What is love? - discuss.

[Bender]

Salaam,

Love is a waste of time

Salaam,
Bender

[good_logic]

Peace Bender.

I have just waisted 4 minutes 16 seconds! But I enjoyed it.

Peace Taro, I though I will give you a couple of quotes back!

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.

To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all!

GOD bless you both.
Peace.

[Taro_Hiroshi]

Peace hawk99,

Peace

30/21 And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that
you may find tranquillity in them, and He put between you love and mercy;
most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.

I think the word love is a verb, meaning something that is done, an action,
something we can see and something we can feel (tranquility). I know my wife
loves me by the way she treats me and how she looks at me, and how she touches me,
and how she worries about me, and yes corrects me and the way she takes care of me,
how much she wants to be around me and the tranquility on her face when we
are doing nothing but cuddling, and when we sing our favorite song together and
when she cries because she says Allah has blessed her with a good marriage and family.
So I know what love is and don't have to ask "What is Love?"

peace

Very interesting post, hawk99. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about "what love is." Your wife seems like a compassionate and insightful woman. And it seems that both of you have realized the meaning of true love. You are indeed a lucky man. I am happy for you.

Quran 2574 Those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from our mates and our progeny what will be the comfort of our eyes, and make us role models for the righteous."

May the God continue to bless you with a happy marriage.

[imrankhawaja]

what is love baby dnt hurt me, no more no more,

song expalin what love is actually, love is the kind of test lol in which very lucky people get pass,

drawbacks of love, anytimme it can happen with anybody , and it have no remedy at all, specially in the case of cheating on wife/husband.

advantages of love, could not find it yet still searching. rotfl one advantage it will give you experience about the next relationship but this advantage is not useful at all, lol

[imrankhawaja]

I think the word love is a verb, meaning something that is done, an action,
something we can see and something we can feel (tranquility). I know my wife
loves me by the way she treats me and how she looks at me, and how she touches me,
and how she worries about me, and yes corrects me and the way she takes care of me,
how much she wants to be around me and the tranquility on her face when we
are doing nothing but cuddling, and when we sing our favorite song together and
when she cries because she says Allah has blessed her with a good marriage and family.
So I know what love is and don't have to ask "What is Love?"

peace

lol i remeber the first our months of my first marriage she do the same with me, but as soon my bank account finish , her love finish as well,, rotfl rotfl

ohh thanx God i did not told her about my other accounts, yay yay otherwise her love would have been extended.

i remeber paying 50 pounds for one cup of tea when i come home tired. and i only ask a cup of tea actually a nasty and shit taste of tea once in a week, lol,

and another surprise , after two months of marriage i find out i m readymade father of 6 yeaar old kid, rotfl rotfl rotfl

thats what you say height of love,

after that i understand life is game , and there are lot of players , some are very much cheaters. now next time i will play safe.

but about the love of hawk, may Allah bless you always happiness and same love , inshAllah

about my case it was my own mistake i get honey trap with that so called love.and it was scam

by the way she is in very poor conditions now a days with a kid , and i help her in money matters , becoz as a true lover of God i must pay charity .

[fye]

What does the Quran say about love. I recall a verse speaking they love them as they should love ALLAH.
Is love dedication in this since we have about 100 years of life and I saw time being meantioned in a post here so dedication of time or more like sacrifice of time and energy?
If anyone gets any context clues about the word love from the Quran please post them it may give us a better answer.

[imrankhawaja]

What does the Quran say about love. I recall a verse speaking they love them as they should love ALLAH.
Is love dedication in this since we have about 100 years of life and I saw time being meantioned in a post here so dedication of time or more like sacrifice of time and energy?
If anyone gets any context clues about the word love from the Quran please post them it may give us a better answer.

the love of God is the only true love , all other loves are trial and like a matrix of this worldly dimenshn,

i cant recall verse but the meanings is only Allah who really cares and love creation, rest of them are necesseties , but make sure always and always love of God is priority , as far i concern i always love allah more than anything else, after Allah then prophets and then on third place my parents, rest of the loves are nasty and dodgy

[hawk99]

Peace hawk99,

Very interesting post, hawk99. Thank you for sharing your thoughts about "what love is." Your wife seems like a compassionate and insightful woman. And it seems that both of you have realized the meaning of true love. You are indeed a lucky man. I am happy for you.

Quran 2574 Those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from our mates and our progeny what will be the comfort of our eyes, and make us role models for the righteous."

May the God continue to bless you with a happy marriage.

Thank you Taro Hiroshi, I want for you and all others what I want for myself.

lol i remeber the first our months of my first marriage she do the same with me, but as soon my bank account finish , her love finish as well,, rotfl rotfl

Peace imrankhawaja, I think this post belongs in the thread "what is not love" yes

peace

[imrankhawaja]

Peace imrankhawaja, I think this post belongs in the thread "what is not love" yes

peace

hahaha, rotfl

there is no such thread exist here, hope so in future,

[The_Guided_One]

There are different kind of loves, you love your parents and you see their mistakes for example, but loving a girl can make you blind. Love for God is true love. Love is when you would die for that person. But you can love your dog too, and then comes the question , would you die for you dog? Nobody would, so we have different kinds of love. So to answer the question we first have to know about what kind of love and between who. I would say love is when you would die for that person or at least chop off your arm.

