Sex IS for PLEASURE
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Hello All,
I have heard people say that the primary use of sex is REPRODUCTION. I want to argue the case that we have reached a certain stage in our development as species that this is no longer the case. The primary function of sex is now is for pleasure. The REPRODUCTION function has become secondary and even then that has become a matter of choice.
Humanity as a species may have been driven by principles of Darwinian Natural Selection in the past but we have reached a stage where Darwinian Reproductive urge no longer is in control. But we are now in control. We are in a sense living in a Anti-Darwinian world and in this world sex is for pleasure and nothing to do it REPRODUCTION.
As for me I think Sex is one of the amazing thing you can share between two people. Sex is fantastic. Through consensual Sex I have felt a connection and a closeness that is more akin to a connection that you can develop intellectually with another individual. I also felt joy, satisfaction, contentment, fulfilment, peace and also a very good night's sleep!! wink
So sex is good. It relieves tension. It is amazing. And yes SEX IS FOR PLEASURE.
I guess for the young'en's on this forum this thread is probably not for you because you have to experience sex before you will know how good it is wink
Sex is good but please don't rush out and impregnate the first girl you find. Practice safe sex OK!!! -) or no sex at all and wait till you are married ok chaps and chapess -)
Regards,
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Peace be upon you Lote Tree,
I have heard people say that the primary use of sex is REPRODUCTION
If you would be more scientific in your approach and not emotional (pleasure), you would see that it is the PRIMARY purpose. Why else would semen come out the penis at the end?
A secondary use of sex would be for spiritual purposes that have to do with the flow of Kundalini (qi, Ra force, ruh, etc) and should be between a man and woman and should not be taken to EXCESS.
Pleasure accompanies both cases, but realize that that which gives you pleasure is capable of enslaving you (drugs, money, sex, junk food, all addictions)
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Peace be upon you Johnny K,
What are you talking about brother?
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Peace Nabi,
These are aids Sawtooth. They make the experience worthwhile so that people can reproduce. Sex is pleasurable. If sex were not pleasurable then would people do it? Would people have to adopt the means of other species, such as a mating season?
Natural delivery(child birth) isn't physically pleasurable for the women. Infact it can be the most painful experience in one's life. But women do it, dont they?
Peace!
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Peace be upon you Sawtooth,
Ichenphren wrote this in the homesexuality thread
When a woman has an orgasm, it causes her vaginal muscles to contract, helping to propel the sperm into the required space to fertilize the egg
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Peace be upon you Peaceful Muslim,
Natural delivery(child birth) isn't physically pleasurable for the women. Infact it can be the most painful experience in one's life. But women do it, dont they?
It does not have to be painful if one learns the skills needed, namely meditation. Just google pain free childbirth.
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Peace Nabi,
These are aids Sawtooth. They make the experience worthwhile so that people can reproduce. Sex is pleasurable. If sex were not pleasurable then would people do it? Would people have to adopt the means of other species, such as a mating season?
Natural delivery(child birth) isn't physically pleasurable for the women. Infact it can be the most painful experience in one's life. But women do it, dont they?
Peace!
Salam,
The first time is also not pleasurable for most women. roll
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Peace idolfree1,
Natural delivery(child birth) isn't physically pleasurable for the women. Infact it can be the most painful experience in one's life. But women do it, dont they?
It does not have to be painful if one learns the skills needed, namely meditation. Just google pain free childbirth.
Once again, u seem to be loosing track of reality wink
Normal delivery(especially the first time) is bound to be painful. A huge head comes out of the vagina, for God's sake.I agree, being calm would ease a bit but saying it would make it pain free is an overstatement.
Its like saying that if somebody amputates ur hand.......It will be pain free for u if u r in meditation
Peace!
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Peace be upon you,
Once again, u seem to be loosing track of reality
Have you heard of Thich Quang Duc ?
Normal delivery(especially the first time) is bound to be painful. A huge head comes out of the vagina, for God's sake.
I agree, being calm would ease a bit but saying it would make it pain free is an overstatement.
Its like saying that if somebody amputates ur hand.......and it will be pain free for u if u r in meditation
I guess you never heard of Thich Quang Duc, the Buddhist Monk who sat in the Lotus meditation position and poured gasoline on his body and burned himself alive in protest of the Vietnam war, and did not move a muscle.
Here is one of MANY articles you can find on the subject as well as accompanying photos, showing he did not run about in "pain".
http//thewitness.org/archive/mayjune2003/arbogast.html
Just because you dont know about it doesnt make it "unreal".
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Peace idolfree1,
Once again, u seem to be loosing track of reality
Have you heard of Thich Quang Duc ?
Normal delivery(especially the first time) is bound to be painful. A huge head comes out of the vagina, for God's sake.
I agree, being calm would ease a bit but saying it would make it pain free is an overstatement.
Its like saying that if somebody amputates ur hand.......and it will be pain free for u if u r in meditationI guess you never heard of Thich Quang Duc, the Buddhist Monk who sat in the Lotus meditation position and poured gasoline on his body and burned himself alive in protest of the Vietnam war, and did not move a muscle.
Here is one of MANY articles you can find on the subject as well as accompanying photos, showing he did not run about in "pain".
http//thewitness.org/archive/mayjune2003/arbogast.html
Just because you dont know about it doesnt make it "unreal".Rnt we talking of ordinary human beings anymore? I wasnt referring to monks or saints but ordinary people.
Monks/ saints spend all their life meditating to reach where they reach.Now would u say an ordinary human being can emulate this act? This is where I say u r living in ideologies and not being realistic.
Peace!
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Peace
But women do it, dont they?
Sex is not childbirth. They do it because the baby must eventually leave the womb. I do not understand your point here.
The first time is also not pleasurable for most women.
Yes, sex is often masculinized. It is for the pleasure of the male. There are females (I believe a great amount) who have not had the opportunity to know what an orgasm is like, unfortunately. These are the women who have been with the wrong men, who are too , unfortunately, misinformed about sex.
There are tribes that have gone so far to educate the males and females about sex that they teach them how to please their future spouse. I think it is a good thing.
Joe
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Peace idol-free and all.
Quote; 'just beceause you dont know about it doesnt make it unreal.' shock Of all the people i didnt think i would hear this off you ! ? How can peaceful-muslim take this as knowledge without verification ? ! Just because you did not personally witness muhammed doesnt make him untrue ! D idol-free you are human after all ! You even seemed a bit emotional in your post. D
Dont worry im just being light-hearted. D But there is some truth in my comments !
Peace all.