they who turn away
                                from ill speech
                                And they who are observant
                                of zakah
                                And they who guard
                                their private parts
                                Except from their wives
                                or those their right hands possess
                                for indeed, they will not be blamed
                                But whoever seeks beyond that
                                then those are the transgressors
                                And they who are to their trusts
                                and their promises attentive
                                And they who carefully maintain
                                their prayers
                                Those are the inheritors
                                Who will inherit al-Firdaus
                                They will abide therein eternally
                                (231-11)

                                Peace

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                                  As you see, the verses in the Quran didn't follow the index by orders.I mean a verse in a surat, may have a continuations in another surat.

                                  "Zena prevention" is my own term and yu may have your own
                                  According to me, most of Quranic verses not talking about fiqh-fatwa but how to became a proper being.

                                  Ok "zina prevention" term is almost leave the topic.So what we must discuss is homosexual is legal or not according to Quran.

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                                    muslims
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                                    "Zena prevention" is my own term and yu may have your own
                                    According to me, most of Quranic verses not talking about fiqh-fatwa but how to became a proper being.

                                    Ok "zina prevention" term is almost leave the topic.So what we must discuss is homosexual is legal or not according to Quran.

                                    Salam

                                    Okay, then we leave out other issue and focus on this question.

                                    Okay we stop here, and you can continue by answering the following issue

                                    Whether the verse in (7029-31) is referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                                    It doesn't matter if it refers to same gender marriage or etc.

                                    It is irrelevant at this point of time.

                                    Peace.

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                                      unknownuser
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                                      Yes, so what is your question, brother??

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                                        huruf
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                                        I am really enjoying this, it is like watching a tennis grand slam being played without any balls

                                        Bing bang
                                        Bang bing

                                        batting the air.

                                        Salaam

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                                          muslims
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                                          Yes, so what is your question, brother??

                                          Salam

                                          Let us review our discussion.
                                          (main issue)

                                          This is your conclusion.

                                          This is what you have agreed (see reference).

                                          The word "mates" is referring to "spouses" and "marriage according to the Qur'an". Nonetheless, homosexual can also use their private parts to anyone whether or not there is marriage.

                                          No. 1. YES, you agree homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone"; marriages and unions which are not marriages according to the Qur'an.

                                          No. 2. YES, you agree the word "mates" mean "spouses"

                                          No. 3. YES, you agree the word "spouses" means "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                                          No. 4. YES, you agree the word marriages" means "marriages according to the Qur'an", except in (235-6), ie. zina prevention.

                                          No. 5. YES, you agree that the issue of zina prevention in (235-6) is your own personal terms and does not relate to the Qur'an. It should not be discussed.

                                          No. 6. Therefore and from point No. 5, (235-6) should be the same as (7019-35), ie. context relating to transgressions;

                                          Is this correct?


                                          REFERENCE

                                          Firstly,

                                          On the issue whether homosexual can use their private parts to anyone.

                                          YES, you agree homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone"; marriages and unions which are not marriages according to the Qur'an.

                                          Reference

                                          Therefore your answer is B; ie. "Homosexuals "can use" their private parts to "anyone" (ie. same-sex marriage, etc.)"

                                          Secondly,

                                          On the issue of whether "mates" is referring to "spouses"?

                                          YES, you agree the word "mates" mean "spouses"

                                          Reference

                                          Please use common sense, what I mean mate is spouse of course

                                          If we look by the conteks of the verses, mates (zawaj) is spouse.

                                          Thirdly,

                                          On the issue whether the word "spouses" is referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                                          YES, you agree the word "spouses" means "husband and wife" and "marriages".

                                          Reference

                                          So does it referring to "husband and wife" and "marriages"?

                                          Yes it does.

                                          Fourthly,

                                          On the issue whether the word "spouses" is referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an"

                                          YES, you agree the word marriages" means "marriages according to the Qur'an", except in (235-6), ie. zina prevention.

                                          Reference

                                          What I wish to find out now is it referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an.

                                          If it is, can you agree that the verse is referring to "marriages" according to the Qur'an?

                                          If 235-6, it's not. This verse more talk about zina prevention or ethics of do sexual intercouse.

                                          As you can see from the above, you are only denying on (235-6), and on the issue of zina prevention. You have no objection relating to (7019-35) as referring to "marriages according to the Qur'an".

                                          Fifthly,

                                          On the issue whether the word "spouses" in (235-6) is not related to zina prevention.

                                          YES, you agree that the issue of zina prevention in (235-6) is your own personal terms and not related to the Qur'an. It should not be discussed; ie. context relating to transgression.

                                          Reference

                                          "Zena prevention" is my own term

                                          Sixthly,

                                          Comparison

                                          |
                                          Certainly will the believers have succeeded
                                          They who are during their prayer
                                          humbly submissive
                                          And they who turn away
                                          from ill speech
                                          And they who are observant
                                          of zakah
                                          And they who guard
                                          their private parts
                                          Except from their wives/spouses
                                          or those their right hands possess
                                          for indeed, they will not be blamed
                                          But whoever seeks beyond that
                                          then those are the transgressors
                                          And they who are to their trusts
                                          and their promises attentive
                                          And they who carefully maintain
                                          their prayers
                                          Those are the inheritors
                                          Who will inherit al-Firdaus
                                          They will abide therein eternally
                                          (231-11)

                                          |
                                          |
                                          Indeed, mankind was created anxious
                                          When evil touches him, impatient
                                          And when good touches him, withholding
                                          Except the observers of prayer
                                          Those who are constant in their prayer
                                          And those within whose wealth is a known right
                                          For the petitioner and the deprived
                                          And those who believe in the Day of Recompense
                                          And those who are fearful of the punishment of their Lord
                                          Indeed, the punishment of their Lord is not that from which one is safe
                                          And those who guard
                                          their private parts
                                          Except from their wives/spouses
                                          or those their right hands possess
                                          for indeed, they are not to be blamed
                                          But whoever seeks beyond that
                                          then they are the transgressors
                                          And those who are to their trusts
                                          and promises attentive
                                          And those who are in their testimonies upright
                                          And those who maintain their prayer
                                          They will be in gardens, honored
                                          (7019-35)

                                          Peace

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