[huruf]

I understand that nobody here has mentionned Qur'an, but for the sake of clarity when the question asked is

what is love?
I would like to knnow which arabic word from the Qur'an is translated as love?

Love, like peace, is a very nice word which can mean anything, I would lik to know whther we are in ious dreams or getting into something clearer, so which word of the Qur'an means the love her is being spoken of?

Salaam

[imrankhawaja]

There are different kind of loves, you love your parents and you see their mistakes for example, but loving a girl can make you blind. Love for God is true love. Love is when you would die for that person. But you can love your dog too, and then comes the question , would you die for you dog? Nobody would, so we have different kinds of love. So to answer the question we first have to know about what kind of love and between who. I would say love is when you would die for that person or at least chop off your arm.

if somebody know you love them such a way that you will die for them , they wil take your advantage and they make you die and your death will give them life, lolxx, even if you love somebody dnt show them love

[The_Guided_One]

if somebody know you love them such a way that you will die for them , they wil take your advantage and they make you die and your death will give them life, lolxx, even if you love somebody dnt show them love

So you do not show love to your parents, or if you have a pet. Do you have a wife? I think not. Brother first you will have to feel real war and hate to realize what is love. You just go and laugh and make comments that make no sense, how can my death give someone life, that person is already alive and only Allah gives life, not me dying. You really do not now what love is, real love is worth dying for. Love for Allah is worth of dying.

[imrankhawaja]

So you do not show love to your parents, or if you have a pet. Do you have a wife? I think not. Brother first you will have to feel real war and hate to realize what is love. You just go and laugh and make comments that make no sense, how can my death give someone life, that person is already alive and only Allah gives life, not me dying. You really do not now what love is, real love is worth dying for. Love for Allah is worth of dying.

my brother , peace

first of all what ever i say in my post its imaginary/methphory not in actual,

like we say my life become hell,
or when you tensed somebody a lot , other person said you making me dead,
while under water when breath mix with water and you shout , i m dead rotfl

while enjoying party somebody say , i m feeling myself alive,

apart from that no doubt in reality and real meaning death and life is in the hands of almighty, supreme being.

red for this again you misunderstood , refer my post 86 regarding all this.

about my fun , some topics are funny some are romantic some are spirtual we need to act in manner according to subject tone,

now a days realtionship of husband/wife and GF/BF are like internat happen qucikly finish qucikly
may be life is going so fast in the era of tecnology and science advancments lol

peace God bless you

[The_Guided_One]

my brother , peace

first of all what ever i say in my post its imaginary/methphory not in actual,

like we say my life become hell,
or when you tensed somebody a lot , other person said you making me dead,
while under water when breath mix with water and you shout , i m dead rotfl

while enjoying party somebody say , i m feeling myself alive,

apart from that no doubt in reality and real meaning death and life is in the hands of almighty, supreme being.

red for this again you misunderstood , refer my post 86 regarding all this.

about my fun , some topics are funny some are romantic some are spirtual we need to act in manner according to subject tone,

now a days realtionship of husband/wife and GF/BF are like internat happen qucikly finish qucikly
may be life is going so fast in the era of tecnology and science advancments lol

peace God bless you

God bless you too, i misunderstood you

[imrankhawaja]

God bless you too, i misunderstood you

handshake

peace

[lostINtheWORLD]

https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhrBDcQq2DM

Haddaway ~ What is love?

Just for fun. No off-topic intended.

However, a good question indeed.

[imrankhawaja]

https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhrBDcQq2DM

Haddaway ~ What is love?

Just for fun. No off-topic intended. )

However, a good question indeed.

i already remind of that song, what is love baby dnt hurt me, no more,lolxx

[hawk99]

Apparently my definition of what is love was incomplete to
some people because folks have determined that there are many
kinds of love but if we continue to define love as a verb or an action
word and that action is given out towards an object (noun or pronoun, idea etc.,)
we will find that love is consistent and that only the objects change.
Love is always how one treats, feels towards an object!

am I getting closer?

O0

[HP_TECH]

Apparently my definition of what is love was incomplete to
some people because folks have determined that there are many
kinds of love but if we continue to define love as a verb or an action
word and that action is given out towards an object (noun or pronoun, idea etc.,)
we will find that love is consistent and that only the objects change.
Love is always how one treats, feels towards an object!

am I getting closer?

O0

I endorse this. The objects are the ones that change but the act of loving remains consistent.
Love entails care, comfort, concern for, protection of and desire for the recipient to improve,succeed, progress, thrive. One of the qualities it holds it is that it is unconditional.

I believe people mistakenly load the word love with other ideas.
When most people refer to romantic love they load the word love with attraction and desire(& etc).
While these concepts are distinct from what love is.
You can have attraction towards someone or desire someone without loving them.
This is indicative of the word love having loaded meaning.

Hawk is correct, the act of loving or even the noun love is consistent