Salamun Alayka,
You are doing fine with your emoticons, but you have to work on your emotions.
"Bendeeeeerrrrrr you stole my chance" is a cry of someone who can't control his anger management and besides this it's also a big lie.
I wonder what the penalty is for accusing someone for stealing something which in not even his hmm
A -- chopping of the fingers who typed it
B -- chopping of the tongue who spoke it out
C -- chopping of the brains who thought it
Salaam,
Bender
ps. there is also an option D
D -- send a big amount of $$$ to my account to compensate me for the big emotional damage and some extra $$$ for harming my good name on this forum.
Salamun Alayk,
Woah woah woah, ..... I should have better known that free-minds has sharp and intelligent minds too ;D
However, though your analysis is quite accurate, there are three points I would like to raise
The sentence at hand was initially supposed to come in a "jokingly" or "teasingly" manner, not "angrily". Where I come from, extending someone's name like that is to depict light desperation or frustration for doing something slightly disliked by the person saying it, yet in a very light mood and tone, certainly not with a "mad" or "angry" one. So perhaps it's due to the cultural difference that you misunderstood me, for talking like this to someone does not give the impression of actual anger or mismanagement of anger in my society. Extending someone?s name like that in a sentence does not mean that one is screaming, or having a harsh tone, but simply showing slight disheartenment. Such expressions are followed by ?But it?s cool/okay? and a smile. Conclusively, my intention was not to show that I am angry or have an anger mismanagement problem, but was simply, slightly disheartened.
My apologies for using the word "Steal", I realized how absurd it sounds, I should have you used the word "Took", or should have said "Bendeeeeeeerr,r I missed my chance because of you", or "Bendeeeeerrr, you made me miss my chance". Though, then again, ever heard the phrase "Steal someone's thunder"? Well as per the dictionary I possess, it means "Win praise for oneself by preempting someone else's attempt to impress", where one of the meanings of "Preempting" is "Acquire or appropriate (Something) in advance". Hence, my usage of "Steal" does not necessarily mean the traditional "Taking something from someone without permission or right", but can very well mean taking something that I could've done. Though now I have realized that it?s not your posting before me that is the cause me not being able to share the verse, but it?s my lack of being attentive that is the cause, hence I acknowledge my bad usage of words, but even then, I didn't have the intention of accusing you directly or indirectly at all, but simply joke around.
I used the phrase "Just kidding" later, which more or less negates what I said before it. At Urbandictionary.com, a person wrote that the following are the usages of this expression (and got a positive feedback too)
You were just joking around with somebody
You were actually serious but decided what you said was actually very mean
You were actually serious but since that person took what you said offensively you cover it up by saying" just kidding"
When you try to confess to something and that person is either laughing at you in disbelief or just very angry you cover it up by saying just kidding
3 and 4 cannot be the case for I wrote the expression before any reaction by you, hence, 1 and 2 are left. Since I'm the guy who said it, I would obviously know better what my intention was, and it was certainly 1, not 2. I never thought that it is "actually very mean" to begin with, and was in reality "joking around" with you, that's all. As far as "joking" is concerned, well as per thefreedictionary.com, here are the meanings of this term
joke (jk)
n.
Something said or done to evoke laughter or amusement, especially an amusing story with a punch line.
A mischievous trick; a prank.
An amusing or ludicrous incident or situation.
Informal
a. Something not to be taken seriously; a triviality The accident was no joke.
b. An object of amusement or laughter; a laughingstock His loud tie was the joke of the office.
v. joked, jok?ing, jokes
v.intr.
To tell or play jokes; jest.
To speak in fun; be facetious.
v.tr.
To make fun of; tease.
See the "Something not to be taken seriously", and "Tease"? Well that is exactly what I had in mind, to simply say something not to be taken seriously, and was simply "Teasing" you.
Hence, dear brother Bender, my apologies for any misunderstandings, I take back what you said if you got offended by my comment -[, and I let all people who read this know that I had no intention of harming Bender's good name at the forum at all )
Peace