Ra-jah,
I am not complaining to any one it is Just to put my grevience on the record and make the record straight.
This is contradictory as one can see after reading your post. You obviously are complaining. Send these types of letters to Layth himself directly, the mods or the people with who you have grievances instead of raising these issues on a public thread. Not only is this OT but it is also a breach of Rule 1. Anything else posted in response to this now will be either deleted, moved to the trash and/or disciplinary action taken.
So, I was banned from the forum once again as at various times am banned from Sunni Christian and Shia forums, Ahmedi's and Atheists forums being an exceptions.
So? Is that supposed to prove something? Someone just posted comments merely generalising about women on a game forum and they were banned let alone anything even resembling the insulting comments posted about another poster here.
The words i colored Red are extremly insulting and degrading if one understands Urdu and English. But astonishingly none of the Moderators found these words insulting, and Farida kept on posting after the Ban was enforced on Me.
Read the Forum Rules if you are unclear and posting assumptions what the mods found or not. And while you're at it, also take a look at your own history and how the process spans from a step 1 to 2 and so on.
Sikander may be a Urdu speaker got the insult and advised Ms. Farida
Surprisingly, he isn't the only Urdu speaker on the forum, so it is just one person's opinion...needless to say the complaints about your insult (which you refuse to admit is one, or even apologise for as if it's a paltry little off hand remark about the weather as factual as you like) were far more and apparently not just from women.
Secondly her aide and friend Elke also admitted that this was rude and show of arrogance, however she said it in taunting way (taunt towards all the men)
And somehow this justifies your insults and makes it all okay...a poster you think was taunting you (a man as you seem to insist)? It doesn't make it okay and a lot is taken into consideration before banning someone, inclusive of the weight of the insults and the past history.
Surprisingly none of the moderators noticed this. Well I am not bothered with this at all.
And somehow surprisingly you are mysteriously privy to the mods discussions. Interesting, can you also make predictions with your second sight? Wait...this is deja-vu since I've mentioned second sight before and that was when I was responding to...gasp you...weird but true. And no, you are bothered, thus this anguished post.
Instead I see that some real Intellectual minds post on this forum like "Arnold Yasin", "Edip Yuksel", though I strongly disagree with this person "Ayman" but he is genius, and some thoughts of Layth himself, and few others they are the only reasons to be here.
Chance is a fickle mistress. Somehow all these intellectual minds are men! (no reason, I just thought I'd link it with the "chance" occurence of you being banned whenever you talked to a "woman" and assumed it "must be" because of the biological differences rather than anything else) Maybe you should just soak up the wisdom that permeates these boards then coming from the men, and just talk to those you assume are men and thus this way it will be safe, an all men's club with cigars and intellect and stuff. May I suggest a signature? "I stop only for men"...it might be misconstrued but hey, you shouldn't mind...you've been misconstruing plenty of stuff here with a liberal sprinkling of insults towards myself and others but if you ever get called on it...it's just because we're women and men would understand or towards myself it's because I'm a woman and autocratic and arrogant and god knows what else. So I too, would like this to be a record (minus the complaints and the whines though who thinks anyone ever keeps to that eh?). I must admit though, it feels good to throw a pity party (you should only invite men though).
The Moderator should be a person who is not short tempered.
I too have suggestions Layth. The posters should not be men. Only women should join our forum and if they are men, they must know their place and act appropriately.
Moderator should act as a Moderator.
The posters should act like women even if they are men. No wait, they should just act in the way I like them too, meaning like I think women should act.
Moderator should not so frequently indulge in the debates. I rarely see Nadeem, Nabi, or Tay posting, even if they, it is precise, others should follow this. May be they use some other Nicks.
Women may sometimes use male nicks just for variety even if it's a breach of the rules, since I will only whine if the rules affect me otherwise I don't mind encouraging people to break the rules. I will also only list a couple of women who I know haven't been active in eons and ignore the others who I think are men and have had arguments and grievances with.
Before you Ban some one give him a chance to explain, that is Islamic and democratic, autocratic type of behavior will just harm the site.
Before any women are banned, we must let them explain that they are not men...however this can just be assumed to be a front and insincere because seriously, how can we ever know unless we check? But what about the words? Yes, words can be subjective and if I say you are a danger to all women, ignorant and arrogant and my second sight tells me if you were married you are now divorced (because no woman would ever want to stay married to you) and if you are not (my second sight failed me here but no matter) God help you (as no woman would even spit in your general direction)...it's not an insult and can be explained away. This type of behaviour will truly harm the site. I agree.
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